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writes: A guy i'm into cheated on his girlfriend with me. They've only been going out for 2 days. I know that if she found out what we did they'd break up and he would be free for me to have him, but I know that he wouldn't be all that pleased with me. If she found out somehow without me directly telling her (eg. I got a friend to tell her, but made it look like an accident and not my doing) would I be really stupid? I know it's a bit underhand but I really like this guy and I know he likes me too. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): Something like this happened to me not too long ago. The only difference is he was dating her for about a year and a half. Dont tell his girlfriend whats going on because it's going to ruin any chances you have with him. Do the right thing and just stay away from him! If he's not willing to break up with his girlfriend on his own for you, then he's not worth it at all. And also, if he cheated on her with you, chances are he's going to cheat on you with someone else. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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reader, pica +, writes (27 October 2006):
Don't think he likes either of you that much to be honest. And if he cheated on her for you .. well .. why would he not cheat on you for someone else?? Forget about him.
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (26 October 2006):
 2days is nothing so iam sure if he wanted a realtionship with you hed have tld you this as for you telling his gf i dont think this is a wise move as for one she mite 4gave him or dump him than he will blame you and want nothing to do with you id 4get about him
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (26 October 2006):
 Ok they've been dating 2 days, but slept/messed around with you... it's not as if he's emotionally attached to her...so lets ask the obvious question. Why hasn't he just ended it with her for you? He may not want that to happen...so telling her wouldn't really be to your benefit anyways. I would still tell her so she doesn't end up with this guy, but I think all women should work on some code of honor that if a man is a cheater, expose him. And lets ask the second obvious question. Why would you want a guy who cheats? Stay away girlie... he's no good, he's only going to hurt you.
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 October 2006):
 He cheated on her with you and still is with her therefore that tells you that he isn't into you the way you are him and wants to be with her.
So what do you achieve by finding a way of her finding out? he loses her and possibly comes to you but he might not but if he does come to you it would be as second best not because he wanted to because he lost who he really wants to be with and how long before he would do to you what he did with you to her?
Good luck :o)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 October 2006):
 A two day involvement is hardly a relationship so why is this cheating? Unless he's playing some kind of game with both of you, I don't see anything wrong with him playing the field. It's not like he's married. It all boils down to honesty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): Whoa there! If he really likes you and has only been going out with his girlfriend for a couple of days then he should be the one to end it with her. Ask yourself why he hasnt even though he likes you. I wouldnt do anything other than walk away before you get seriously hurt. xx
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