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writes: heya this lad im seeing thinks im not a virgin! but i only told him iv had sex twice b4, will he know im a virgin or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, pica +, writes (13 October 2006):
If he's a virgin too, or even just inexperienced, then he may well not know! Yos is totally right - you shouldn't lie about your virginity. It's something you only have once so don't feel you need to deny it or throw it away. Don't feel obliged to have sex or be sexual if you don't want to. And you can have a lot of pleasure with each other without immediately having intercourse ..
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reader, Yos  +, writes (12 October 2006):
 Tell him you are a virgin.
If you can't be honest enough with him to tell him that, then you shouldn't be having sex with him. Good sex (and good relationships) are about being honest and open with each other. Start with this.
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reader, lilmzmoffett +, writes (12 October 2006):
 Yes its very tight so he will know!! Plus maybe not straight away but you bleed a little if your hymen isnt already broken. Things like tampons even riding a bike can even break it. So yeah. Tell him the truth. It happened to me. A guy I liked, I told him I wasnt a virgin because I thought he would think it was cool. But in the end I told him it was a lie to make him jealous. Now he is my husband!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): it all depends on u and ur body. i lost my virginity when i was 16 and my boyfriend acussed me of not being one. it hurt like hell, but i didnt bleed. i think it may be because i broke my hymen with use of tampons during menstration. or i was just to goog for him.
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 yes he will, because for one thing when girls lose thier virginity it hurts, can also be quite 'tight' and also bleeding oftern occurs. Depending on what sort of lifestyle youve had it can change, ive herd girls who do things like horse riding and gymnastics are, erm not sure how to put this, but easier to take first time. IF that makes sence. But chances are he will know, and if i was you id tell him because then you can ease into it, rather than him end up hurting you while trying. Good luck
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