How to get him to see the urgency for a house and a family?
Q. I have been with my husdand for just over 6 years and we are newly wed only married for 5 months. I find I am increasingly getting down and upset as we have been living in a caravan for 5 years together on his parents farm and we now have a good ...
A. 12 November 2018: I have found out that his parents have been influencing and saying ' he doesn't want to leave or move far' - yes he does we need to! Haha.
Also he is concerned that if we buy a house in a street he won't like it after not really having neig... (read in full...)
Feeling upset. Is this just natural or am I wrong? I love my fiance.
Q. Well...not been on here for a while. I am engaged, pretty happy with my partner of 5 years then my mother goes and mentions my ex who split with me when times got hard on my family farm and I got very depressed and lost everything. Things got na...
A. 10 May 2017: Thanks for all the answers. I have sat down and really looked at the situation. I have a man in my life that loves me, takes me abroad without notice to places I love and treats with great respect. I love him.
I then remember the man I didn't fall... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that few months into the relationship I was still talking to my ex, and kissed?
Q. I have a dilemma.... I have been talking to my ex throughout my new relationship. I am 27 and I met my current bf in sept last year. Do I tell my bf that I met up with my ex even if was last January ? That we kissed and he been trying to get me bk...
A. 29 September 2013: Hi dd,
My ex split from me- I had financial troubles and I got quite depressed and he left when I lost my business and cus I looked at a job away. I never went away because didn't want to leave area. He said I was a shit who would leave go work ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that few months into the relationship I was still talking to my ex, and kissed?
Q. I have a dilemma.... I have been talking to my ex throughout my new relationship. I am 27 and I met my current bf in sept last year. Do I tell my bf that I met up with my ex even if was last January ? That we kissed and he been trying to get me bk...
A. 28 September 2013: Have not cheated. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that few months into the relationship I was still talking to my ex, and kissed?
Q. I have a dilemma.... I have been talking to my ex throughout my new relationship. I am 27 and I met my current bf in sept last year. Do I tell my bf that I met up with my ex even if was last January ? That we kissed and he been trying to get me bk...
A. 28 September 2013: I told my bf he's been texting me and trying to get me back. His answer was he's not letting me go even if I want my ex which I don't know if I do, because he may not be the same as he was but my current beau is being very controlling. I am in limbo... (read in full...)
I think rejection has scarred me. How do I overcome it?
Q. What can I do to stop feeling bad about myself? I feel ugly and fat and low all the time because the guy I loved left me after 2 and a half years together. I have a new guy who says I'm beautiful and gorgeous but that rejection has truly scarred me...
A. 17 December 2012: Do you thinl I should text my ex to say leave me alone and I can't be friends like he wants or should I just completely cut him dry?... (read in full...)
I think rejection has scarred me. How do I overcome it?
Q. What can I do to stop feeling bad about myself? I feel ugly and fat and low all the time because the guy I loved left me after 2 and a half years together. I have a new guy who says I'm beautiful and gorgeous but that rejection has truly scarred me...
A. 17 December 2012: Thanks all. It doesn't help that a week ago my ex turned up to a dance me and my new guy were at and he looked out for me then they started fighting and then all night the ex text me after saying loved me and missed me. Then the next morning was... (read in full...)
Does he have commitment issues and needs to be single?
Q. hey, im in a dilemma, my ex i am still in love with dumped me in june because i looked at new farms and didnt want to go live with him in his dirty home(but it rly is). i need to make my own living, yes i didnt tell him i was doing so but now ...
A. 11 October 2012: yes he just wanted me to go work on his farm for nothing when i couldnt afford to do that. i think maybe he did want to be in control. Thing is im used to being a strong confident independent woman and he didnt like that and tried to keep me in , ... (read in full...)
Does he have commitment issues and needs to be single?
Q. hey, im in a dilemma, my ex i am still in love with dumped me in june because i looked at new farms and didnt want to go live with him in his dirty home(but it rly is). i need to make my own living, yes i didnt tell him i was doing so but now ...
A. 11 October 2012: yes i think he did feel i went behind his back maybe but he used a very small lie that never came to anything, as im not moving as a reason to dump me.
yes i do realise the man i thought loved me does not. bye... (read in full...)
Should I text him to say I miss him?
