I'm a 25 yr old who loves having sex with men! Is this right or wrong?
Q. I am 25 years old and i want to know if i have a problem, as i have slept with about 80 - 90 men, and i feel a bit bad but i love it. I'm single and i quite like it that way, because when i'm in a relationship i just want to sleep with someone else. ...
A. 25 October 2006: I'm glad you have found what people have written here useful. It sounds like you may have known this already, and been looking to find out if your feelings were right?
You remind me a bit of how my girlfriend used to be. Not the same, but similar.... (read in full...)
I'll feel more confident if I get bigger breasts...do breast enlarging pills work???
Q. i've really small boobs i measure 34AA they're really small, it's like nothing but a nipple because i'm really thin. should i take breast enlarging pills? which ones work better? pills or creams? i'm only 17 though maybe it'll grow but i'm getting ...
A. 24 October 2006: The pills don't work.
Repeat that over and over again until you can't continue. They really don't work.
My girlfriend got breast enlargements. Here is what she said about it:
"It took me getting breast enlargements to realize that my self ... (read in full...)
How can you make a guy want you more and be the one to want and ask for it to be official???
Q. What can a woman do to make a guy want her more. I have been seeing a guy (we are not yet official) but I want to keep him interested and would like us to be official, however I would like him to be the one to tell me he wants it to be official. ...
A. 24 October 2006: Have you read the Book of Rules? It describes (in a very direct way) the classic tactics a girl can use to get a guy to fall in love with her. I hate to admit it, but they do work too, rather well.
http:... (read in full...)
Why does he always pull out knowing I'm close!!!!
Q. The last few times that i've had sex with my bf,he always pulls out of me so that he doesn't cum inside, but the thing is he knows when im about to cum because i make a few noises, but always seems to put out just as im about to have an orgasm and ...
A. 24 October 2006: One more thing. The reason he stops after he comes is because this is how men are built. Once we orgasm our sex drive tends to dissappear and we just want to go to sleep or lie around thinking about nothing in particular. It's just the way men are ... (read in full...)
Why does he always pull out knowing I'm close!!!!
Q. The last few times that i've had sex with my bf,he always pulls out of me so that he doesn't cum inside, but the thing is he knows when im about to cum because i make a few noises, but always seems to put out just as im about to have an orgasm and ...
A. 24 October 2006: The best thing you can do is talk to him about this.
You need to be careful with this kind of subject. It sounds like your boyfriend may have a few issues in this area, so be extra careful.
The way to talk about this is to focus on describ... (read in full...)
I'm a 25 yr old who loves having sex with men! Is this right or wrong?
Q. I am 25 years old and i want to know if i have a problem, as i have slept with about 80 - 90 men, and i feel a bit bad but i love it. I'm single and i quite like it that way, because when i'm in a relationship i just want to sleep with someone else. ...
A. 24 October 2006: Rather than focussing on the sex perhaps spend time thinking about why you go off the men so quickly once you have had sex with them. Why this happens might be the key to your behaviour.
Plus when the time comes where you want a longer more com... (read in full...)
Do any of you see your exes as good friend?
Q. Hi everyone, could you see your ex as a friend?...
A. 24 October 2006: Tried it a few times, as have friends of mine. But I've never seen it work out. It just gets too complicated when new partners are on the scene.... (read in full...)
I want the singer to notice me!!
Q. I'm going to a concert in a few weeks, and I know this is stupid, but I want the singer to notice me (or just other people going to see him) What should I wear to a Lil Chris concert that I'll look super sexy in? And does anyone know how to get ...
A. 24 October 2006: You want to be noticed? How about a police cone on your head with a flashing light? But seriously, lots of people are going to be dressed up so it will be very hard to stand out. The advice below was good, just wear something you like, then you'll ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex everything that happened with me and some guy???
Q. Should I tell my ex boyfriend, who I'm still associated with, the full details of what happened with me and some guy he knows? I met this guy at a local social event and we hit it off, he was a real gentleman, giving me his jacket because I was cold ...
A. 24 October 2006: It sounds like you need to fully move on from your ex. He sounds like a bad influence on you, and with his on-again off-again approach to you he is taking advantage of you. You'll end up getting very hurt in the end, best get out now whilst your ... (read in full...)
Should I dump this guy because he is a virgin?
Q. i'm 18 and i'm seing a guy who JUST turned 18 today. He's still a virgin but i've already had 3 partners and done other things with other guys. He doesn't know much about sex and I feel so awekard because my last boyfriend has been with 7 other ...
