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writes:I am curious if anyone has a similar problem? My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. An ex said he's never seen anyone get that wet before and he used to have to pull out occasionally during intercourse to dry me off with a handtowel. My current boyfriend jokes about needing a snorkel and goggles and I think he's afraid of going down there because it's so "gushy." He says that I'm probably just very excited but I'm wondering if any women have the same issue and what you do about it?
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reader, reefa  +, writes (18 April 2012):
i am only 16 years old and i m still a virgin,i haven't kissed any boy yet.i really wanna have sex but my bad luck never gave me the chance of loosing my virginity!what-so-ever,my vagina always gets wet and a smell comes from it,so,its embarassing. even if i saw a good looking boy walking in front of me my vagina gets wet which led my pant gets wet!so,i wanna tell you not to worry about your problem cos many of us has the same prob,so , chill out and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2012): I have this same problem and unfortunately as it may sound good to some...its not a good thing. So much lubrication that no one can feel anything during sex leaves both of us unsatisfied and frustrated. Some extra lubrication is one thing, but to the excessiveness that there is no longer the needed friction to climax, is not a good thing! Does anyone know how to reduce this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): That is normal. My ex gf got the same.
It is really turn men on
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): I do have this issue and I take a mucinex a half ou before sex(pass the time by living b.j.)it dries up excessive mucous
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011): One of the best solutions is reverse cowgirl. It creates plenty of friction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2011): Ok, I actually go through the opposite. I'm not saying that I'm extra dry or anything like that, but I wouldn't be extra dry either. I looked into this post hoping to find a way that I can get extra wet in bed. I know my bf would love it because that's all he talks about how wet his ex used to be and It someone became an insecurity for me. So I need to know the secret In getting extra wet! And squirting as wel! Someone please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2011): This is awesome. I would not consider this a problem in the least. Wow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): Maybe try another position to increase friction, while maintaining the positive sensation of the moisture. Try lying on your stomach with a pillow under your hips and have him stradle you from behind while you keep your legs together. My boyfriend and I use this one a lot - it's awesome.
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reader, frntloader  +, writes (2 August 2011):
 As a male reader of this site, yes I have experienced this with a past g/f and find it very exciting and love the taste during oral, I could tell from how wet she was how turned on she was, ladies I know some of you find it off putting either by amount you produce and or the lack of friction please please view this not as a problem rather more as a blessing and enjoy it .
Some where in the back of my 52yr old gray matter I remember reading some advice to try "Hay-fever tablets"
I can't confirm this (hopefully someone with good medical knowledge can opinion-ate please)
Please suggest/ask your GP first !! before just leaping in taking medications !!
Question -- does anyone who suffers from hay-fever and also has high vaginal moisture notice any difference during hay-fever session ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): I am an older gentalman 56 to be honest, I still love a woman that can get this wet ,I wish I could drink it as stated by others.To have a woman that wet is not a real problem getting off either what you need to do is experiment with anal sex as well and all can be satisfied,takes a patient man to achieve butt if done properly you both will end up enjoying it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011): I have the same exact problem && don't understand why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2011): What if you get so wet and your a lesbian. My girl hates when i get wet cause i cant do make love. Its too deep for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): Yeah that happens to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): Well, i dont see that as a problem since my husband LOVEs it. My vagina gets REALLY wet before we have sex. Wet enough to soak all my panties and legs. Also, when I come I usually squirt up to 200 ml of liquid which most part of the time he simply drinks it. I say that the problem is not to get or not to get wet, but how is your partner's reaction. Talking to him is always a good solution, and if he cant understand how blessed you are (for me, this is a blessing) better to change partner.
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reader, born2shynn +, writes (19 May 2011):
Wow I just stumbled up on this thread. In my opinion This is really not a problem. I have always had the moto "the wetta tha betta" I just feel the man needs to put in more work to satisfy you. Again just my opinion and I wish I could be so luck to be in a relationship with a woman this (Non Problem)
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reader, LilyTheLegendWarrior  +, writes (16 May 2011):
Well it sort of depends on the mans personalitiy, he might just be shy or worried. But i say you two get it over with if your going to the next level in the relationship, you want to be sure hes the one... I prefer you just go for it, see how it is. He should love you and your body no matter what you look like your obviously always going to be beautiful! (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): To everyone saying this is NOT a problem, well it really is. My vagina really gets TOO wet, he looses his erection and we both are very turned off by it. When my vagina gets so wet it feels like it loosens so there is really no friction at all and then we just decide to stop because what is the point in having sex if we can't feel anything. I am very upset about this and I wish I could do something about it. We are losing our sexual attraction for one another and it's scaring me that he might start to cheat because he can't get off when we have sex. So if anyone out there actually has an answer rather than an opinion it would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Eagles07 +, writes (26 April 2011):
I miss that the most about my last partner. We dated for three years and had the best sex life. Alls I had to do was to massage her thighs and I could feel get wet through her jeans. I loved how wet she got and it made me feel amazing. I loved having sex doggstyle and watching how soaked my penis was, it was a major turn on. I thought it made sex ten-times better and really enjoying. I have dated many women and the my ex of three years was the best and it had alot to do with her vagina always getting so wet. Too bad for me another man is enjoying that as we speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): It happens to me even when im not doing anything sexual its just ALWAYS wet. its soo annoying!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): I'll terminate my logging to-morrow night. I can simply tell you that a wet girl terribly excitations a man: her fluid makes the intercourse more pleasant for both parties and at the end I am a man who adores licking her 'gushy' squirting liquid which tastes very savory and exalting
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): I have that problem and um not okey with it but my girlfriend likes it very much, she says she enjoy sex when um like that way
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): I have the same problem, but mine of 15 years loves it, and love to lick it.. I get embarrass even throughout all these years, but it makes him go crazy in a good way...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): i also get very wet, sometime so wet that when my partner fingers me, my vagina makes a sort of squelching noise, this brings humour to my partner, and i really want it to stop
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): My partner has a simlar vagina, so always ensure she has on or two orgasms before we have sex. I find this works very well as she dryss upto a level which gives the friction you need.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): I get very wet but my boyfriend have no problem with it he love it....and it make sex that much mindblowing....he called me aquafina...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): I think a lot of girls here (and some guys too) who have woes about "not being able to feel anything" may be able to solve their problems with regular Kegel's exercises! They solved mine! I was (and still am) incredibly wet, as in running down my legs, leaving wet spots through my jeans and on the sheets. Like I read a million times here, the puddles get my boyfriend very, very aroused, and knowing that it's really too bad that there would be 1) girls who are embarrassed and 2) guys who think it's dirty! It's a product of arousal! Research and information time! My problem was that as soon as we stopped messing around and put himself in me, the friction just wasn't there. I know everyone says it and no-one believes it, but size reeeaaaally wasn't the issue! I tried Kegel's on and off for a bit thinking it would help and I got super discouraged when it didn't. When I stuck to it every day and made sure I was doing them properly did it ever make a difference.The river of wetness is still very much there, it still makes my boyfriend hard as a rock, and now my vagina is jacked and I'm not the only one enjoying it!It really helps to be able to control the way your vag feels to him, and I know from experience that it can feel like there isn't even anywhere to start there. Keep at it.PS while you're working on it, trying variants of positions and wiping helps too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): im 19 yrs old and i have a major wetting problem. We will just be kissing and slowly touching each other and before he gets to taking my pants off im already soaking wet no joke. i hate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): I also get really wet during foreplay and when I let myself go, I do waterfall during sex. I've learned to live with it as when it does happen, they're the best orgasms EVER but guys I've been with really have a problem going down on me. I've only been with one guy who liked going down and now my current boyfriend is making me feel really self conscious about it. He's a nice guy so he says it isn't a problem but it's clear that the few times he has gone down on me, he really doesn't like the fact that I get so wet. It's really upsetting & I don't know what to do as you can't force someone to like something & I can't just settle for giving & not receiving all the time. I'm actually thinking about ending the relationship because of this, it's really getting to me. In a perfect world, I'd make him love it like all the men on this post seem to but I don't know how to make him appreciate it. He thinks it's dirty & not in a good way :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): I don't think this is a problem. Your guy is lucky!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): Interesting and unfortunate reading the answers on how most of the women respond and see it as a "problem". Unfortunately, ladies that holds you back from truly letting go and ejaculating via the skeens gland or G spot. For woman that are wet to begin with it is easier for G Spot orgasms. This level of orgasm (G spot and ejaculation) allows for multiple orgasms without the need for recovery as found in a clitoral orgasm. Yes the G spot orgasm is very wet as some women I've been with "squirt" a half a cup or more as they climax and climax for minutes instead of seconds found in a clitoral orgasm. All women are able to orgasm this way but very few allow themselves to because their partner doesnt provide the trust and security needed for a woman to move through her self conciousness into a realm of self awareness and expression. Playful teasing for both is exceptable. But if your boyfriend is making fun of your wetness give him a look and tell him he better do his research and focus on the 5 areas in a womens vagina to get you off (A, C, G, F and back spot) instead of the 3.5 minutes of penetration hes been giving you on average.