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writes:dear cupid,sorry if this is long. this is extremly hard to type so please please make it worth it...when i was 9 my best friend was going out with a 15 year old lad who was a total b****rd who cheated on her and i was scared of him very much. one day i was walking home from school past a forrest near to my house and he came up behind me bragging about a treehouse he built in the forrest. he asked me to go see it. i was so stupid and niave that i went. he put his hands on me against a tree, hit me across the face repedidly when i strunggled until i was near enough unconcious. he pushed me onto the floor climbed ontop of me and tried to get under my skirt. i knew what was happening although i just could'nt move. at that point an older friend who was about 17 came over and got him off me. he ran off and my friend helped me home. I have only ever told my current boyfriend this. not my family or friends. only me and that 17 year old, and rob (boyfriend). rob is very understanding. sometimes i have flash back or what i call ' black points' where i cant even let rob touch me i dus curl up in a ball and cry unable to feel safe. i have to walk past that forest everyday.seeing me like this is soo upsetting for rob and he told me to tell someone else and get help. it has taken me a year to finally take his advise. i dont want to be scared anymore. i just want to be normal. he came back a second tome last year and hit me across he face but i hit him in the balls with my foot and ran inside and hid until he was gone. i havent seen him since. my old friend who went out with him told me he was in prison with theft and when he gets out he has to move away i dont know the details.please help me with any advice you can. thankyou xxx
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reader, minibash +, writes (22 April 2007):
A similar thing happened to me sweetheart so i know how you feel. It happened to me except i didn't have any one to intervene. I was 15. Again it was with a guy i knew. I am now 21 and never told any one - that was the worst thing i could have possibly done. even to this day i get flashbcks because i never dealt with what happened to me. i recently got up he courage to talk to my mum and she was great. i have been in counselling and that helped to. the advice that i'm offering to you is talk to your family and go to the police. it will be the best therapy you can get. Also go and see your doctor he/she might be able to give you something to help with the black points. if you need to talk to some one who has gone through it feel free. Hope this helps. XX
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reader, beleiveitbabyx3 +, writes (22 April 2007):
 yes, you should deffinatly get some help call and talk to your family members
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