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writes:helloi was wondering if you can help me with this sensitive problem.i'm 23, my husband is 29 and we've been married for a year and together since we were 17.a good friend told me she'd seen my husband with a 64-year-old woman.she said she overheard him saying to this woman in a restaurant "let's have a night of passion, the wife's a dull bore. it's been so f***in great being with you i want to marry ya" to which she said "you cheeky b***er" and he said "ok, i'll just tell the wife i'm off for a round of golf with my buddies". she also told me she overheard him proposing to her in the restaurant too.she said she was sorry to tell me this, but she was with a friend in the same restaurant that day having lunch - and didn't want to confront him in case she caused a scene.i confronted him over this, he said it's true, but none of my business. i told him it was, and he refused to discuss it.now he's on a work trip for 2 weeks, i've tried contacting his mobile, but i can't get hold of him. i've contacted his friends, but they won't tell me where he is - it feels like ive entered a wall of silence.i feel sick, upset and disgusted - i thought i trusted my husband, now i feel like i can't trust anyone, apart from my friend who was kind enough to tell me this.i can't get over it, and can't understand why someone his age would want a pensioner anyway!he's only the second man ive been with, now i feel like i cant trust another man.what should i do next?? help me please! Reply to this Question
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reader, superfly +, writes (30 April 2007):
Sorry to hear of your pain.
I am a 31y-o, male and i don't deserve to be with my wife, who i have been married for 5 years. I met a 73 year old women on line, b/c i had an interest and desire to have sex with a women of such age, but good healthy body.
we chatted for over a month and one day, i asked if i could come over and i went over and before i did, we had moments online talking about sex, etc.
when i got there, we talked for about 30minutes on the sofa, and i leaned to kiss her, and we started from there. my erection was so hard that i knew this was an experience i never felt before. the old lady never knew i was married. we had sex in the way i did when i first met my wife, all through the night. afterwards, we did it many times thereafter.
she tells me she enjoys it b'c of the age thing, and so do i, but i don't want to be married to her. however your husband is reacting entirely out of fantansy, and more than likely, he's laying up with this women for two weeks.
he will come to understand like i did, that there is noone like your wife, and it's a blessing to have one that loves you and cares about you.
after that experience, i am grateful to still be married and my wife doesn't know. it's a problem what i did. it's a refection on unhealthy upbringings.
so, the old lady is 74 now, and when i do leave from the wife, i go out and lay up with the mature lady to get m rocks off.
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reader, Say It Straight  +, writes (25 April 2007):
When he gets back confront him again, ask him wether he wants to be with her or wether it was a joke, I had a friend who was suspicious of his wife checking up on his every move, he did a similar thing when he knew a friend of hers was eavesdropping except he pretended to be gay, he let her stew for a bit then came clean, they sorted their problems out and have a far stronger relationship because of it, however if he is serious, kick him into touch the lying cheating bbbbbbb
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reader, accused +, writes (22 April 2007):
 Let me start off with how close would this friend have to be sitting to over hear the conversations with your husband and this other woman? and if you confronted your husband with the conversation that your friend came back and told you about and he admitted it was true. Then to go away on a trip and you HIS WIFE are not able to contact him??? Your husbands friends WON"T TELL YOU where he is? Sorry but your HIS WIFE!!!!!!! What kind of man does this to his wife? I feel that you've gotten all the information you need! We can't make people want us, and if your husbnad wants a (64-yr old woman) then let him have her.... apparently he's attracted to grandmothers, walkers, & geritol! You will find someone to love and resepct you, I wish you the best of luck.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): there is only 1 reason why a man of 29yrs old would be seen with a 64yr woman as his lover,money because to be honest its sick and you wouldn`t even concider sexual attraction to someone whom could be ur grandmother,she maybe even a glamour granny(so to speak)but her body is that of a 64yr woman and there is no comparison,hopefuly this woman has family and will put a stop to this mad relationship,and you should thank your lucky stars that your away from someone whom is mentaly unstable,forget him and definately move on,you deserve the best a guy can give you
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