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*xxkrazykatiexxx
writes:Me n my bf hav just broken up cos of his parents. he is the first guy i've had sex with n the only guy i hav ever loved should i keep fighting for our relationship or just give up. we were together a year. sum1 help! Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxkrazykatiexxx +, writes (23 April 2007):
xxxkrazykatiexxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone!!
i sorted it we going to give it a while for everything to calm down after recent events. and when i am a little older we going to give it another go.
Thanks for your advice everyone...
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (23 April 2007):
I definitely think that you should fight for it.
I've had constant problems with my fiances parents throughout our two year relationship. We're talking some pretty serious things here, like threatening to have me beaten up while I was in work, and then turning the police on me for something that I hadn't done and was subsequently proven not to have done.
I think the best thing that you can both do is try to work out exactly what his parents issues are, and try to make him understand that they are putting unreasonable pressure on him. Moreover, if he's going to cave into them this time, then what hopes really for the future, if they decide they don't like anyone else he is with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): the both of you should sit down and explain the situation to the parents.How old are you?it simply could be because they think hes too young.explain that you are in love,also ask him how he feels about the situation.if your in love his parents should understand you and maybe wen they see u both together and talk to you they might empathise with you more.suggest that you could spend more time at their house so they can get to know you,its important to you and deserve to be happy
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reader, accused  +, writes (22 April 2007):
 Why does his parents not want you two together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): if you love him then yes even though his parents don't like you doesnt mean tht he dont like you!You should possibly sit down and talk to his parent(Your x being in the room) and explain that you 2 love each other so you would like to make a go at this relationship good luck mate.
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 April 2007):
 Without knowing that much about your situation here, the reason behind why you split up because of his parents its hard to say.
What i can say is that if you truly love this guy then keep fighting for your relationship. Don't give up, it if you love him, and he loves you it shoulden't matter what anyone else thinks atal, nothing should come between love.
Good luck x
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reader, Love Machine` +, writes (22 April 2007):
 U should keep on fighting if u love him and he loves u his parents shouldn't get in the way!
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