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... Send *hazx a private message | | | *hazx's profile:I think what qualifies me to help is that i have had a very tough time and that i have seen more than a 19yr old girl should have seen.
My life is very complicated i have views on nearly everything that gets written in this website.
I live in Bedfordshire in the uk.
People starting on my family.
I hate it that people can get away with stuff that they have done wrong in the eyes of the law they should be put away but the courts cant be bothered to deal with things that are so important.
They would rather let the rapists and people like that out in the world and sentence people who aint paid there taxes.
Sickening!!!
I'm 19, Female and a full time mother to my 9 and a half month old daughter.
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Feeding my baby the correct foods...
Q. My baby is 7 months old in 5 days time and i am unsure what food she is able to have? She has baby porridge in the morning, then in the afternoon i give her hipp organic baby food jar and a fromage frais yogurt, is this suitable? as she seems to...
A. 5 May 2009: Hi sweetie my daughter is nearly 11 months old and has been solid fed since she was 4 months old and i have given her everything and anything, she loves fruit, veg, fish, chicken, choclate, biscuits and everything normal adults eat.
Your baby isn... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell my boyfriend that my baby is not his. Help!
Q. Im 15 and im 10weeks pregnant, i do have a boyfriend who i have been with for about a year but in febuary we had a break and i got a bit drunk and slept with another boy. And i know for a fact the baby is his. i got back with my boyfriend about a ...
A. 4 May 2009: Congratulations on the baby and good luck.
You should really tell him and if he chooses to stick around thats good but make sure your child knows the truth to if the real daddy wants in on his/hers life.
My step dad took over being my dad whe... (read in full...)
5 Questions about teen pregnancy
Q. 1, Are you more likely to get pregnant if you have unprotected sex about five days before your period? 2, If you have unprotected sex too close to the time of your period can you miss a period and it be emplantation bleeding instead? 3, What is the...
A. 4 May 2009: I am only answering question 5 as dont know how to answer the rest.
I slept on my stomach threw out my entire pregnancy and my daughter arrived safe and well :):)
also i had pregnancy signs a week into my pregnancy and i did a test at 3 weeks ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?
Q. I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping ...
A. 29 April 2009: 1st off hunny Congratulations and extra congratulations cos the beautiful baby is due on christmas day :):):)
I was 17 when i found out i was pregnant and 18 when she was born (even tho she was due before my 18th) lol and i told my dad via text... (read in full...)
Man whore got me knocked up!
Q. sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...
A. 29 April 2009: Pebble and uncle phil you are bang out of order.
What she has done is her choice, its her life and shes asking for advice so stop acting like its your life
being nasty wont help anything.
Hun tell the bf/F buddy and go from there.
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Flashbacks of my stepbrother who raped me !
Q. I'm 19 even if my age says I'm way older.I have flashbacks about the time when i was raped. Heres how the story goes. I was about 13 and a half. My step brother Brendan who was 18 always babysat me. I know him since I was 11 but he didn't do ...
A. 26 April 2009: the same thing happened to me hun about 3 years ago and i still have flashbacks and nightmares. im in a loving relationship and now have a daughter even with all that going on. I would suggest talking to a close friend who you trust about ever... (read in full...)
What IF??????
Q. Hello, Here are the facts - Man's natural lube (aka precum) may contain traces of sperm if he ejaculated previously. Me and my boyfriend get VERY intimate without having actual intercourse. We let our bits touch - his penis sliding on top o...
A. 23 April 2009: his sperm gets more active if u dont have sex everyday so doing it every other day is actually worse than havin sex like this every day... (read in full...)
How do you know when you are experiencing an orgasm?
Q. Is it possible that I can't orgasm? I know its really hard to describe what it feels like to climax, but I don't know that I've ever reached that point. At first I thought it was the guy's fault because he was thinking about his needs over mine,...
A. 22 April 2009: I can only orgasm really when my partner licks me out or using sex toys.
i think the bottom to responses were pretty pathetic and unhelpful but satindesire's response was good.... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 22 April 2009: I have to answer this lol.
I am nearly 19 years old and i became sexually active about 3 years ago when i was 16 BUT i have only had one sexual partner my fiance that i have been with 3 years, hes a bit older than me so has more experien... (read in full...)
I'm not on birth control. Can I get pregnant?