A. 23 October 2006: In my opinion you shouldn't be having sex with someone you're 'not really into'. So, especially given your other reservations, splitting up with him is a good idea.
However, don't say you are doing it because he is a virgin. That would be an unkin... (read in full...)
Do men need to ejaculate after being aroused???
Q. After fooling around, meaning no sex, my boyfriend always wants me to give him a handjob. he says that sperm have gone into his penis and it hurts if not relieved meaning he has to cum. so my question is do men need to ejaculate after being ...
A. 23 October 2006: In a word: no
Men get erections all the time. On average we get 20 per day! If we had to ejaculate every time we got an erection we'd need balls the size of watermelons...
What your boyfriend means is that he is turned on and would LIKE VERY ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough for sex?
Q. hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?...
A. 21 October 2006: Totally fine, you are average size. Not sure where you are getting your stats from but don't believe most surveys as they are done by men measuring themselves...
And whatever you do, don't compare yourself to what you see in porn. Those men are ... (read in full...)
What's the average size of an adult erect penis?
Q. What's the average size of an adult erect penis? I measured myself and I'm 6 1/4 inches long (measured from the top) and 4 1/2 inches around. Am I considered average size, bigger than average, or smaller than average?...
A. 21 October 2006: Surveys done where men measure themselves turn out an average of 6 to 6 1/2 inches. Surveys done where mainly young men measure themselves turn out around a 7 inch averag.
Funnily enough, surveys done where doctors or researchers do the measurin... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 19 October 2006: Well it should be set up as separate to this. I agree with DrPsych, in that you don't want to have a direct connection between 'lonely 14 year old girl who can't stop fantasising about her fathers friends' and a dating site. As a minimum I'd ... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 19 October 2006: no but i think it could be a good idea anyway ... (read in full...)
Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?
Q. Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?...
A. 19 October 2006: yes, but be careful it might get messy (and embarrassing)... (read in full...)
What does anal sex feel like?
Q. Is anal sex sore? What does it feel like? Any tips...
A. 18 October 2006: Oh no andrea23!! That's terrible. He threw the girl out???? That is really truly an awful thing to have done. She must have felt like dirt. I have to say his behaviour there was truly apalling. I'm shocked! I'm upset actually, for her. Poor poor ... (read in full...)
Can enlargement pills solve my erection problems?
Q. A year ago I got an erection while wearing an underwear,because there wasn't enough room for expansion my penis went limp. Six months later my penis got back to it's usual length but it's not as hard and stiff as it use to be. Can enlargement pill...
A. 18 October 2006: Either you are imaginging things, or you have possibly damaged your penis in some way. Either way, I suggest you go see your doctor to talk about it. If it is a medical problem then you don't want to be taking any pills without seeing a doctor ... (read in full...)
Im really happy with my first BF of 8 months, but My mum keeps telling me to get out and date more!!
Q. Hi. I've been dating my bf for about 8 months now and things between us are great. We love each other and we're happy together. However, my parents, my mother in particular, is always saying that i should get out there and date more to see what ...
A. 18 October 2006: I think that's terrible. Don't take your parents advice on this. Not only are they giving you bad advice, but they're damaging what sounds like a good relationship.
One thing you might want to consider is whether they like your boyfriend. If they ... (read in full...)
I still love her and want her but I don't just want to be a sex buddy!
Q. Hi, I have put myself in an interesting position and I'm not sure what to make of it. I am 31 years old and my ex is 30. We broke up about 2 months ago after a 2 and a half year relationship. Before breaking up, we hadn't has sex in a year...I ...
A. 18 October 2006: She is messing with you. You're going to stay in a whole lot of pain if you continue down this road. I suggest that you stay well away from her and get on with your own life.
If the really wants you she will come to you: don't accept anything... (read in full...)
We are sex buddies for now but I want to give it another go! Should I tell him?
Q. So my bf and I broke up a week or two ago. We've been on and off for a year, and we really did love eachother. Then life fell apart for both of us and we both neglected the relationship without even realising it for a good month or so. We're still ...
A. 18 October 2006: I find it very sad that people can be good friends and 'sex-buddies' but then "write us off as a couple as it's too much effort". I find it sad because so many people (including many of my friends) end up feeling like they don't have what it takes ... (read in full...)
What do I say to the boy that pulled down my skirt at school??
Q. today someone pulled down my school skirt at school and it came right down to my calves so all my thong was showing! i don't no wot to do or say 2 the boy who done it help me !...