Q. Hi Aunts/Uncles I went out with this guy for a month in September, things were amazing, I really liked him and lost my virginity to him. It was my first proper relationship. We broke up just after we turned one month, he dumped me by text and stil...
A. 17 November 2008: Dont bother. He is just like my ex, a prat! and you should forget him and move on. They just string you along if you tell them you miss them. They love you to say it but remember love and I'm not being nasty, don't trust any men because all they... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.
Q. I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...
A. 17 October 2008: He has left me alone since i told him to and i have received an apology off him. It has messed my emotions up for a very long time thoug and i dont know if i can take that apology seriously. He has an awful air of awkwardness and shyness around m... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.
Q. I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...
A. 10 October 2008: thank you all I am going to do exactly what you say and already have in fact!
And I feel fantastic!!
xx... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.
Q. I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...
A. 9 October 2008: this is an update from me! I am still having him contact me and pester me. Texting me every now and again still telling me how he thinks of me and how we were. Gets aroused at the thought of me, couldn't hug me because he'd get a hardon etc etc. ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 7 October 2008: this is an update from me! I am still haviong him contact me and pester me. Texting me every now and again still telling me how he thinks of me and how we were. Gets eroused at the thought of me, couldnt hug me cus hed get a hardon etcetc. W... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.
Q. I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...
A. 27 August 2008: I have told im not to contact me and to keep away from me and he has! I feel alot better for this. and know that he is just an arse realy! xx... (read in full...)
I don't know what my ex is playing at. I can't be messed about like this any more, can I?
Q. I have written on here previously about my issues with my ex boyfriend. but this weekend it has all come to a head.... I had to text him on friday (6th august~) about work related issues. Then from nowhere he tells starts texting me about what he...
A. 10 August 2008: .
He is definitely obsessed with me to tell me hes touching haimself and naked and crap, which i realy dont need to know.
It isnt nice hearing tha type of thing when u are no longer with a person cus u hope that they dont think of u in that way... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend. I can't stand the thought of him moving on with another woman. How do I get over it?
Q. my ex boyfriend and i seemingly broke off 2days ago and it has been wrecking for me. the issue is, that he seems to be gettin on fairly well he has even moved in with his female friends/flatmates who will definately be having girls come over for ...
A. 30 July 2008: I've recently split with my boyfrined.
he dumped me for no reason but is still in my life daily and now texts and tells me how attractive i am but that he cant be in a "relationship".
It hurts so much because he lives close by and i have to see h... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex, how should I be interpreting these signs from him?
Q. I have written on here previously titled:- My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe. I dont know what to do anymore with my situation. I am still in love with my ex sooo much that ...
A. 30 July 2008: He's been around my house again today and texting me.
Being nice as pie and acting normal.
I am sooo hurt and confused. He keeps coming back into my life all the time and it is killing me!!!!
I have never loved anyone like this. even though he ha... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex, how should I be interpreting these signs from him?
Q. I have written on here previously titled:- My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe. I dont know what to do anymore with my situation. I am still in love with my ex sooo much that ...
A. 29 July 2008: WEll... last night I had him texting me telling me how he hade seen me yesterday and thought how fit and attractive i was and that he thinks about me and him cuddling in ed everynight.
I said well... thats only your doing that ur not cus u were the ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 12 July 2008: I know now why he had to run off!! My mum interfered yesterday afternoon and rang my ex up and said that we had to meet up and talk that i was upset. He comes and meets me lastnight. We were so comfortable together again and talking like normal ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 11 July 2008: The last time i saw him. He was sooo nervous and awkward around me that he had to run off like he was going to cry?
Why?
I have done nothing but show i'm here for him.
I suppose i have to let go now.
but it is soooo hard when I know he loved... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 9 July 2008: I had to work with him yesterday. I saw in him that he had little feeling left towards me. He was talking to me but with no feeling and could hardly look at me.
I can see now that i have to move on however hard it may be.
He knows the way i feel a... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 7 July 2008: i also failed to add that this girl was by lucky chance a tourist who isnt around anymore!!
lol
he also said in end txt not his fault i cant except were over.
but... he the one who keeps conversations like these going on text!
What is... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 7 July 2008: There is more to this story if u wanna luk at preious questions i have posted u can c what has gone on in our relationship.... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.
Q. Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...
