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writes:ok so heres the thing , last year in the summer i met this really nice guy who i really got on with and we would chat and talk and go pub , so anyway we decided to be sexual and we started to have sex , so anyway i started to fall for him after 5months of this and told him i wanted more , he told me he does want more and then a few days later changes his mind hes so-called found a girlfriend , so i told him i cant be mates with him as i have feelings and cut him out so a few months later i got in to a serious car accident and my mate texted him as she was still friends with him and told him , he told her he still cares deeply for me . anyway he kept texting me while was injured and i didnt text him at all so 4 days later he texts me again and we start talking hes asking me to see him next week and come to his for the nite , he told me he wants to be mates and i can come over for a kiss and a cuddle and that . now people im stuck what does he mean by that , is he doing the same thing again although he said he dont wanna mess me around , and that hes looking forward to seeing me? can anyone help ?
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (23 April 2007):
Sometimes it can take something to judder peoples feelings into action. The girl who I have been engaged with for two years, it probably took her being ill to make me realise 'oh my god, it means the world to me that she is alright'. It was him that initiated the contact after you had been injured, it would have been very easy for him to just say 'oh well' to his friend and left it all there.I just think that you really need to give him a chance if you like him. He made a major blunder in the past, but has now been honest about his feelings, and I think thats worth something
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (23 April 2007):
 he cares about you. the fact that you where in a accident made him realise that, not trying to sound harsh here, but you know the saying, you dont realise what you have till its gone? lets say he thought...shit, what if she had died?, trust me on this one, he wants to see you because he cares about you, the fact it took a serious accident to make him realise that is beside the point, the point is he cares about you, simple as. he wants to make sure your ok and your doing well. by the way, i dont know how long ago this accident happened, but i hope you are well, both of my brothers have been in car accidents, not serious, cuts and bruses, but they arnt a nice thing
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