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): Hi yes I have this problem, I have had to try and control it by thinking of something none sexual which can be difficult when your in that situation. My fiance says he loves it as it's a compliment but I still get worried that I'm a bit abnormal as my fiance and a previous boyfriend said they have never known anyone to get that wet it's been nicknamed a mermaids flannel! Obviously meaning very wet area. But I think it's better then being to dry :-) I think it just shows your as excited as he is!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): My fiancee gets very wet when we make love and the more aroused she is the wetter she is. I dont think it is a bad thing as I get a indication that I am doing the right thing for her and as I love her it dosnt bother he how wet she gets!! We have talked about it and she also really enjoys getting very wet!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): I'm 21 and anyone I have ever had sex with has said it is extremely sexy men seem to love it however the bigger They are the better it feel for both when you get this wet I mean if your making out with a guy and there are other people around I don't think he would appreciate a wet spot on his lap but when your alone they love it and guys seem to love going down on me even I I am that wet I think it's hot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): I too have the same probably I get soo wet when my boyfriend and I are just fooling around. Buy the time we actually have sex I am completely dripping and my boyfriend just loves it. So I would consider this normal and a very good thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): I think a girl being so wet is very sexy. It is a huge turn on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Nearly all women who ever achieve orgasm do so because of wetness. Be proud of it because many others long for it. As a man, I enjoy wet sex because it is self lubricating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): I also have also the problem of getting extremelt wet, it came to a point whereby i fake orgasm almost every time,my bf does not complain though,because i never use to be that wet before,i think he enjoys it or not.my biggets concern is that i never reach orgasm..ever!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): I get wet extremely too and my boyfriend likes it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): I have this problem too. It's all very well people saying that it's a good thing but I get so wet that it means my boyfriend keeps slipping out which is very frustrating (I can only come in missionary). As a result we haven't had sex for months. It's only been a problem with him and he's not small - he just turns me on so much. This is really frustrating cos we both love each other very much but we are basically just like best friends and I really miss the closeness that regular sex brings. If anyone has any suggestions I'd really love to hear them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): You have the best kind. Believe me, you'd rather be super wet than dry. You may need a man that's not afraid of good sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): I have the same problem and to be honest i dont like it, my partner and i are swingers so its a problem for me as i like oral but am sometimes too embarressed that its so wet down there....is there anything i can do to stop it from happening, i hate to say it but i need a " make it dry " pill
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reader, JDiva +, writes (18 January 2011):
Its not a problem at all its a good thing I am also a very wet person it pleasureful to me cause as long as I now its feeling good to him then that's what makes me cum it makes me feel like I have power and I know he's not going anywhere cause I got that "dangerous stuff" as he says
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): welli don't see this as a promble its really good to get so wet down there when having sex and really any guy that thinks its a promble should qustion his own may hood i think as my girl friend has the same thing and it really a turn on for me and to be honest none of hear ex have ever complaned to her about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): I know what you're talking about, I get extremely wet, but the man who I'm currently talking with --he loves it, I think it's just a matter of what you want sexually, how much and who you're with appreciates it--I mean he loves going down, it's wonderful. It's all about the level of comfort--after all, all of our bodies work differently and we should love it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): I'm the same way!! One time, I was making out with my boyfriend (before the first time we ever had sex together) and he pulled me on top of him while he was on the couch and I was literally soaked through my panties, jeans and onto his pants. There was like a huge spot of wetness on his pants after like 3 minutes of making out. He loves it and I was never self conscious about it. Well, I was once because I left my panties on the floor while we were having sex and after that he went to the bathroom, and when he was walking into the room he stepped on them and he said it felt like he stepped on a wet towelette xD He thought it was awesome but I was like ew.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): I have always been able to get wet but lately I have been really wet and my bf love it, although he seem to nut fast cus he says "it feels too good" it doesn't bother him and he still go down on me and everything is fine! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): My girlfriend who I have only been seeing a few months gets really wet before and increasingly during sex. I love it as it shows how excited and aroused she is. We found a couple of times that she looses a little sensation and due to lack of friction so do I. With a bit of experimentation though we have found a solution. For me the guy a cock ring works great, it keeps me hard and increases feeling, for her instead of just pumping in and out of her I go really deep and move my hips in a roatating movement to keep hitting her G spot. We now both have the best sex we have ever had :-) Hope this proves useful to someone out there! CB
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): Yes I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): My girlfriend is the same way she usually soaks through her panties by the time were done with an intense make out session, at first she was really embarrassed, but I absolutely love it and now she is not self conscious at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): i have this same issue, i've always been told that i get more wet than anyone's ever known. if i'm even just making out for a couple minutes, its like niagra falls down there. i used to be self conscious about it but when i was told it was amazing, i started to relax about it. its nice because i never need lubrication, even when i'm masterbating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): I really don´t consider that as a problem, my wife (34) has got the same wetness and we have already discarded any infection or illness (through medical examination and lab tests)...my wife considers that as quite normal, and i find it really arousing...i can penetrate her anytime without pain
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): My girlfrend always gets dat wet...i think its hot :D...she thought i'd be put off by it, but i find it really erotic :D
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reader, sexyboy77 +, writes (5 December 2010):
This is hot! I wouldn't be worried about this at ALL! Thanks for sharing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): I have the same problem but i tend to get it all day and i hate it, but my boyfriend and i were messin around one day and now he gave me the nick name wetter and he says it in front of anyone and i get so embarrassed,
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): well im a female and my man loves that im so wet i can be wet all day long then when it finally comes time. his truck or bed is saoked he says he lykes it but he wont eat me he says m too wet is there such thng as bieng to wet
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): I get he same problem as you, but as wierd as this sounds i have found that guys with bigger penis usually like it to be wetter more othe than little penix becuase they slip out easier.
But the guy i am with now has a small penis and he likes it very much. He syas easier for him to erect. he also says he never had a girl like me but he loves it. hope it helps.
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reader, MissUKnow +, writes (8 November 2010):
I get the same way! I get VERY wet during sex or even before. I've been told by a lot of men that I am too wet for them too stay hard or it felt too good so they came quickly. VERY QUICKLY. Or the condom fell off becuz it was too slippery. I thought it was a good thing to be wet. Is it posbbile for a man to not stay hard cuz I'm too wet????
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010): My girlfriend does NOT get wet at all anymore! I wish I had a GF that did!!!! Of course guys like it! Imagine if you were about to sleep with your BF and he stopped getting erections. 1. It would be impossible to have vaginal sex. 2. It would make you feel horrible, that the person that you love and supposedly loves you back is NOT turnend on by you! Well that's how I feel about my girlfriend not getting wet AT ALL. HORRIBLE! Then on top of that, she doesn't like the way lube feels. My poor penis! I have even tried foreplay, NOPE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): mine gets the same way !! like running down my leg kinda wet. it goes up my back if i lay down. if my bf goes down on me it goes all over his face and its super messy. . guys like it, and its ok during, but after. . it feels pretty gross to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): I have this same problem...my boyfriend nicknamed me puddles...i asked him if it bothers him and he says no but sometimes he looses an erection during sex...he says its not me but i am beginning to wonder
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): I have the same problem. I also get wet just buy getting arroused. I mean very wet.. But I have only been with one man he is my husband and I tell him i hate being so wet.. He tells me he likes it. It turns him on more... I have even asked my doctor and he says it is normal..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): i have the same problem,, i get wet even when i think of sex,, i keep some paper towel near to me on the bed,, when my man kisses me on my lips, my vagina leaks a lot and ,, i wipe it constantly,,, in the foreplay my man wipes me before he licks me down there,, i also feels emberrased sometime but its ok,, everybody is different,,i cant enjoy sex sometimes because my inside becomes so slippery that i cant feel his penis,,, so i make pose for him,, i do cow girl and enjoy myself,,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Im a 19 year old girl, and I have been experiencing this from the moment I can remember. Every one I have been with has said it is hott and extremely nice. if able to control your muscles the squirting gets exciting too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): it happens when blood rushes to the vaginal walls and tissue fluid passes through, however i believe its one of the most amazing things ever. any girl shouldnt be worried but should instead treasure this amazing capability.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): I recently started to date a girl the first time we had sex it was realy wet but put that down to forplay the secand time the same but the last time got me worryed as it seamed to explode asif id pulled the plug out of the bath.Allways thaught GUSHING was a mith,as a bloke for the 1st time i was worryed but never said anything to her as think she was a little embarassed.now my minds at rest and can keep enjoying must say it is a nice thing even if a tad messy .....thank god for GOOGLE.... and girls worry not blokes love it ..........
