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writes:I met up with an old boyfriend after 17 years. I was going thru and divorce and he was unhappy in his current relationship with his girlfriend. We hit it off and fell for each other pretty fast. There was a long of drama in between, but bottom line, he lives an hour away and I found out he never broke it off with his girlfriend. He tells me everyday how he waited his whole life for me and that he loves me. I feel so naive. I want to believe him. I've actually gone 2 days and haven't heard from him. I'm thinking he made up his mind. I don't want to call him but this is killing me. I just want closure and for him to tell me it's over. What should I do?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (23 April 2007):
 Dont wait for him, get in there first. He has told a lie about waiting for you all this time. If was serious he would of broken it off as soon as he could, and you have'nt even mentioned anything about that.
He has just seen something that he has missed and is wanting a second chance but not putting all his eggs into one basket for you. if he was crazy for you he would be on the phone everyday to you, but he is not.
Dont go down this road again. If you are having doubts about the trust now, what is it going to be like further down the line with him.
He is seeing what is his best option while playing both of you.
Dont give him the chance to hurt you again..
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