Q. I'm not on birth control but when I have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't ejaculate inside my vagina. He normally ejaculates on my stomach but last weekend he was a bit slow pulling out and some of his sperm went in me. It was mostly outside but ...
A. 22 April 2009: Have you ever heard of pre cum?
he cums a little bit before the full lot and pre cum actually has more sperm in it !... (read in full...)
Where can I buy a vibrator online? (Discreetly packaged)
Q. I'm just 16, I want a vibrator, mainly because I want to get the pain and blood out of the way before sex. and I just really want it, but don't have a steady boyfriend at the moment and don't want to have my first time on a random night. Therefore...
A. 18 April 2009: www.tjtoyshop.com is good or type pado in the google bar there good and discreet... (read in full...)
Pregnant, unemployed, no government benefits. I'm worried about my baby's health. What can I do?
Q. I have recently discovered that I'm pregnant. I have been doing my research and i have a lot of course for concern. I don't have a job, I'm not entitled to receive job seekers allowance, I can't get a penny from anyone because i live with my b...
A. 9 April 2009: i ate like you junk food all the way and my daughter is nearly 10 months old now, try get some multi vitamins (i never took them) but if you worried you should. Also the governments will give you benefits depending on how much your partner ear... (read in full...)
How do I do "open mouth" kiss?
Q. Hiyy,im 13 I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. all we've done is hug and kissed a few times in a game and he slept over at my house but that's it i don't know HOW to pash (open mouth kiss) and he kissed me but I'm scared to kiss h...
A. 9 April 2009: If he is trying to pressure you then please end this relationship now, your just a child and you have plenty of time for all this.
Its underage for you to have sex anyway so he can get done by the police if it is found out that you two are havi... (read in full...)
How do I do "open mouth" kiss?
Q. Hiyy,im 13 I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. all we've done is hug and kissed a few times in a game and he slept over at my house but that's it i don't know HOW to pash (open mouth kiss) and he kissed me but I'm scared to kiss h...
A. 9 April 2009: If he is trying to pressure you then please end this relationship now, your just a child and you have plenty of time for all this.
Its underage for you to have sex anyway so he can get done by the police if it is found out that you two are havi... (read in full...)
On the pill, on my period, test negative. But could I still be pregnant?
Q. Okay, I'm taking birth control pills and I take them everyday on time.. never missed 1 in 2 months. Me and my boyfriend had sex, and the condom broke. I took a pregnancy test and it was negitave and I'm on my period right now. However, my friend t...
A. 9 April 2009: I doubt that your pregnant but if you are scared stop taking the pill beccause if you are pregnant then the pill can make it go ectopic.
Give it 2-3 weeks and take the test again if still negative go back on the pill, and if a condom splits u... (read in full...)
How long will it be before I know?
Q. I normally have an irregular period and its been that way for awhile. Just before i met my boyfriend it had been skipping just about 2 months then i got it and now for the past three months i havent had it. About a week ago me and my boyfriend had ...
A. 8 April 2009: if you are on the pill you probably wont get periods, but do a test and if you are pregnant stop taking the pill because it could make the pregnancy go bad... (read in full...)
Can I lose my virginity through masturbation?
Q. i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercourse i ned to know if masturnation can cause me to ...
A. 8 April 2009: I disagree with some of the answerrs below.
You lost your virginity when you have passionate relations with your partner (maybe that be male or female).
A same sex couple can make one another lost there virginity to.... (read in full...)
The picture I sent wasn't of me, and now he wants to meet in person!
Q. ok i have a big problem now and i don't know what to do so i'm confused i have been dating someone for two weeks now and he is so serious with me but the problem is that i lied to him about my picture, i sent to him another persons picture without ...
A. 8 April 2009: I agree with wondering cat thats a brilliant idea.
Learn from this hun :)... (read in full...)
Can't stop crying! Will the pain of our break up ever end?
Q. So its been a few days since my break of boyfriend of 4 years.. I feel sh*t and awful and can't stop crying..I am gutted it has actually come to this. I loved him so much and I truely thought he felt the same. But he is being so cold to me. It looks ...
A. 8 April 2009: Yes sweetie the pain will end give it time.
Also if he is being so nasty forget about him (i know its easier said then done.
Try not to cry to much and if you do cry try to drink loads of fluids to keep you hydrated, this phase will go soon.... (read in full...)
Am I Suffering From Hysteria?
