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writes:Last week a woman called and left a voicemail for my boyfriend, stating that she would be in town in a few days and wanted to see him. I grabbed the phone before she hung up and introduced myself as his girlfriend (he wasn't at home at the time). When I gave my b/f the message a couple of days later he said they'd been "friends" for years (meaning, no sex, no romantic ties). When she popped into town a few days later we met her and the girlfriend she brought with her, for dinner and drinks. She was likable, funny, but flirty and cute with big boobs. I could tell there was "chemistry" between her and my b/f. I later found out that my b/f has had sex with her in the past and I suspect she gives him a "booty" call when she rolls into town every few years. As the evening progressed they made plans to attend a rock concert with us this week-end and party together. Then they suggested we get a hotel room and all "bunk together" in one room, with two beds....my b/f loved the idea. I didn't. After we left, I tried to tell him I didn't feel comfortable sharing a room with two blonde bombshells, with big boobs, one of which he used to have sex with. He told me I was being paranoid. Given the obvious chemistry the two of them still have for each other, and the fact that they've had a sexual connection in the past....am I being paranoid...or is he just not respecting my level of comfort in this matter?.....Please help!!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 She called herself his girlfriend. And now they want to share a hotel room? You are not being paranoid. That is highly unusual and in my book inappropriate. You are 100% within your rights to refuse to let it happen. Stick to your guns.
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (26 October 2006):
 Do let him or her push you around, he should respect the fact that you are not compfortable and make other arrangments unless he is trying to sleep in the same room with her. He has lied and said they never had sex so hes' hiding something and i wouldnt wait til there in the same room to find out what it is.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 October 2006):
 I'm confused, your post says you are a male so your are in a gay relationship? Your boyfriend had sex with the woman so he is bi-sexual? Or did you just hit the wrong button?
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reader, Lemonpixie +, writes (26 October 2006):
 I do have an easy way to hopefully remedy the situation. Just say that you want to have a wild and crazy night of passionate sex in a hotel room. Buy a skimpy outfit that will turn him on, oils, creams and all that good stuff. Show it too him and say...ask if he'd rather see you in that outfit with all those or have a sleepover!!! Most likely he wont think twice... if he does then something is fishy between them or he has it in his silly brain that you guys will have a foursome of sorts (silly guys hehe). Hope that helps! Oh and if he does take you up on that offer than try and get a room next to them...and have sex really loud...hopefully she won't call to hang out ever again!
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reader, stina +, writes (26 October 2006):
 Hi Anon,
That does sound a little weird. I don't understand why you two can't get seperate hotel rooms (or why you ned to stay at a hotel if you're going to be in your own town anyway). Even if you were being "paranoid," he should still respect your feelings. At least that's how I view it. I just don't see a reason for you all sleeping in the same room. If you all want to stay up late or whatever, that's cool. But if you feel uncomfortable sharing a room together, then I don't think you should have to (and I don't think your bf should, either). I mean it's not like you're telling him he can't be friends with these people or anything.
I would try talking to him again and let him know what's on your mind. If he has any regard for your feelings, he will reconsider sharing a room with these girls.
Take care.
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