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writes: Hi, i,ve been getting signals from this lady for about four weeks, after two weeks she gave me her number and we txt each other a couple of times a week. last sunday i asked her out on a date, she accepted without any hesitation, and said she would txt me about a avenue to meet at. i've txt her a couple of times since then(in a four day period), but she hasn't replied to any. Has she got cold feet do you think? should i keep trying or admit deafeat, (i really like her tho!).hope this makes sense.Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): i'm going through this same thing too. though it's been 2 days not 4. i arrived at the decision we won't communicate unless she contacts me. perhaps i'm too prideful, but i see it as a struggle for control early in a relationship. that doesn't interest me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): It is hard to say for certain, since you don't give a lot of information. When it comes to establishing a relationship one person makes a move and the other person responds if he/she wants. Then if all is well the other person should make a move and wait for a response from the first person. This happens naturally when both parties are interested. I would suggest you hold off for a while until she contacts you, since you have already made 2 moves from your side and she owes you a response if she is interested. It is a bit like a game of chess/ a transaction. Good luck, she might still come around!
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