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): i'm experiencing this now my pussy gets extremely wet and i'm 32
i think that its awful. i went through a dry spell in 07
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): I always have the same problem. I have
no idea why and especially during sex this happens to me. It's completley normal though, so don't worry about it too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): I think it's crazy to see this as a problem !!I've always been really turned on by my husband..one of the main reasons I married him !!!we've always had great sex. Now our children have left home sex is better than ever...Being really wet means you can have sex for hours.My husband loves it ...he feels great knowing how much I love the feel of him inside me...And I feel great at how we can have sex for hours on end we never need lubrication !!! He loves how wet I am for him..he knows I really want him and love the feeling of his cock really deep inside me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): it's not a problem at all =] it's great and sometime when it get to wet you wipe it off a litle but your fine!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): I have the same wetness "problem" and im really glad to read that is something normal! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): My girlfriend is the same way and I think it is great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): i am 28 and and i get the same way i think that it is perfect noraml as long as you dont have a smell. gryl let your man enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, love2godown +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Hi,
I would say you are blessed!!! I would find that very erotic and would love to go down on Women like that. Count your blessing!!!!
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 This question is answered, and I think it is not question or trouble, but hold as trouble or question due to lack of knowledge. Just as it is good for male to have very hard, stone hard erection, which is the sign of physical and mental health, so it is with female, who feel more wetness is sign of sound physical and mental health.
Such healthy person should practice erotic love making, which can be felt as real heaven, rather than vaginal penetration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): I had the same problem when I was dating my ex boy friend.. I'd get extremly wet. Now that I'm with my husband, I hardly ever get wet and if I do it's very lite.;(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010): I have the same problem, it's just always wet despite what I am doing, I recently saw an OBGYN and she said that it's normal for some women to be wet, however, you are more exposed to problems like yeast infections; my advice from her was to sleep without underwear, it will give your vagina a chance to "dry" a bit. I hope this helps?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): im the same way i get so wet during sex especially, but i think you should take advantage of the situation atleast you don't need lubricants some women are so dry! my boyfriend loves it he's never had a woman get so wet and stay like that no matter how may times we do it and that's great girl and if he don't like that gushy stiff get a new man because you are blessed girl trust me good luck 2 u!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): wet, so what? being wet is natural reaction of excited vagina. and make easier penis insertion.enjoy your husband.
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reader, bharat mehta +, writes (28 February 2010):
LOL...this post is real heaven. I feel pleasure to read all answers, which are supporting.
wet, or extremely wet...is god's gift. It is divine gift. Say, thanks to god, for granting you such special status. This is sure materials for 'eroticism'. If male has such knowledge of 'eroticism', he will feel no need of 'intercourse', because female's all body sound vibrant and capable to have orgasm and offer orgasm to their male partner.
I advise the original posters, and all answerer with support, to learn little about 'eroticism' and organize your love making with this method, and blessed with 'heaven'. Here are few quotable quote for all to read.
[1]- Mario Vargas- Eroticism has its own moral justification because it says that pleasure is enough for me; it is a statement of the individual's .
[2]"In this loveless everyday life eroticism is a substitute for love." - Henri Lefebvre
[3]Eroticism is assenting to life even in death." - Georges Bataille
[4]The word "eroticism" is derived from the name of the Greek god of love, Eros, or Cupid. It is conceived as sensual love or the human sex drive (libi
[5]Eroticism is the quality of sexual excitement. In other words, if something is sexually exciting, then it is said to be erotic. Eroticism is an erotic feeling. It is named after Eros, the Ancient Greek god of love
[6]Sexual pleasure that is linked predominantly to the excitation of the oral cavity and the lips, first experienced through an infant's feeding, is defined as oral eroticism.
[7]Beauty is the erotic perception of time and shape. (Nick Erard
[8]Aesthetic emotion puts man in a state favorable to the reception of erotic emotion... Art is the accomplice of love. Take love away and there is no longer art. (Remy de Gourmont)
[9]Art is a form of supremely delicate awareness... meaning at-oneness, the state of being at one with the object. (D. H. Lawrence)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): When my boyfriend and I have sex, at some points I will be very wet (not dripping down my leg but where you can hear him going in and out of me) and some points I will be just moist down there. I find it very difficult to do on top when I am very wet, so we usually do behind or him on top. He seems to like me wet, because he is always saying how sexy it is. I guess it is normal to get very wet, just means you are turned on... What usually helps is if he goes down there and licks me, then he dries me with a towel then we go for intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2010): Don't worry girl, I have the same issue. But the guy I sleep with loves every minute of it and he has no problem having an orgasm. Be thankful you can get so wet. It means your mind and body and in the act.
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reader, SRD  +, writes (21 February 2010):
I guess this is NOT really a problem. I have had ladies that could be termed are extremely wet during intercourse. It is a natural way of the vagina to lubricate itself and ready for penetration. But it truly sometimes pisses me off when it becomes too much and I don't feel any friction that heightens pleasurable love making.
I am from Sub-Saharan Africa, where dry pussy is greatly preferred for its friction which tends to heighten pleasurable lovemaking. This practice however sometimes posses some discomfort to the ladies involved.
The first day I made love to my girlfriend who by the way, ended up being my wife; I was a little bit surprised at the level of her wetness. Not to make her feel bad or embarrassed I slide in and out her extremely wet pussy until I had orgasm, although I didn't enjoy it. From the expression on her face she enjoyed it. I thought her wetness stemmed out of over excitement. But after a quick shower we went for a second round and found the pussy less wet. I really enjoyed the second round more than the first. What I noticed later is that, the extreme wetness is not always there. Sometimes she is dripping wet, other times she is dry or partially wet. It all depends on her mood and readiness for sex.
We have been married for years now, and after three kids, I find her pussy as pleasurable as before when we started new. The bottom-line is that, wet pussies tend to become valuable assets when the ladies grow older, as women tend to get dryer with age and childbirth.
I tried some sex outside marriage but found some not as pleasurable as with the familiar wet pussy of my wife. For almost two years now, I don't even feel like having any extramarital sex. I always feel comfortable with my wife.
MY ADVICE TO THE LADIES
Before the real sex action starts make sure you find a way of cleaning up a bit without making it too obvious. He may not notice it. Partially wet pussies are definitely better and pleasurable than too much wet pussies. It tends to make the vagina appear too loose which actually is not the case. Male partners with smaller and shorter dicks would feel very inadequate, and a big turn off.
MY ADVICE TO THE GUYS
Guys, if you have a lover or wife that has extremely wet pussy, count yourself lucky. Chances are very predictable that you will enjoy her lovemaking even into old age. But for now, to contain the too much wetness, instead of disrupting the sex action to periodically clean her pussy with hand towels, just wrap a round of soft tissue paper around the base of your dick and continue pumping. The tissue paper sucks dry the extra wetness to a considerable extent without any disruption of the intercourse. I am talking from experience.
