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anonymous
writes: I've been with my girlfiend for 2 1/2 years and she is by far the best friend i've ever had. However i don't have feelings for her the way I used to and don't think she's the one for me. What should I do? I still think she's totally in love with me.
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reader, luvaofsoul +, writes (9 November 2006):
I think you must tell her.
Its better to be cruel to her now, cause it would be king to her latter.
the one major advice i have, is to be honest in responding to any question she asks, thats the one thing that will help her to get over you
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reader, Westie +, writes (26 October 2006):
I think you should tell her. Be honest with her, if you carry the relationship on it will just get worse and worse. If you do not have feelings for her you need to tell her straight because you will just be lying to her. You need to both be in love otherwise it just won't work out for you both. She will be upset but she needs to know at least, because if you just carry on the relationship but with not the same attitude as you had when you first met she is going to realise that something is wrong and jump to the wrong conclusions. So i think you should tell her.
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