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writes: I last posted that I didnt trust my bf because he was communicating with his ex who still have feelings for him. Well lately i've drifted as far as my feelings. I want to have kids and get married and he already has kids and i'm not sure exactly how he feels as far as marriage although he says he plans on one day marrying me. ( not sure if he meant it)I have been preparing myself on ending this relationship because i am not sure what he wants from this relationship of three years. I have been thinking about reconnecting with old friends and developing a new chemistry. I now feel stuck on whether I should try to work this out with my current bf or move on and find someone who is interested in the same things I am.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): do whatever ur gut instinct is telling u to do my freind, as the song goes 'when love hurts it wont work'.
three years is a long time,u have shared so many memories,but u need to look to the future,if u feel that this guy isnt giving u 100%..leave him bcuz u deserve that 100% and more,every lady does,if he loves u he'll fight to get u back and if he doesnt then uve dun urself a favour! so be the woman that u are,pluck up sum couridge n have sum self beleif and leave him.u can do it.yes it will be hard,but theres a man out der waiting to love u off..good luck..freind x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): if he doesnt want the same as you, and you dont like this, move on. If you are willing to sit down and discuss with him what it is that HE actually DOES want fromn you, then do this and see what happens. Personall, i'd go for the 2nd option - give him a chance to voice his opinion, guys like that in a girl.
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