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When should I phone her and what should I say???

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Question - (26 October 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2006)
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if i get this girl's number when can i call her? we both go school. i'm 16 and she is 14. i suppose when i get the number it's only generally askin just in case i need it! but i doubt she will be expecting me to call or will she? what can i say when i phone her? i really like her. we met for 3hours on a mates birthday. other than that say a few hi's at school and i got her msn. she seems to talk to me when i'm with her friends. she might like me. but i dont wanna scare her as she is 2years younger than me! please help, lots of help needed!

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A female reader, bellachic385 +, writes (26 October 2006):

bellachic385 agony auntGood luck with this. She might like you but before you call her try and sit with her at lunch and see how that goes. If it goes well call her like the next day and hope it goes well. You may be nervous but it is worth a shot if you really like her. Start by being her friend but prosseed into something more. Don't go to fast.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006):

hey buddy. if she gladly gives you her number, then go for it! it means she's all up for a phone call. now if you get her number from a friend, or someone other than her. Still go ahead and give her a call. Talk to her for awhile and if it seems like she's trying to end the conversation, or she's answering all of your questions with little answers..then i'm sorry. but most likely it's not going to work out. the key is listening to how she talks to you. also if you're with her and she touches you on the sholder, or laughs at your dumb jokes. she's flirting. i don't know, but it seems like guys have a VERY hard time at picking up on flirting. oh and no worries about the two years. that's nothing! best of luck!!

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A female reader, littlelostgirl +, writes (26 October 2006):

hey chick, awwww young love !! its great,

well when i was 14 it was great knowing some one fancied you, its a wonderfull feeling to know that you are liked. why not try calling and asking her hows things are and strike up a common intrest, you must have one or you wouldnt be attracted to her so if its film for example, call her up and say hey fancy seeing a movie, play it down and get to know her and the more you two go out together the more you will get to recognise the signs as to weather she likes you to. be confident woman love confident men and take time to listen to her and show intrest and if all that fails buy her a huge diamond lol joking, just relax sweet heart it will all be fine

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A female reader, Fernikle +, writes (26 October 2006):

Fernikle agony auntWatchya Pet,

When this girl gives you her phone number, why not ask her if you could give her a call sometime? and add the tag on line of maybe we could arrange to go out sometime.

This would give you some sort of sign if she is interested in you or not.

Respect her age though, she may have guidelines she has to adhere to set by her parents. She may be shy or even afraid of entering into a relationship, through respect of her parents.

Just remember, No, is just a word. it cannot harm you, and the hurt it gives at the time is soon got over.

Good luck sweetheart - faint heart never won fair lady.

Mwah X

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