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female
age
41-50,
*urt to much
writes:i met a man 5 years younger than me 4 years ago we had a great relationship it was long distance but it worked out fine until one night he went behind my back, we had an argument but sorted it out, from then we had our ups and downs but coz i coldn't trust him we split up after being together a year, but stayed good friends and i still went to visit him we got back together again for 6 months but split up again we had a holiday booked and still went on it as "fiends" yes we still slept together, so anyway we remained friends for 2 years me still visiting him and him visiting me and telling me he still loved me in his way! until last november he told me he has someone pregnant but not sure if it was his so i went to see him spent the best 2 days together ever told me he will always love me but can't be with me so a few days after i left he rang to say the girl said its his baby so i worked the dates out and there was 2 weeks missing so i said i would help him and he took a fit on me and said he will do the right thing and stand by her but he will always love me but now he as changed his number and never contacted me.Will he come back to me i need to know, the baby was due last week please someone help i do love him
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reader, accused  +, writes (22 April 2007):
 I have to say that "love is blind"... I agree, you should walk away from this!!!! This man is a total loser! and yes he probally has had this "other woman" all along, and for him to change the number??? Please mark this one up as a better to love you know then you hurt me later relationship...... Best of luck.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): He cheated on you, he got someone pregnant, told you lies and you still love him? He's changed his number, so really it doesn't need rocket science to tell you that your relationship is well and truly over. You were in a long distance relationship, he was probably with this girl all along and having his cake and eating it. Walk away from this one with your head held high. Who needs a cheating, lying asshole in their life like this one. I know it hurts like mad but time is a great healer and you will meet a genuine guy in the future who will not mess you around. Would you like to have a baby with a guy only to find out he'd been cheating on you out of town? I would feel really sorry for the mother of his baby because she is totally unaware of the situation she has got herself into. You know what they say, once a cheat always a cheat.
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