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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): I kind of like it to continue after I cum or at least while I am cumming. Some gentle stroking is nice about a minute or two after sex or a handjob. However you might want to give him a chance to relax to stretch to yell to close his eyes and just be in another world for a minute. It can also be nice to have our balls played with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): Depends on the man or how slow the handjob was. I it was a long drawnout slow one you can get away with a lil milking to make sure all of the you know what is out and nothing is left. But remember it has to be slow and non abusive.
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (29 October 2006):
 Hi Anon, There is no time limit on giving a handjob..if you feel comfortable doing it, and your guy is enjoying it, then there's no harm in carrying on til he ejaculates..unless its a bit of fourplay then you move on to oral or intercourse..once he does shoot his load then slow the pace down to a slower rythym until his finished and gently ease off it, because most guys loose the urge straight after to carryon and they also feel sensitive,but then again all guys are different some may want to carry on ,but you would know by the next move your guy makes..you also find that a guy can't always ejaculate through a girl/woman giving them a handjob guys are pro's at this and know just the right technique to make them cum.. also if you find yourself doing it for a lengh of time you can always try oral. xLEAHx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006):
"The only correct answer if to stop 30sec to a minute after he cums."
^I can most definietely you, as male, that after ejaculating I do not have the arousal nor the ability to continue. In fact, after orgasming, it's often painful to the touch let alone intentional stimulation. I'd say continuing after is a "no-no"
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 October 2006):
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 October 2006):
It all depends on whether the handjob is all that you are giving him, if it is just a teaser before sex then obviously don't carry on until he cums but if you are just doing this then carry on slowly after he cums you'll be able to tell from him and his boy when it's time to then stop.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006):
If you stop immediately after he cums you are robbing the dude of the second best part.
Yeah the cock is super sensitive right after- thats why it can feel good.
You need a whole different softer, slower technique after he cums, but keep going for the next 30-60 seconds. You will need to talk to him to find out how he likes it handled in this state so there is no point in going into the possibilities that might be wrong for him.
good luck
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reader, chunkymunky +, writes (27 October 2006):
 well it depends. You should keep going after he comes, because it makes it more pleasurable for the bloke. But dont keep going obviously for an hour or anything crazy!! You dont want to kill the poor guy!! Just keep going a little while after hes ejaculated. hope i helped!! x x x
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Generally speaking you'll get a big, gooey, white mess that pretty much is the "STOP" sign of handjobs.
However, if after 20 minutes you can't hear the heavy breathing and he is a little more focused on the TV than you, you can give up and sit on his face. (that last part was my boyfriends suggestion. Ahhh, men.)
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Confucius say: "Man who go to bed with sex problem on mind, wake up with solution in hand."
Just a little food for thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): These answers are rubbish.
The answer is "it depends". Sometimes a guy just can't come: too tired, too soon after last coming, not turned on enough, not well enough fed, not right technique... could be a 1000 things. Why not ask "are you almost there honey?". Lots of guys are too shy to say "look hon, I'm not gonna blow my load tonight" so don't be afraid to ask if it looks like he's not climbing the mountain, but rather skirting round the edges.
As for the answerer who says stop 30-60 seconds after he's come. Usually a guy will be super-sensitive immediately after coming so that's the time to stop!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006):
The only correct answer if to stop 30sec to a minute after he cums.
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