Q. When I was about 11 I tried masterbating for the First Time and It Didn't really do anything. But I noticed Something Strange, ever since....I'm always wet. Sometimes more then other, but my panties are getting wet and it's staining them! I wa...
A. 8 April 2009: have you got any sex toys?
Going on what makes me orgasm is my fiance licking me out and using cliterous toys.
Make try some??... (read in full...)
Masterbation question...
Q. i was masturbating earlier and then when i went to the bathroom and noticed one of my vagina lips was bigger than the other, like swollen or something. now its kind of sore. is this normal? will it go away?...
A. 8 April 2009: it will go away and yes ist normal.
If you do it for such a long time they can get hot and swell especially if u dont use lube and you do use a toy.
email me if you need to.... (read in full...)
Am I Suffering From Hysteria?
Q. When I was about 11 I tried masterbating for the First Time and It Didn't really do anything. But I noticed Something Strange, ever since....I'm always wet. Sometimes more then other, but my panties are getting wet and it's staining them! I wa...
A. 8 April 2009: try having an orgasm and see if it makes it different.
Do you have a boyfriend hun? are you sexually active?... (read in full...)
Which has more accurate results: home pregnancy kits or vs. blood test?
Q. I made an appointment to take a blood test.. To find out if I'm expecting.:) Should I keep the appointment for the blood test or get a home pregnancy test and if it turns out negative I can use this appointment for a pap smear and to go back on bi...
A. 7 April 2009: Do both but home preg test kit is good :) and almost accurate.
You can do tests 4 days before your period is due.... (read in full...)
I think I am a lesbian! Am I in love or in lust, with my best friend?
Q. hello im a 17year old girl and i have a serious problem... i love my best friend who happens to be a girl. we kiss when we are drunk and recently we had sex (however girls have it) and ever since i find it impossible to forget about her. i find my...
A. 7 April 2009: Maybe you are going through a stage of you want her because you cant have her?
I have that stage three years ago :)... (read in full...)
I took the morning after pill in Feb, but am I now pregnant?
Q. i was wondering, i took the morning after pill one hour after i had unprotected sex.it was on february the 24th, 2009. then i felt terribly sick and then in a few days had some spotting. i then saw my period on march the 20th, 2009. i had not had ...
A. 7 April 2009: Hi hun.
It doesnt sound like you could be pregnant but never rule it out, do a test and if you are not pregnant go striaght to the dr asap.
Hope this helps... (read in full...)
How long do you wait to tell your bf and parents that you're pregnant?
Q. Curious.. If the Dr. gives you the Big surprise that you're pregnant..how long do you wait to tell your boyfriend? Is there a right time? I don't want to freak him out until I'm 100% sure..? And the parents? ...
A. 7 April 2009: Wait till you are gone 3 months to tell everyone apart fro m your partner, tell him now as soon as he is in a good mood.
Let him support you.... (read in full...)
Do women like to view porn?
Q. it is an old new quistion, please girls answer me i need more answers please GENERALY does women love to view porn?? because most of the girls that i know deny, while i am sure they do...
A. 7 April 2009: I am female and i love to watch porn especially lesbian porn :)
Now alot of my friends male AND female love watching porn to, sometimes we actually watch porn together with out boyfriends (like a double date) and have sex with our partners... (read in full...)
Family problems...
Q. The past couple of weeks has been hard for my family. My sister and I are constantly biting each others heads off at the slightest wee things and I'm just wondering does she really hate me or is it just a stage of life everyone goes through? I am ...
A. 7 April 2009: Hi hun my name is sharlotte and i am 18 my sister lou is 21 and ever since i was born fights started. she threw my across room when i was 6 months old, i stabbed her when i was 3 years old with a knife and still to this day we fight but not as... (read in full...)
Pink spotting...
Q. I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend (which we've been doing for awhile) but a few days after sex I had some cramping which has never happened for is there a chance I could be pregnant? Same thing this morning.. Also, I used the restr...
A. 7 April 2009: Do a pregnancy test and dont take any mini pills or birth pills until you know if you are or not.
this needs to be checked out asap because it could be something minor but it could also be something very very serious.
Email me if you need me :... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't give me blowjobs any more...
Q. Right I'm new to this but here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years, we have regular sex (almost every day) anyway about a month ago she said she's no longer going to give me blow jobs, I asked why and she said she doesn't like it ...
