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writes: Hi there...Ok this is really embarrassing.... ive been after this guy for about a month, he's recently come out of a two year relationship and has warned me he doesnt want anything serious.The other day we watched a film together and one thing lead to another, we didnt use protection but im on the pill, but he didnt "finish", did i do something wrong or do you think its because he was worried about that? He got in touch the day after to say that he didnt ask me if i had protection but that he didnt pull out totally.I really like this guy and i know he dont want out serious but i dont wana lose him at the same time. What can i do?
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (26 October 2006):
 Well in response to that, just keep your guard up. He may be playing games... How long has it been since his 2 yr relationship? I know some guys if they were played with will retaliate (in a stupid cavemanish way) on another woman to get back at us females as a whole. Silly but some guys are known to do such silly activities. Just play hard to get at this point. He seems like he says one thing and doesn another... I dont claim to completely understand the male species but in my view he's playing some mind games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): Hi there Lemonpixie +, cheers for your reply! He did ask me if i had any protection but i declined as i was protected! I really want him and have been so good in not chasing him and just being in touch now n again. the odd time when he's txt if ive not responded he'll send another in a jokingly way asking about why i havent replied!!
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reader, Lemonpixie +, writes (26 October 2006):
Wow, well... you may be headed down a bad road. Men are pretty forward with their thoughts and us women well we tend to play games and we are less than straight forward with our intentions. He has just come out of a long term relatioship... he may want to play the field a little. I suggest letting him do so, he may not be completely over the ex, he may want to sew his seed a bit. He's obviously not to much of a rational thinker if he's not using protection... I've come to find in personal experience and through multiple friends telling me, when a guy says he doesnt want anything serious that means he is interested in multiple people. He may have someone else at the moment or a keen eye on someone else... don't let yourself get hurt chickadee, you deserve a guy that will be totally in to you!
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