Keep loving them, keep pumping. The wetter the sliding, the deeper the penetration! Try to be innovative, discover new ways to make the extra wetness less noticeable. I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): I guess this is NOT really a problem. I have had ladies that could be termed are extremely wet during intercourse. It is a natural way of the vagina to lubricate itself and ready for penetration. But it truly sometimes pisses me off when it becomes too much and I don't feel any friction that heightens pleasurable love making. I am from Sub-Saharan Africa, where dry pussy is greatly preferred for its friction which tends to heighten pleasurable lovemaking. This practice however sometimes posses some discomfort to the ladies involved.The first day I made love to my girlfriend who by the way, ended up being my wife; I was a little bit surprised at the level of her wetness. Not to make her feel bad or embarrassed I slide in and out her extremely wet pussy until I had orgasm, although I didn't enjoy it. From the expression on her face she enjoyed it. I thought her wetness stemmed out of over excitement. But after a quick shower we went for a second round and found the pussy less wet. I really enjoyed the second round more than the first. What I noticed later is that, the extreme wetness is not always there. Sometimes she is dripping wet, other times she is dry or partially wet. It all depends on her mood and readiness for sex. We have been married for years now, and after three kids, I find her pussy as pleasurable as before when we started new. The bottom-line is that, wet pussies tend to become valuable assets when the ladies grow older, as women tend to get dryer with age and childbirth. I tried some sex outside marriage but found some not as pleasurable as with the familiar wet pussy of my wife. For almost two years now, I don't even feel like having any extramarital sex. I always feel comfortable with my wife.MY ADVICE TO THE LADIESBefore the real sex action starts make sure you find a way of cleaning up a bit without making it too obvious. He may not notice it. Partially wet pussies are definitely better and pleasurable than too much wet pussies. It tends to make the vagina appear too loose which actually is not the case. Male partners with smaller and shorter dicks would feel very inadequate, and a big turn off.MY ADVICE TO THE GUYS Guys, if you have a lover or wife that has extremely wet pussy, count yourself lucky. Chances are very predictable that you will enjoy her lovemaking even into old age. But for now, to contain the too much wetness, instead of disrupting the sex action to periodically clean her pussy with hand towels, just wrap a round of soft tissue paper around the base of your dick and continue pumping. The tissue paper sucks dry the extra wetness to a considerable extent without any disruption of the intercourse. I am talking from experience. Keep loving them, keep pumping. The wetter the sliding, the deeper the penetration! Try to be innovative, discover new ways to make the extra wetness less noticeable. I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): I am a 23 year old male and I have experienced this with a handful of women.My recent partner is the same, and we do different positions 2 make it feel tighter in a way. The wet at times does make it seem like its "loose" when really it isn't.I always have a shirt or towel whatever is nearby to wipe everything off every once in a while, although I find this to be a turn on, at times its a turn off because I can not finish..... It's nothing to be ashamed of women, You can always put other things to use, like oral sex. But one thing that does help is when I get a sensation of "here it comes" you can just go what we call "Doggie Style" now a days. Or anything that has 2 do with her legs being CLOSED! makes it much tighter feeling and trust me, its AMAZING. Good luck to you all and hope it works out just as well for you as it works out for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): I am 24 and recently am experiencing extreme wetness, all day long. I have on average been wet normaly but this is definitely abnormal. It starts when I wake up, I can feel it like gush out so to speak, then all day periodically I can feel more wetness making it's way into my panties. I can no longer go "commando" because it ends up down my legs. It is completely clear and odorless, so I am not worried about any infection. I am assuming that it is hormones, but I have been on the pill for just over a year now. I still don't understand why it is happening, I just know that it is. I guess perhaps it is something I am going to have to learn to live with. Luckily my husband isn't complaining, and I have always been really wet during sex and have squirted a few times. Perhaps, more women encounter this sort of change than I thought. Other than the wet panty annoyance, I am sorta enjoying this new wetness. I have always been a very sexually charged person, and I think this is just enhancing it. I hope all the rest of you can learn to embrace your bodies, too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): My boyfriend and I recently had sex for the first time and he couldn't climax because I was too wet. I was devastated, to put it mildly. His penis is very thick, so that was not the problem. And I am not loose, he couldn't even fit himself inside me, it took a good five minutes before he could get all the way in. But then the wetness ruins everything. I didn't even know he couldn't feel me, I couldn't believe he didn't come, I knew something was wrong but couldn't figure it out because I can orgasm easily. I finally got it out of him "I couldn't feel myself in there" is probably one of the worst things you can hear from someone you are falling in love with, made me feel like a complete failure. Don't get me wrong, he actually likes how wet I get, it turns him on and he knows it's because I am so aroused, but during intercourse it's a huge problem.
I don't know if I want to continue the relationship though, I don't think we are sexually compatible if he can't climax because of the way my body works. He says it doesn't matter and he loves me sexually, but right now I am just feeling awful about it. I have always been like this, since I hit puberty, I get wet just...being alive. I am ready to have sex all the time, I am pretty much turned on all the time, even when I am not thinking about sex, it's just the way my body is, I am a very sexual person. Him not being able to climax makes me feel like I can't satisfy him, that my response to him and his body is to our detriment. Don't know if I want to deal with this on a regular basis, it's too emotionally painful and humiliating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): I get so wet, but I am glad to see that It's not a problem, and a lot of people are experiencing the same thing I am. It is a relief... I drip, I just did not like this happening, so I had to look it up and I came to this. so again it is a relief
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): I am 30 years old and I have been married for 10 years. All of a sudden 2 days ago while having sex wit my husband I was so much wetter then I have ever been in my life. We didn't know why that was but niether of us made a big deal over it. Now today while having sex the same thing happened and I mean I was really wet! I am usually very little wet and we always had to use ky often. Why do you think this would start happening now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): Yes I have the same issue...but my boyfriend loves it and yes he goes down town. Lol he just gotta slurp it up. When I even think sexual thoughts I get soak and wet. So umhmm I can relate to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): hmmmmmm........well I'm not female so I don't experience this BUT....I personally wouldn't refer to it as a "problem". It actually excites me thinking about it.
Enjoy it your body does.
Robb
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): I understand completely. But with I am extremely horny as well; I can be shopping and all of a sudden I will become aroused with no outside influence at all, I'm not even thinking about sex!
I've talked with my husband about this, because even though he didn't say anything, I noticed it's been harder for him to climax lately. He says when I get that wet theres a lack of friction he needs, but assures me that he completely satisfied.
I just don't like the change; i feel like i'm in heat! I'm going to end up killing the man. I'm 28 and they say woman don't hit prime until their thirties.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): I've read most of the postings here and I can understand what you ladies are talking about, and its not squirting or peeing. When I get turned on even when not having sex I will get extremely wet. I have not had any complaints from any of my mates large, small, male or female they all like it. Its a compliment,really.. but if it bothers you that much talk to your doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): its called hormones thats what they are so your just horny
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): you are lucky embrace it, if your boyfriend has a problem , its his problem.... it means you are prob multi orgasmic too , you lucky girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Here is the problem All of these answers and questions include the words partner, boyfrind,friend, girlfriend exct. My wife had the same problem as the rest of you out there I could float my boat in the bed when we had sex for about 2 years. All you have to do to solve the problem is get married it will dry up in a month or two!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): My wife is too wet - I understand why you asked the question. One poster mentioned speed...we've tried that and by going slower, I can feel more which keeps me aroused, but then she wants it faster. And my size isn't the issue...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009): At times it is a problem especially when you cant feel anything its a big turn off. He usually just gives up after he comes because hes so tired god.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): Lol...well i actually have the same problem but i actually like it & i kno my partner does too!! Everytime i have sex with a guy he always say "damn girl ur so wet" & den he moans && I LOVE IT & i get even more wetter lol! Oooo & he also makes crazy comments about needin goggles & he even calls me Ms. Aquafina lol! & my wetness has never been an issue on him goin down on me :) Just enjoy it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): Yes, I have the same problem. I will be meeting with my doctor this coming year to discuss this matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): you girls are crazy!! i get wet and i love it!! it turns me and my man on so much!! the wetter the better...love it cause if you were dry having to buy lube everyday than you would be complaining lol
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reader, King of Knowledge  +, writes (11 December 2009):
god i would love a girl like that. all the water i want. buckets of my GFs love for me. it's awsome. guys love girls that gush
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reader, Jase  +, writes (28 September 2009):
Hi ladies,
My experience with very wet vaginas has always been very pleasurable indeed, my encounter with a gusher was just phenominal and very exciting. Having a plan of attack, such as having beach towels laid out to ease clean up, saves fighting over who gets to sleep in wet patch ! I personally love the smell of my woman all over me.
My experience with dry vaginas has put me off them for life, as both parties feel inadequate and distant.
My penis is reasonably thick which is a definate advantage with wet vaginas.
To end, I am currently single and would love to hook up with one of you ladies who have this "problem" !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): I'm pleased to learn I'm not the only one! I put this down to being highly sexed and just get over excited! My partner is quite large and I've found in the past men with smaller penis are just no use to me lol (sorry guys). I always wandered if it was me the problem but it's obviousley quite commen. Although it's never really caused me real problems during sex I do hate it when my partner feels like he needs to wipe me, as I feel I must not be satisfing him enough!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): I wouldn't worry It's a compliment to your man.
From:Clifford kelway pope
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): You may find it worth getting tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea. Most side effects from the two most common sexually transmitted infections go unnoticed and excessive vaginal discharge is one. However I have known women who get exceptionally wet when sexually aroused. It's a physiological response that the body naturally carries out in preparation for sexual intercourse, some women simply get more wet than others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Sooo has anyone came up with a solution? I'm really tired of being so wet! I cant feel my partner at all!
