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writes: My bf came around last night, and as i've said in previous messages, we only usually do it including foreplay and sex about 10 mins. It's not me its him. And so when i talked to him about taking things slower from foreplay onwards he was cool about it,and thats what happened. My question is - is this unusual behaviour, 1 hr and a half in total instead of about 10 mins? Is this weird or is it just me? Previous reader to my other messages will hopefully understand this @ least.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006):
Yikes it like this guy needs to be a mind reader and your mind changes on a daily basis.
Why dont you schedule a session before hard stop event like an appointment you have to go out the door for, or a movie. That way he knows he has 1/2 hour and doesnt have to fill ever idle moment in your life.
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 October 2006):
 He took your comments onboard and did something about them so I would firstly be happy about that as some men wouldn't see a problem in the length of time and carry on regardless of what you are wanting.
It sounds like he is doing all he can to please you but in his efforts you feel it's weird he is now taking his time about this you should be happy he listened to you, did what you wanted, enjoy it don't question it.
Good luck :o)
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 at least he's trying for you and are yo complaining coz it was too long? your gunna confuse him i dont think you know what you want yourself so theres no way he's gunna know. why dont you take control and set the pace and the he'll know what you like. there's nothing not normal about sex lasting over an hour i think you need to enjoy it more and stop clock watching
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): i think you should tell him when you want to have sex and dont wait for him to finish foreplay.
Or better still just pull him up on top of you or just get on top of him. there arent any rules to sex, just how you want it to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): Sounds like you're hard to please. First it is to quick, which your bf obviously graciously accepted, and now that he has changed for you it is too long?
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