A. 3 April 2009: give her time the bj's will come back, try to please her don't talk bout it and I'm sure it'll come back :)... (read in full...)
I love our baby but not my wife. Do I stay or do I go?
Q. Me and my wife recently have had a baby. He is now one month old and he is wonderful, I love him with all of my heart. The problem is I do not his Mum. We have been together for 15 years and married for 9. I am just not in love with her at all....
A. 2 April 2009: Hunny you need to end the relationship asap as its not good for you, its not good for the mother and most importantly is not good for the child. He will be brought up thinking a relation ship can work with no love and thats bad.... (read in full...)
Can't conceive! Is it my age?
Q. hiya. me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for the past 3 months, and i cant conceive, with my last boyfriend and me, couldnt conceive. is there something wrong with me? or is it because of my age or something??????...
A. 2 April 2009: No hunny its not your age. 3 Months isnt to long to be trying for a baby, plus it could also be your partners fault, if there is alot of stress or bad vibes it'll make it hard for you to concieve aswell. I also have to say you are only 16-17 y... (read in full...)
I need help!!! I'm on birth control but don't use condoms... is this bad!
Q. Ok.. so my boyfreind and I have been together 7 months and we are sexually active.. I'm on birth control and we don't use condoms.... he cums in me every time. We are protected with the birth control but are we still at risk??? I need help!...
A. 2 April 2009: You are still at a minor risk, birth pills are very effective but nothing is 100% so just be causious.
Its not that bad and its very rare that you'd get pregnant but its still possible also condoms protect you from getting S.T.I's whereas birth pi... (read in full...)
I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.
Q. ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An ...
A. 2 April 2009: You shouldn't expect her to get rid of it if she wants it. Sadly the choice has nothing to do with you even though you are the father as it's her body. Be there for her and everything will be okay. Stand by her whatever happens. My friend had a ... (read in full...)
Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl?
Q. Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl? Sometimes my bf treats me really bad, especially when he has been drinking. So last time we went out he was flirting with a girl at the bar and I confronted him and he turned around and snapped at me. ...
A. 2 April 2009: Good on you hun! No it's not as bad and I think he definitely deserved it. Go girls :)... (read in full...)
My feelings for my boyfriend aren't as strong any more
Q. My boyfriend who is 25, and me, 21, have been dating for 3 and a half months. After a while, we started arguing about small things, but it would escalate to him losing his temper and threatening to break up with me. I would always be the one ...
A. 1 April 2009: Hun i think you are dragging things out and to make it easier on yourself and your partner end it for the good of the both of you. You shouldnt stay in a relationship with no trust, no feeings etc. please be careful. ... (read in full...)
Making out on the first date?
Q. do u think its appropriate to make out with a guy on the first date? would he think of the girl as a someone who gives in easily?...
A. 1 April 2009: I think a man would see making out on a first date aas you being easy but my partner said he wouldn't see it as you making out.
How long have you known this guy to whether or not its a good idea?
Shazx... (read in full...)
Can't keep erection while entering her...please help
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a unique problem. I was a virgin until I got married. However, I used to masturbate a lot and am theoretically educated about sex and protection etc. Now the problem is, during foreplay which both of us enjoy ...
A. 1 April 2009: If you are having problems then maybe you need to seek medical advice?? Dont be embarressed. Does your girlfriend ever say anything to you about this issue? Have you had many other sexual partners? Hugs Shazx... (read in full...)
Just found out my husband used to cheat... I'm pregnant what do I do?
Q. I have been married for 3 years and am pregnant with my 2nd child.Recently found out from my husbands x room mate that while we were engaged he was bringing girls back to the house and sleeping with them.Help what should I do.I heard a girl at a bar ...
A. 1 April 2009: Hello Hun
I believe once a cheater always a cheater and would leave him in a shot to be honest.
but you are pregnant and you need your friends and fanily around you as you know its hard.
Can you stand being alone?
Do you know he cheated ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating, cybering to this other girl and asking for pictures?
Q. I am feeling so distraught. my boyfriend signed into msn hotmail on my computer to check his e-mail and the details as in password and address were stored on the computer, my curiosity got the better of me and i had a look at his e-mail. i was ...
A. 10 February 2007: Do bring it up with him and let him know you have read/seen stuff he has been doing. Im a snoop to and if you snoop through things expect to get hurt but you have to handle it if you choose to do it babe. Good luck and keep us informed. I'm... (read in full...)
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