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reader, meganutts +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Personally, I love a woman who gets drippy for me, I tend to get that response when I go down on one anyway, but yes, your exes are stupid, and maybe they're not big enough either, a wide shaft adds to pleasure, despite the wetness. Don't worry about your overwetness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): WOW so there is a lot more extreme wet vagina's out there, and there's me thinking it was only my girl who squirts orgasms slips and slides with me every time, well almost every time (i'm a honest man)Hmmm the only solution I can give that works for us, is that I stay hard - keep pumping, and eventually it starts to dry up, the only snag is that I have to work hard on it for hours for this to happen, but it does keep me fit and my girl happy.So tell your boyfriend to work on his 6 or 8 pack, and you do some stomach excercise aswell, this will help you both pump longer and should start to slow down your flow as the body will start to run out of juice if you excessivly use it up through multiple orgasims, and don't drink for an hour before love making, this should work or you will pass out for going past cloud 9, LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Thank you for all the anwer it really help me. Now I realize thar is my boyfriend's problem because his erection is off, he can not handle this wetness.
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reader, shelly24 +, writes (1 August 2009):
I have this problem also. When me and my man have sex I get very very wet and have to keep a towel right beside me to wipe off like every 2-3 min. I hate it and that's why I am surfing the net trying to find a solution. It sucks really bad because I have to say "stop, I'm too wet" all the da*n time. My fiance says that it's ok but I know that it does take away from his pleasure and mine! If anyone has any real solutions to this problem please respond. We don't want to be told that it's ok because we think it's horrible and we want a real damn solution.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): I have the same problem my girlfriend tells me this
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): This wetness is NOT a problem!It's not a problem because you said it's when you're doing 'anything sexual'. i think that's the key part...so it's just a sign of arousal. Forget about all these people who call it a 'problem'.Being wet is the greatest motivation a man can need to keep fucking you. Even if your actions seem like you're not aroused, if a man know's your wet, he'll want to slide his cock inside you.Consider the extreme opposite....dry women, simply cannot have sex. If they use lube, deep down both partners will know they are 'coercing' the arousal...it doesn't feel as real.Please realize that everybody is different too. Your face isn't exactly like ANYBODY elses, so why do you think your body functions should be EXACTLY like anybody elses? AND its a fact that some people have higher sex drives than others.SO, be happy! It's great you get that excited. Many women will be envious of you, and most men, will want to be inside you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): yes i have the same issue but my boyfriend does not mind it, as much as i do ; thats because i dnt understand why i do that but.and he also jokes bout it but just wipe it away and continue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): when me and my girlfriend are having sex she gets very wet. its THE BEST feeling in the world it makes me horny. being wet is most def. not a problem. for us men it makes sex 10x better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): girl it's all good, i am the same way...have been (seriously) as long as i can remember. as i got older i found out that i was a squirter and had the best orgasms when i had 2 dicks in me (my boyfriend and a dildo or my boyfriend with someone else, you should try to explore what does it for you and if you find you can squirt it will totally change your life for the better (if you've never done it, it is seriously amazing)
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reader, ItsTotallyNormal +, writes (2 February 2009):
 uhhhhhh i don't know how i got here hahaha but -- to add substance from a guy's perspective of it, it's 100% fine, it makes the guy know that you're actually sexually aroused, it'll happen and it'll give the men confidence knowing that you ladies are aroused ;-D because part of it (well most of it) is because of them... well, at least it gives me confidence not to mention it arouses us that you get wet...n any man that is afraid of going down there -- pansies. it's pretty appreciative knowing that you've satisfied them...that is of course if you know what you're doing =);) tip for man: don't bite down there or even nibble, it's pretty damn sensitive
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): girl please if anyhthing you should be proud. Men love to see that, i've never known a single guy in tha hole world that has ever said o your too wet so if anything your just nervous but just cheer up and have confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): i have the same problem! i know i am good under the sheets but my partner love to get dirty when i am wet!sometimes if you shave it will slow down the wetness! well good luck girls
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I have the same problem but I love it.... sometimes my boyfriend will joke by saying 'ooohhh someone's extremely wet tonight' he say's he doesn't mind me being so wet as it isn't a problem for us. I just sometimes feel a bit paranoid that I'm not normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Yes. My vagina gets very wet as well especially since I reach 30yrs old. You are not alone. My mate will make jokes about my wetness, but at the same time enjoy my wetness. It also keeps them coming back for more. There is greatness with wetness. So ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Tutti Fruity +, writes (17 September 2008):
I totally agree with the lady that gave answer 5... i dnt think any of you understand just how wet she is getting !! The question is not silly or this girl being paranoid !! its more commen that most or you realise! i myself have had problems with this ( sleeping with the same sexual partner for 9 years you notice the difference ) even he would say it was more than wet before and can make your sex life very difficult... which can be annoying when both of you know what you are capable of under the sheets!
I am in the process of having my copper coil removed as it may be making something which is perfectly natural more heavey and unpleasnt!! I have also noticed more discharge on my underware.
My best advice would be to not be shy to discuss it with your sexual partner or your GP... hopefully my problem may resolve its self when i go back on the pill.
Good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): I totally agree with the lady that gave answer 5... i dnt think any of you understand just how wet she is getting !! The question is not silly or this girl being paranoid !! its more commen that most or you realise! i myself have had problems with this ( sleeping with the same sexual partner for 9 years you notice the difference ) even he would say it was more than wet before and can make your sex life very difficult... which can be annoying when both of you know what you are capable of under the sheets!
I am in the process of having my copper coil removed as it may be making something which is perfectly natural more heavey and unpleasnt!! I have also noticed more discharge on my underware.
My best advice would be to not be shy to discuss it with your sexual partner or your GP... hopefully my problem may resolve its self when i go back on the pill.
Good luck !
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reader, princess0966 +, writes (10 September 2008):
I am 42 years old and too have the same problem. I am divorced but involved with someone. I have always had a strong sex drive, but I've never had anyone in my life that I really felt that I could truly express myself and most of all, anyone who could keep up with me. The man I'm with now is 44, and we've been seeing each other for a few months. We both agree that we have found our match. For the first time in my life, I'm able to be "ME"!!! I've always been told I had a wet vagina..., but the guy I'm with now, actually satisfies me. We lay in bed all day, and have sex. It might be him just putting it in while we're on our sides, and he just slowly moves it in and out. In other words, it's not hours of intercourse that most think of . It's all kinds of positions at different speeds. I stay wet to the point that it goes down my leg whenever I turn over or just move. It's wonderful!! I've never been with a man who could get me off without touching my clit. With him, I have multiple orgasms without him even touching it. I am happier now than I've ever been in my life. Enjoy what you're experiencing. Most women and men would love to be in our shoes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): if your boyfriend doesn't like you being extremely wet, than he's just dry. Id love it if my girlfriend gets extremely wet. Keep it up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): I no longer feel weird :)
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reader, Filipino +, writes (12 August 2008):
I would love to have a very wet pussy like yours.. they don't know what they have going. Keep it up and stay wet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): This is not a good thing people. I dont know think alot of people understand what kind of wet she means. Its not squirting after an orgasm like some women experience, its just being wet in general when becoming aroused or having sex. I just had sex today with my boyfriend and he couldnt even keep it in. I get so embarrassed too, it sux. It never used to be like this before, what happened? I just want to have some good sex but this is getting in the way. I read another blog on the internet about this situation and someone suggested taking a antihistamine pill before having sex. So today i took one to find out. I'm thinking maybe that when our vaginas get penetrated it may be producing extra lubricant because our bodies think our vaginas are being irritated. I know that i went to the gynacologist a while back because of exessive wetness even when im not having sex, and she said it could be an irritant causing the problem such as toilet paper or laundry detergent. my vagina was never like this before so maybe its an allergy of some sort, this seems like the only logical answer. What im going to do over the next few weeks is eat a lot of yogurt ( it helps keep the good bacteria down there flourishing), drink plenty of water, do kegals, and try not to irritate my vagina with ne foriegn substance. I suggest all you girls try to do the same, and try an antihistimine, it doesnt hurt the worst it could do is make u sleepy.
good luck!