A. 17 October 2006: Tell him you feel sorry for him because the only way he'll get to see a girls ass is to pull her skirt down at school. Tell him he'll need to grow up before he gets to see it any other way.... (read in full...)
We broke up and decided to be sex buddies,,now he's jealous because I have sex with other guys!
Q. So me and my bf of 4 months broke up last sunday. We decided to be friends. Then we decided to be sex buddies.Then he became jealous of me fooling around with other guys too. We're currently friends who have sex who are exclusive. Complicated I ...
A. 17 October 2006: What's wrong with you two?
You're playing games that are messing with both of your heads. You think you can cook up some modern non-relationship / relationship where you get the best of all worlds. But sadly life doesn't work like that.
You ... (read in full...)
Sex wasn't all that wonderful but now we have split up and just sex buddies it seems 100 times better!
Q. I'm a bit confused. I was in a relationship with this guy for 4 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex itself wasn't really all that wonderful because I couldn't reach orgasm very often (I've never told him this) but I still loved it because of ...
A. 16 October 2006: Strange that you say you had closeness and intimacy with him yet you didn't tell him you weren't orgasming. You should think about that. If you weren't telling him that then you weren't intimate.
Are you sure what you want is intimacy? Like the... (read in full...)
Why do I take so long to orgasm? How can I make it more pleasurable for me?
Q. why do i take so long to cum? I dont really masterbate that often maybe like once every two weeks and maybe now and then once a week but still....I had sex for the first time and i didnt cum.....I had sex another time with the same girl but...
A. 13 October 2006: My guess is its not a physical issue at all, more a mental one. It sounds like you're not getting turned on very much. Just the physical sensation alone won't cause orgasm, you need to be highly aroused as well.
It may be that you're feeling ... (read in full...)
Love or lust?
Q. Hi ya, I feel a bit silly asking this but i cant tell if I am in love or just infatuated with somebody I cant have. I have these feelings for my best male friend that I cant describe. I think about him all the time, speak to him everyday whether ...
A. 13 October 2006: If we could tell the difference between love and infatuation the world would be a much simpler place. Unfortunately we can't, it takes some time for the craziness of infatuation to wear off and only then can we start to be certain if there is ... (read in full...)
Will he know I am a virgin?
Q. heya this lad im seeing thinks im not a virgin! but i only told him iv had sex twice b4, will he know im a virgin or not? ...
A. 12 October 2006: Tell him you are a virgin.
If you can't be honest enough with him to tell him that, then you shouldn't be having sex with him. Good sex (and good relationships) are about being honest and open with each other. Start with this.... (read in full...)
He dumped my friend because she wouldn't send him nudie pics. Now he likes me! Any advice on how to get rid of him?
Q. My best friend was recently dumped by a seemingly mature and intelligent boy after she refused to send pictures of herself naked on MySpace. This boy could only be described as a normal, funny, genuine kinda guy until you got to know him and realise ...
A. 12 October 2006: Take him off your myspace friends list and ignore any messages he sends you. He sounds like really really bad news... (read in full...)
Did I sleep with him to early ? We are still together, but wonder if he would feel more for me had I waited ?
Q. Hello, I had not slept with a man for five years until recently. After 3 very intense weeks of dating we slept together, do you think this was too soon and that he will think of me as easy? Im quite naive about everything. He made me feel that ...
A. 5 October 2006: It is true for many men that the longer you make them wait the more they feel they have when they finally 'get it'. But 3 weeks pretty good going by todays standards. Only time will tell, but you shouldn't feel it was too soon. You said that the 3 ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and having regular sex with my BF - does that make me a slut?
Q. I love my boyfriend and we have regular sex. I am only fourteen but we have been going out for six months and i adore him. We did most oral sex in the first month and like now its moved on. Am i a slut?...
A. 5 October 2006: There is not strict definition of 'a slut'. Some people might think you are a slut for what you are doing, but probably only a few. If your schoolfriends call you slut it's because they are jealous, so whatever you do don't listen to them if they ... (read in full...)
I like this girl who's not into guys, yet--so what can I do?
Q. i like a girl named ashton but shes not into guys yet what should i do?...
A. 5 October 2006: You should respect her. She's not into guys, so I suggest not pushing it. By all means be her friend, but don't make sex an issue. If it turns out (and its unlikely) that she does like you as more than a friend, then you'll find that out eventually. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys prefer girls shaved 'down there'?
