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writes: i was in a 3yr relationship from 13 to 16 with Aaron i fell pregnant and he left me when i was 4 half months pregnant it destroyed but i had our beautiful son i moved on and met lee and i was with for 3yrs until 2 weeks ago i ended things he took on my son and loved me for who i was but i met up with aaron again and got back with him he's not been in his sons life for 3 half yrs but hes trying now. He split up with me tuesday asking to be friends he said he will make a decision about us in a weeks time but i feel so hurt i know he loves me but i just dont know what to do? im confused please help me
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (27 October 2006):
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I honestly don’t think you should wait on Aaron he definitely doesn’t deserve a woman like you, he wasted enough of your time and you were able to move on when you were finding your happiness he came back to mess-up your mind again because he knew how much u love him and when he discovered u are still onto him he breaks ur heart again, accept his request of being just a friend and move on with your life otherwise this commotion will start affecting your child and believe me you don’t want it to get to that point. You seem like a very strong woman and a good mother too so please don’t let a looser like him take that strength from you. Maybe you can base your decisions on what is good for you and your son; ask urself two questions first one - Is Aaron the man you want to be with in everyway that matters? Second one – Would you be proud if ur son takes him as a role model? If u cant answer a yes to all the questions don’t make excuses for him is not worth it. Hope this will help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): sweetie u do not need this Aaron, he left u wen u was pregnant,ur such a strong woman..u are raising ur child alone and u deserve the best. lee sounded nice..why did u end it with him? can u not sort out ur problems with lee? plz dont be waiting on Aaron..it seems as tho he is going to break ur heart time after time..(deep down even u kno it) i reckon..u shud give urself sum time..try and find u..as for Aaron,even if he cums bak n tells u he wants u..i suggest u say no to him n ask to remain freinds..this answer wud suprise him..u dont always need a man..enjoy ur son..enjoy ur mates for a while..focus on u..when the time is right ur gna meet a gentleman who will treat u just right..good luck ..freind x
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