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reader, Maty  +, writes (22 July 2008):
That is not a problem at all!! I've been looking for a gf with that "problem" but to no avail. I wish I could find that kind of woman for love forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): I just think that you get extremely excited and love having sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): I can certainly relate. I have the same issue except my current fiance loves it so much, he can't get enough of it. We've taken many pics just for our own purpose and viewing and i must say it actually turns me on just seeing my own wetness. My fiance feels blessed as he has never been with a woman that can get so wet before ... not to mention i am 38 years of age. I was always like that though,I am very sexual also. Just thought I would let you know. Don't worry about what your current boyfriend is saying he can use a towel and dry you out if it's too wet for him
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reader, BigSis +, writes (26 April 2008):
 I wonder if the questioner still gets wet....because I've just noticed the original question was posted a year old....ooops!! heh heh!!
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reader, BigSis +, writes (26 April 2008):
This is not a problem at all!
It's a perfectly natural thing to have happen to you. It just means that you're getting highly aroused, and i'm not ashamed to say that it happens to me all the time.
If you feel that you get too wet whilst having sex, then do what your boyfriend does, simply dry yourself off a little and get on with it.
Just enjoy the fact that you get extremely wet, I do.
Have fun!!
: )
BigSis xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): My boyfriend turns me on so much and I get so excited and extremely wet. My bf loves my wet pussy and he tells me this everytime we have sex. He loves it very warm and wet is what I give him. I remember being so wet and having multiple organsms, I came so much that the mattress was wet. My bf is very large and I am sore after we have sex because he really enjoys himself and always has an orgasm when we have sex. I do kegel exercises all of the time. I am not too tight but I make my man groan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): I have the same issue. I always thought that it was a problem until my boyfriend was fingering me on our couch one day and I got so wet it was running down his arm. He told me " holy shit babe.." and I gave him a look like I was embarassed and he told me it was a good thing.. Makes him feel like he knows what he's doing. Its only happened with him and it turns him on everytime I get THAT wet. He turns me on something fierce...More than anybody else Ive been with anyway. So I think its the same thing as when a guy gets a hard on.. we just get Really wet when we get MAJORLY turned on. You know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Why does everyody keep calling this a problem cause it aint.... the wetter the better. for real if ur man dont like it he prolly got a lil sugar in his tank lol cause every man loves a "super wet" (term for a gurl whos vagina produces large amounts of lube) for real talkin to ur guys bout a new gf thats the first thing u brag about shes a super wet. so women for the sake of real men every where please dont try to "solve this problem" get rid of the little boys n find yall some real men
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): I have a solution. Tell your boyfriend to pour a little sand in your vagina before each encounter. Not regular sand but there is something in adult toys stores called wet be gone which is a pussy sand. It sounds silly but there are plenty of women out there with this problem. you should check it out and it's inexpensive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Cmon.
this isnt really a solution but i think it should be.
the solution is: dnt have a solution!
guys LOVE wet pussys it turns them on so much.
just embrace it cos all my bfs have loved my wetness
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): My wife is the same way. I love it. I have a rather large penis and the extra lubrication she has helps with penetration. You are lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): I know that it is not a problem, you have to be proud of who you are. If that area gets wet like that and your boyfried doesnt like it, and makes jokes about it, why are you even with him. I wish I had a woman with that so called problem I would love for it to gush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): I get extremely wet as well during an sexual activity. It is so embarassing and has become a problem. I spoke with my gyno about it and she's switching me to a different birth control. She mentioned there's a surgery that they can freeze the glands that produce the lubrication. That would be the last resort. Any other suggestions??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): no one gave a solution to this problem. are u all saying there is no solution? all u are doing is telling us what u think about the issue. tell us how to end this coz to girls like me it IS a problem and we want it to end whether or not u think so. so pliz give us a solution not opinions
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): I also get extremely wet during any type of sexual activity. I've had the gamut of responses to this from past lovers. Some thought it was awesome, while another called it "soupy". The man I am with now loves it, although I still sometimes feel a little tiny bit self conscious about it...You just have to be at ease with your body, especially your vagina! The wetter the better!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): I think that the wetter the better and if your mate cannot feel you, maybe you could lend a helping hand or something to grip the situation. It might be what they are used to feeling on their own? Or maybe the guy is small and insecure? This has been a benefit to sex to be nice and as wet as you can get from any woman I've been with and unless it is some type of strange smell/color discharge it should be embraced and enjoyed.Enjoy your gift of vaginal wetness. I would guess that there are more small guys out there than extreme wet or loose-fit ladies, just look around at all of the little big guy vehicles on the road. overcompensation much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): i get that all the time. one time i thought the condom broke because it was so wet, but it was just me. guys shoulnt make fun of it, if anything they should like it, less work for them
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): Hi, i'm 31 years old, i get very wet too just to think about my bf, we are so good together, the funny thing in me is that never in my life i was wet at all, this is the only person that has made me get so wet, and i think he loves my wetness, at the beginning of our relationship i felt weird, because was my first bf making me wet, but i think is good, i enjoy it!!!
Just relax and enjoy the moment, if he loves you, he'll accept you however you are.
cm*
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): Wow,
That is such a turn on.
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): I have had the same problem, but my girlfriend (I'm lesbian) loves it
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): Ok, this sounds like a problem but, I cannot really see who it is a problem. I have never been to this website and have never posted here. I will never post here again after this. I hope this helps some of you get your problem solved. After reading through a majority of these posts I notice two things that seem to be present in each case. We have a man that may or may not like oral and a woman that has a decreased self confidence level. I would say I am an average sized guy. My girl gets extremely wet but based on the posts I read here she is not in the same category as you women. I have been with numerous partners before her and some did gush as you would say. I have never had problem feeling anything. I think if friction is a problem then kegel exercises are the answer. Even if a man has a dick the size of a pencil your vagina should be able to tighten around it. So work out those PC muscles and find a man that likes oral sex. Better yet find a man that likes you. If a guy really loves you it shouldn't matter how wet you get. Even if he had to wear SCUBA he would make it work. Come on. Wetness should not be something your concerned with. Men that haven't figured out that your not perfect either, figure it out, embrace your wife/girlfriend and get sexual. Quit being so up tight. Lady that won't ask the gyno. What do you pay that person for. That person is a Vagina Doctor. You pay that person. Ask that person he/she is a professional. They will not be embarassed and neither should you. If that is not the case, switch doctors. Find a doctor your comfortable and find a man you are comfortable with. Someone who loves you, your wetness, your vagina, your breasts, your personality, your looks, your hobbies, etc.... Don't settle for someone that doesn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Wow, I can’t believe how many women have this apparent problem. I see it as an indication of how well I’m doing but that is a man’s point of view. I’ve slept with a lot of women considering my age and have never experienced anything like this that I have with my current girlfriend. She seems to want to pee during sex and she feels like she does from time to time. After searching on the internet it seems to be 1 in 4 woman experience, I’m lead to believe it’s just before ejaculation. Does it feel like this for other woman? The only way to describe it is it’s like a water fall; I have to change my covers every time we have sex. She gets very worried at that alone but I love my girlfriend of 6 months extremely large amount (love you moo). I have no problems going down on her and neither should that be a problem with the person you love and they should understand a woman’s needs. I reassure my girlfriend during and after and she seems to be getting better. Its hard to understand because there’s no clear answer, the only advice I can give is pee before sex, talk to your partner maybe have sex in the bath where if you feel like peeing just go and more than likely your about to experience the best orgasm EVER. Or put a towel down on the bed and lay back to enjoy the moment. I love it when my gf gets wet but that’s me bragging. Hope I’ve been of some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): i get that problem to
my docter said to see if its worry or excitment dont worry about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow, I can't believe how many people have written in about this!
update: my boyfriend & i remember back in the beginning he was able to feel me better and orgasm inside of me when i used the today sponge as birth control. someone who posted a while back said she thought the sponge soaked up extra moisture. i had to go off the sponge because it caused some bleeding, but i think i'm going to go back on and try to fit it in better.
i haven't been keeping up with the keigel exercises like i'm supposed to, but i have a feeling if i work harder on that it'll help.
we can feel each other if he gets me doggy style - it's much tighter that way(does anyone find that as well?); missionary it's harder especially if my legs are wide open. the friction is much better if i keep my legs tight together in the missionary position and also if we stand up (we're about the same height), but i can't really come that way; my legs have to be wide open.
we've also gotten into anal sex which my boyfriend loves and which i've come to enjoy a lot (after getting over the initial pain and awkwardness). often we'll have sex doggy style and when he's ready to come we'll have anal sex and he comes really hard that way. (though i can't come in these positions!)
also if i'm already really turned on and get on top of him i'll come pretty quickly, and i'll rub my breasts in his face and that keeps him excited and hard.
he can get me off just by foreplay - kissing, playing with my breasts and fingering me and i'm happy with that. he did try to really go down on me again and when he got up i saw that his chin was totally dripping with my goo! i had no idea it was that much! i felt so sorry for him and after that i said, "you don't have to go down on me anymore" because if a guy isn't into that and has to deal with a bucket of cum on his face it can't be that pleasant at all! he'll still kiss me and lick me a little there which i find very pleasurable, but i don't want him going too far in and drowning or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): It is completly normal for some wemen to get wet this is called squirting its normal to do it and yes the guy will pull out its pretty much female ejaculation. Quite normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): sweet heart i'd say it's a good thing....Not a problem.