Q. I have now shaved my vagina but one thing i still dont understand...why do boys prefer it shaved?...
A. 5 October 2006: Because we've seen it in porn and it reminds of of that. Sad but true i'm afraid... (read in full...)
I'm engaged to the guy I met online, recently I found someone else and I like him too!!
Q. im engaged to this guy i met online ive been with for months now and i know i love him i swear to god i love this man. im 16 and my parents adore him..but lately ive been seeing this other guy and ive sort of started to like him you may think im ...
A. 4 October 2006: At 16 you are too young to be getting engaged. This is why you are having the problem you are having now... you are too young to be getting tied down into a permanent relationship. I suggest you stick with having relationships without committing to ... (read in full...)
I left horrible msgs on his phone thinking he was cheating, I was wrong, now he won't answer my calls!
Q. Hi there. Friday night my man went out with the boys so when i called his house his brother told me he had gone out. I tried his mobile but it was not being replied. Next day he called to apologize. Saturday same thing happened ( i had missed ...
A. 4 October 2006: 'nothing as boring as knowing someone does not want to talk to you?'
If you see it in those terms that's unfortunate. Trust is an essential part of a healthy relationship, and you just demonstrated you don't trust him. No wonder he is upset, I... (read in full...)
Is losing your virginity as bad as people say??
Q. is losing your virginity as bad as alot of people say??? i am a virgin and the things people say extremely puts me off sex, but i really hate been a virgin at 17!!! ...
A. 3 October 2006: The most common 'bad' bit that people have with losing their virginity is doing it with the wrong person. It seems that many feel they 'have' to lose their virginity, to be cool or keep up with their mates or whatever, and rush into it. That means ... (read in full...)
Denied sex, as he looks at porn!
Q. My boyfriend needs to look at porn on a regular basis, and has denied me sex to do so before is this a real problem?...
A. 29 September 2006: 'Needs' to look at porn?
How can it be a need? 'Wants' to look at porn maybe, but need?
The fact that he is placing porn above you is a serious issue. You need to be very clear with him that it is not acceptable, and be willing to take whatever... (read in full...)
Just been diagnosed with Diabetes, does this now mean a downward climb plus impotency ??
Q. I'm an otherwise healthy male, but just been diagnosed as diabetic! I think of myself as generally healthy, I'm careful what I eat. wholefoods, veg, etc., I'm not over weight at all, I exercise either a 2 hour work out in the gym or 50 lengths of...
A. 29 September 2006: It's not inevitable. My father is a diabetic and managed to have a new family at a very late age.
The majority of damage done from diabetes is due to fluctuations in your blood sugar level. These cause cell damage and the like. The best thing yo... (read in full...)
Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?
Q. Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....
A. 28 September 2006: Those are the classic signs. The shower especially, he doesn't want give you a chance to smell him (and her) before he can wash the smell off.
Perhaps try just straight out saying that you know he is being unfaithful. Stick to your guns and see ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex. I am only 13 and I don't know what to do. Help please!!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for around 3 weeks and we have done all the basic oral. i am only 13 but he keeps talking about having sex with me and i dont know what do do help please!...
A. 28 September 2006: I don't understand why 'oral sex' isn't considered sex. I mean, it's even called oral SEX. I guess it's the obsession with trying to remain a virgin whilst trying to 'get some' at the same time. Or maybe we can thank Bill Clinton?... (read in full...)
He told me that it smelled fishy
Q. please, i am 15 and my boyfriend has recently just preformed oral sex on me. i feel very embarrassed to say this, but he told me that it smelled a little like some sort of fish or something. he said he could not go on, and that he would give me a ...
A. 28 September 2006: All women (and men) smell a bit. It's natural and normal, you have nothing to be ashamed of, you are just human like the rest of us.
By all means wash, but you don't need to feel you need to go any further than that. The person that needs to... (read in full...)
Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?
Q. Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....
A. 28 September 2006: Other than hiring a private investigator (or becoming one yourself) there is no guaranteed way.
The simplest way is to ask him directly and look him straight in the eyes when you do. You will know in your heart if he is telling the truth. It sound... (read in full...)
My bf says he'll hurt himself if I ever left him. I like guy and now..I'm scared of what my bf will do to himself!!
Q. Help!!! I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he always aus that he loves me. he says that without me he would die. he says tha if he'd loose me he'd kill himself. I met this other guy at school and i like him and i know he likes me too a...
A. 28 September 2006: You cannot stay in a relationship for that reason. He is emotionally blackmailing you. What is more, he is showing that he likely has some kind of psychological problems.
He is also probably exaggerating.
Either way there is no future for yo... (read in full...)
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