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writes: I need help with giving my friend advice about getting over her ex. she's really down on herself and she gets in a really depressed mood when she thinks about him. He's currently in another relationship and no matter what i tell her about not needing him she still thinks she does. He was her first love, and i know those are the hardest to get over, but still. I'm afraid she's going to end up getting herself sick over it. what should i tell her that will help her understand that she's better off without him? or just something to say that will ease that pain of letting go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): my ex broke up with me almost a year ago and i can't seem to get over him.hes in a new relationship and hes happy and that makes me really depressed.not only that but i have lost my closest friends because of him.i tried talking to him once not that long ago and we just hooked up and talked then after that happened he nevercontacted me again.what can i do to feel better?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): ur a caring freind..if shes recently broken up with him then she will obv be in a state..and if not she is obv findin it really hard to get over..maybe u shud hav a gurlie sleepova..take her mind off things..pamper urselfs..write down all the bad things abt the guys u have been with..if this dusnt work maybe jus maybe she shud tell her ex how she is feeling or maybe u shud contact him n tel him that ur worried she myt make herself ill. maybe they have unfinished buisness and if he spoke to her they cud stil be mates or sumthing?...try it..good luck..keep us posted..freind x
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reader, fATTYNATTY +, writes (26 October 2006):
 My friend is going through the exact same thing, and its easier when you understand what shes going through like i did, when i was hung up on my x .
maybe what i did could help you, it's a suggestion doesnt mean to say it will work.
i went round to her house, sat her down and made her listen. i explained that i knew how she was feeling and it hurt me to see her heartache, that i knew it would take time to get over this guy but she needed to get into the right frame of mind and admit, "yeah i'm hurting" , but everyone will be there to comfort her, she needed to shake it all off and be reminded theres much more to life. these things do take time to heal though.
i get the feeling your a real good friend so im sure she will be fine with your help and she will be there for you.
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