Heck, i've come across some "dry" women.
So yh... i wouldnt say "it's a problem yh"
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): its nice to know that i am not the only person with this problem. i have been spending the last hour on the website to see if i am confusing peeing with cumming.
if this helps explain things more. i feel like my bf, who is quite large (thank god!) pushes up against something - it's almost like you can feel him push on it. i'm worried its my bladder! i'm still not sure! i have never had this problem with any person who i have previously been intimate with. my bf seems to enjoy it - we will switch positions which helps - it usually only happens when i am on top. but he will try and make it happen in the missionary position and it still happens, but not as often.
there are times it has been so bad that we have had to move to the couch to sleep.
does anyone have any advice? or can tell me what the "button" is it feels like he presses?
thanks
flooding female
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): hmm well i have that same problem . its so embarassing. any one help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): i havnt had sex but when iv been fingered. i get really wet, the lad i was with takes the piss aswell, he sed i was really really wet, he got a buzz coz he thrt he was good , he doesnt understand its embaressing for us girls, dont worry if anyone has a prob just tell them so thats you and you cant help what happens to your body, its normal for girls :] xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): I have that very same problem. I am not sure what to do. I am thinking of maybe trying a doushe before I know that I am going to be involved sexually.
For the most part my man says he is turned on and says it is ok but we occasionally have to stop and dry off. I will keep you posted to see if the doushe works
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): I use to have the problem. Try Ortho Tri birth control. Trust me after you go on it, you'll wish u were wet. My personal experience
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): yes i do also. extremly whenever im touched. its a turn on for me and my boyfriend. he has never gone down either because i stay so wet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): I too am amazed at how many women have this problem. I'm sick of it! I feel like I have to explain every time we have sex so he don't just think I'm loose or something. I'll say "man you get me so wet" just so he knows that's what's going on. I also had to dry myself off a few times during sex. He says it don't bother him, but it bothers me. I'm very self conscience about this. I love having sex, but often don't initiate because I know how wet I'm going to get and can't feel it as good anyway. I'm about tempted to put a tampon in or something. Why is it that nobody has come up with an answer for this question? There's got to be a solution.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): I like wet pussy and im only 15 yr 's old but will go for anything that wants me
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Wow i am amazed at all the lady's that have the same problem as me. I am married and find the wetness to be even more annoying now as my husband isnt that big in size. I wasnt insecure about it in the beginning but more so now as he wants less sex. I would want nothing more then for him to go down on me but that is definatly out of the question now. Imagine having to stop sex several times to dry off..i mean its a hot moment but come on. P:S i have only had sex with him so its not like i am broken in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): this is good. It means you are healthy and excited. Maybe your boyfriends have it too easy and don't have to work to make this "unseemly" wetness happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): poster what do you mean you couldn't ask your gyno????? The person has a full on view of your crotch with their hand up there, and you can't ask about wetness???? They get far more embarrasing problems (read std's). If you can not be open with your gyno you need to find a new one. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Problem?? I Don't see this as a Problem!!! This is what I don't like about my current girlfriend, she is Dry as a Bone... No moisture at all. Your boyfriend must be in Heaven. He is a Very lucky man indeed...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): I get wet like that too and the suggestion to use INSTEAD is amazing. I enjoyed using them during my period, when I can be hot and horny the most. INSTEAD, INSTEAD, INSTEAD! Thanx poster for suggesting this one, some of you should try it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): I saw a lot of replies with the same problems but no solutions. I have the same problem getting too wet. Some have found this to be great, for the one on the other end it inhibits you sexually. I am embarressed by this and I do not enjoy sex because I don't feel a thing. It is taking a toll on my marriage cause I am always thinking ahead of time about this and then not enjoying the moment. There is no friction just wet. What can be done about it? Just wiping it off? What causes this? Someone please reply with an answer. I don't want to have to plan my sex acts all the time. I want to be able to have sex in the middle of the night after being woken up by my husband. Please someone with answers- let me (us) know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I have the a same problem with being "Too wet". Right now its Friday night and I am sitting at work. My husband and I tried to have sex earlier when I went home, but it all ended as I find he won't stimulate me as much anymore manually or orally as he says I get to wet and he can't feel it. I don't want to go through life without oral or manual pleasure and trying to talk to him about it isn't working at all. Every other man I've ever been with has been turned on by this and have loved oral sex with me, but now I'm married to a man who thinks its a turn off. I've used my Kegal Master and that helps but it takes a good hour out of your day to do the exercises. There's not alot of time most days. Not only do you miss out sexually when your partner isn't turned on by it, it affects the bonding you have with each other as it hurts the feelings of woman who's having the "Wet Vagina" problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I have this wetness condition also. My husband thinks it's amazing and yet I always feel self concious about it when we are having sex. I actually have to put down three or four towels because I orgasm like a human geyser. Is it true that most men find this extremely erotic? My husband tells me that most men would kill to find a woman that can do what we can. I always feel like it must be pee coming out. However my doctor assures me that that is not the case and that I should be thankful. Most women my age are usually complaining of genital dryness. I need to know that men really are turned on by this more than they are turned off.
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reader, ONLYME27 +, writes (21 August 2007):
I too get very, very wet - conversations with my fella can make me wet. I sometimes cant feel him and hes huge which is annoying but he said its the most amazing hes ever had - so wet and warm and hes said its amazing to be inside.......he loves it so I do. The fact that Im wet turns him on as he feels its a sign of how excited I am.
Sometimes I cant feel him but then he slows down and this seems to help get the feeling back again - TRY IT.
I LOVE GETTING WET FOR HIM - WE BOTH TASTE IT AND ITS NATURAL :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): I have no difficulty with wet or even very wet vaginas, but I think it is because I am so wide that I can feel everything. I actually love when my partner gets super wet. It turns me on. I actually reach down and feel the vagina during intercourse. If I feel slime leaking out, my hard-on becomes like a rock. I had one girlfriend who was so wet that there was a huge wet spot about 1ft x 1ft on the bed covers. That was so awesome. As for going down on a woman, I have no problem when it is super wet, as I just rub my face in that wet beaver and smear that slime all over my face and body. In general, the wetter a vagina is, the better. I can tell you, being wet is far, far better than being dry. I don't like to use any lubricants at all. The best lubricant is the natural moisture of the vagina. Oh, and one of the best turn-ons is rubbing the clitoris in a lighted room and watching goo leak out of the vagina. Nothing is better than that. So, you women with wet vaginas or super wet vaginas, you have something special and shouldn't worry about it at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Ok I'm a guy and reading this cause I've been having similar problems with my gf.
To all those people that say this is a blessing... I don't think you understand how wet some girls get. My gf gets so wet that I literally can't feel a thing, and I'm above average in length and girth.
I don't care how "amazing" and "wonderful" you may think this may be, but sit there and try and have an orgasm with no contact. Try it for five minutes, or an hour, you wont get anywhere. That is what sex is like for me, and I imagine that is what it is like for others expressing their concern.
Now in my case, I can give my gf multiple orgasms in a single session, and can last what I consider to be a reasonable time (20 minutes or so) but our last 8 sessions I haven't come to orgasm even once. And that is considering I am fully erect and as I said before I am NOT small.
SO please, I understand that you may think you know what people are saying in this thread, but sex can be more of a chore than anything in this sort of a situation.
