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writes: I've been giving out lots of flirting signals to a man such as playing with my hair, eye contact and smiling at him. this is entirely by accident though because i play with my hair when i'm bored and i use eye contact as and smiling with everyone. The thing is hes started looking at me, winking and paying compliments at first i didn't understand but my friend said what i've been doing could be percieved as flirting and hes obviously responding. The bigger problem is aswell hes married with a kid and in his mid- thirties and i'm only 15 what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): My 'friend' (now ex friend - read on) fixed me up with a male friend of hers. Well, I decided I didn't want pursue a relationship with him and it was him that actually suggested we should be friends as opposed to going out together. However, he started coming on to me really strong even though I kept saying I didn't want to pursue anything with him. He had no respect for my wishes at all. Anyway, my friend phoned me up yelling at me more or less accusing me of being a 'prick tease' because of the way I supposedly gave this her male friend signals through eye contact. It's a load of rubbish because what are you supposed to do when you talk to a guy look at the floor? I got really cross about them trying to coerce me into a situation that I wasn't happy with so I've kicked them both to the kerb.
Seriously, ignore this guy. He sounds a loser - he shouldn't be flirting with you when he is married anyway. I agree totally with the previous answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): I think that he's milking this for all he can get (he knows that you were not flirting, and he also knows that you're too innocent to know how to get out of this situation). So, ignore him, or if it must be done, tell him the simple truth (you were bored, and what you did should be interpreted as flirting only by old fools. If that doesn't work, then be sure to laugh in his face while trying to cover up your mouth (as if you aren't trying to hurt his feeling for being a fool).
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