If anyone can figure some sort of solution out I would LOVE to see it here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): I've been reading down through the posts here, and the answers all seem to lead to my problem as well. I do not even have to be having intercourse for me to become soaked. I get/already am extremely wet even before my boyfriend starts to finger me. I'm embaressed for him to touch me, because there is a slight odor from this "wetness". He has not complained, but I still feel awkward engaging in these activites. Like many women here have written, my ex-boyfriend cracked jokes about me being,"too wet for him".I haven't tried many things; just cleaning well and drying off before engaging in these acts. Since my current boyfriend has not said anything to me about it, i'm starting to wonder what he really is thinking as we're engaging in anything sexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): I have the same exact problem! Me and my boyfriend have to stop multiple times during sex so i can whipe really quick, but then, I just too wet all over again. It's frusturating because he makes comments about it like "damn babe,your too wet" and I worry that sooner or later he will become unhappy with our sex life. 9months ago we had a daughter but I had a C-section so it couldn't have stretched. It just seems like after pregnancy i'm gushing with vaginal lube and none of these answers i'm reading on the internet are helping.I even do the tightening of the muscle thing and that doesn't seem to work for us either. We are exsclusive so he is the only man i've been with for 2 years. I can't seem to figure out the problem or how to fix it. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): well babe mine does too! most menhave complained but i think if they arent happy then tell them they wont get it atall. one thing i do is douche like half an hour before having sex, it calms things down abit haha xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): I have the same problem too! I am fed up. It has never happened before. I used to be so dry! It is just with my current boyfriend and I guess it's because I am crazy about him but it's awful cos we keep having to dry me off and he can't finish. What can I do? Any tips. I am beggining to get really upset!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): I am enjoy when the vagina gets wet ,because it is very important for penis health,it is important for full incertion and equal enjoyment ,its taste is delicious to ur lips and it is indication for male the she is enjoinng the environment u have created.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): My current girlfriend gets really wet. Though it is flattering being that wet can cause both parties to lose feeling. I used to like eating my previous girlfriends out but when it is THAT wet it is a turn off. Wet vaginas are annoying just like really tight vaginas are also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): My current girlfriend gets really wet. Though it is flattering being that wet can cause both parties to lose feeling. I used to like eating my previous girlfriends out but when it is THAT wet it is a turn off. Wet vaginas are annoying just like really tight vaginas are also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): Well I have the same thing that happens also. Even when im turned off im still wet while having sex. Past sex partners has all told me that im the wettest they have ever been with. My friends try to brag, but in the back of my mind I know that this is unusual for women to get as wet as I do. The first time I ever got turned on I thought I pissed on my self I was so wet. Hey I just call it "Allien Vagina" lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): Well from my point of view this is great if I was giving oral to a girl that wet, however if it lessens friction between you and your bf that is unfortunate.Instead of keeping a towel near by get him to suck it out of you? I know I would like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): well i can say that too wet isn,t that good, i am at least "9" inches long and well rounded and my ex use to get real wet, and when she got that way we couldn't feel each other as good as we could when she was not so wet
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): My girlfriend just showed me this page after discussing just how wet she gets from even talking about sex. I want all of you women to know that guys find this EXTREMELY sexy. In fact, we view it as the best kind of compliment. There are lot of women out there who have the opposite issue; that they can't stay wet. So don't be self- conscious because a real man would love that about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I have that same problem. I think I am too "big" down there as well.
My boyfriend can't really feel me in the missionary position but from behind(doggy style) it's tighter.
I'm doing vaginal exercises (sorry, can't remmber the name right now - klech something?) to tighten up and I also heard of something called "vagina cones" (google it) - kind of like little weights that can help tighten the muscles.
I wish they had a gel or lotion that dries vaginas instead of making them more wet! Maybe keeping a blowdryer by the bed might help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): Hi, I have the same problem. But to make it worse, I feel like I am very loose.
I lve sex very much, hoever, I am embarassed when I have sex because I am thinking I am too loose. Do ou have that problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): I have the same problem,I get wet as soon as my boyfriend and i get started,I have no problem having an orgasm,but want my boyfriend to feel me,I don't want to be dry,but want to have a normal amount of wetness,i do muscle exercises to tighten my vagina,but can't ssem to stop the flow,i heard the wetter the better too,but sometimes too much of a good thing isn't good
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): there is nothing wrong with you. some women release more vaginal fluid than others. a lot of guys would think themselves lucky to have sex with a woman that gets so wet. Personally, I like it when the girl's vagina is really wet. Either your boyfriend should get used to it, or find another boyfriend. Vaginal lubrication is wonderful, it makes sex more enjoyable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Hey, i get the same problem. I got so wet after about 5 mins, i kept feeling my bf's dick pulling out and he had to get a towel too... but don't worry, it hasn't put us off sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Hey, it's no problem, although my gf does get wet sometimes, and it reduces the friction between my penis and her vagina when we're having sex, and it starts losening grip. Don't let it put you off sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): I had the same "problem" and while many say "Oh consider yourself lucky." The truth is too wet and slippery means less feeling for both me and my partner but lots of mess and cleanup afterwards...sex was very unrewarding..and I was embarrassed by it. I discussed it with my ob/gyn and he suggested freezing part of my cervix to prevent it from creating some much lubrication. However that is a pretty extreme measure because it could impact your ability to become pregnant.(all that wetness actually helps the sperm thrive and make their way to their goal) so that is a procedure for someone done having children. I actually started using "Instead softcups" because I was interested in a product I could wear during my period and have "clean sex" and what I have discovered is that sex is more enjoyable during my period than not, because the soft cup fits over my cervix and is catching the excessive wetness. I have tried inserting a softcup before sex even when I am not on my period. There is still enough normal lubrication from the vaginal walls that prevents sex from being uncomfortable. It takes some practice, but when inserted correctly your partner cannot feel the softcup inside you and there is no excessive gushy mess during sex, whether on your period or not! Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): OMG.. I have the exact same problem. The majority of women out there bitch because they are dry and can fix their problem by merely purchasing one of the countless lubricants sold on the market. As for me however, I get so wet that the person that I lost my virginity to didn't believe I was a virgin. It's so wet that my ex didn't even stay inside of me and would always fall out, and I could barely feel him. I'm looking all over the internet for solutions and just went to my gynocologist. The only hope I now have is that they will find me a birth control pill that will make me drier. Maybe you should ask your gynocologist about such a birth control pill!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Hey guys, welll... In theory I would tend to fully agree with what most people have been saying, that is: wet is good!however... my current girlfriend's wetness indeed prompted me to google for this kind of problems: after one or two minutes of sexual intercourse she becomes extremly wet and I lose all the grip and can feel how my erection slowly gets lost... I had sex with a lot of girls before that and this kind of problem never happened, so I do not think that the problem is on my side... I feel it s mostly a physical problem that I lose the feeling because she gets that slippery.weird :-)Gonna have to think what to do about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007): hey I just want to say I read yur question and have to say that actually i think u are very lucky to have this gift i personally find it a turn on and i know alot of other men who do as well. As far as him going down on u, yummy what a sweet taste tell him to get down there and enjoy the sweet nectar i know i would well good luck and i wish i was yur man....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): Same here - I hate it; it's actually put me off sex as my boyfriend cannot feel anything as I'm that wet.
To be honest, I am looking into surgery to sort this out or I wont want to have another relationship
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reader, Keria +, writes (25 April 2007):
Hi there. Don't call this a "problem". It's not! It's wonderful! Enjoy it!
If you boyfriend doesn't like it, find one who does.
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reader, blowjobbabee +, writes (24 April 2007):
Yes, i have the SAME situation, my vagina gets extremley wet even when my boyfriend whispers in my ear "baby i love you" and he loves it. We have unbelieavable sexual intercourse and im moaning louder than ever, i love it.
you should feeel lucky to get extremley wet, boys love it.
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reader, Dr. Mark +, writes (23 April 2007):
Getting wet is a perfectly normal response to sexual thoughts and physical stimulation. Some women have never had a problem getting wet, even at a younger age. For some, a lubricant like KY jelly is required. If you are naturally wet, be thankful! I don't understand why anyone would find that a turn off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies. I could never ask my gyno, that would be too embarrassing! Not only that but it's a horrible experience going for my pap smear checkups because when they stick the instruments in I automatically start to get lubricated just from the contact even though it's not very pleasant. Is 'that' normal?
Other boyfriends have really enjoyed it but my current boyfriend told me he's never really been into giving oral sex that much and I think my wetness does turn him off, but I think he wants to please me and will try it more often (I also told him we could keep a towel by the bed).
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reader, bigbrett +, writes (23 April 2007):
well from a guys point of view (well mine anyway) i wouldn't worry about this. It shows how excited you are and that would usually turn on any bloke and if your bf doesn't like it he is stupid
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): I wouldn't say it's a problem, but mind you, it has been known that if a woman gets too wet, the feeling of intercourse may be lessened because of the lack of friction between the penis and the vagina. Mind you, if you are indeed 'that' worried about it, as Anon below has suggested, you can see your doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): your lucky!!alot of girls find that they can be very dry and it makes it hard to have sex.i get quite wet too wen im excited but only sometimes,does this happen to you all the time??if you are really uncomfortable and it affects your sex life maybe you should ask your doc about it just to make sure.
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