A. 6 July 2008: thank you for your replies.
I'm sure you are both right to leave him alone and see if he comes out of the depression type of feeling i believe he has.
He has told me not to text him again. So dont think that i will. Wouldnt know what to put anyw... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 30 June 2008: Since the last time i commented i have had loads go on.
my ex has been lurking, riding past my house sitting and watching me etc.
Then i had a pregnancy scare had to ring him and ask him to go the clinic with me. He wasnt nice on the phone and thou... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 16 June 2008: I don't know if i'm just naive and just unwise to the world of men, but why does he still say he loves me but he cant be with me? thats just what has messed with my head loads and i cant stop thinking about!!!!... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 15 June 2008: Since my last update I have seen him. We had to meet up to give eachother things. We could hardly look or speak to eachother at first and found it difficult. He couldnt realy look at me. then after about 15 minutes he started to peep at me... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: I am going out and having fun since he has dumped me. I am not just sitting around moping. I am trying to move on. but there is this piece of me that thinks hes ill and just needs time to get his feelings together 2. If he doesnt show any sign of... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: so shall i just leave him by himself?
I told him that i still love him but that he hurt me when he split with me like this and that ill always love him.
Can't b just friends.
So.....?... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: Sorry but there is also something else which i cant believe i havent mentioned before!!!
We hadnt had sex for the last month in the relationship. this was due to him injuring his back in an car acciedent in which he tore back muscles and he has t... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: Also must add this.
I liked this guy since i was like 12.he once took my sister out back then and i liked him. she didnt. (she 12 years older than me.
Then i would see him now and again and we were always shy but there was this great attraction... (read in full...)
He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?
Q. I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...
A. 8 June 2008: I think you all have valid points.
I haven't got to blame myself because i havent done anything wrong.
My family are very close and we all talk openly and work together and share everything.
My mother was speaking to a close friend of his ... (read in full...)
He is even more distant than before, is it over?
Q. Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...
A. 5 June 2008: I do reckon someone has said something but i realy dont know what. if he will believe what others say over what i do then he isnt worth it. i have told him how he has hurt me not telling me in person and i have never seen him since. He is a... (read in full...)
He is even more distant than before, is it over?
Q. Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...
A. 4 June 2008: I feel so used and abused as this is only my second experience of a relationship and it being sexual and intimate is what hurts the most about it all.
Like as though i have just been a figure to exploit and use.
He got after me initialy in ... (read in full...)
He is even more distant than before, is it over?
Q. Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...
A. 4 June 2008: It is over now!
Yesterday I tried ringing him to see how he was and he wouldnt answer.
then i received a text: "Y u ringing me?"
To which i said: just wondering how u r im sorry"
to which he says: im busy for the rest of the week working."
So ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's gone distant and I don't know why!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. We were so happy at first. He came to work for my family and I was in an unhappy relationship wit my ex and we found that we just clikcked and came together. We fell in love quickly although...
A. 26 May 2008: I hadnt heard from him at all yesterday so I went round to his house.
He was there with a friend but in stead of saying hello he just stared at me! and looked away. I then went because i was so hurt and upset that i cudnt cope with the situ... (read in full...)
I feel unappreciated and unhappy!
Q. Hi. I moved in with my boyfriend in jan, we hav been together nearly 4 yrs. Since moving in I have been feeling pissed off with him as he drinks much more than I knew about and he doesn't seem to want sex when he has had a few! He is never a nasty ...
A. 25 May 2008: Act sexy and then u will be sexy to him!
Make him persue and chase you!
go out with friends make arrangements without him.
Dress actractively. dresses, earings, make up etc.
MAKE HIM JEALOUS!
he will soon come round.... (read in full...)
I feel depressed and don't know why
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...
A. 12 March 2008: In october I split with my boyfriend and got together soon after with an absolutely lovely guy who loves me for who and what I am. I feel realy happy and totally in love, i think i was just unhappy with the guy i was with. xx... (read in full...)
I have been apart from my ex bf for a year now, we have however maintained contact and he is always sweet and flirty! Should I ask him back?
Q. Hi I need help I have been apart from my ex bf for approx a year now but we continued to text and talk after the initial dust had settled, It was the most painful time of my life so far because i truly love him so much, i believe that we should ...
A. 1 January 2008: Just tell him and see what happens!
You didn't realy need anyone to tell you the answer because you already know what to do. x... (read in full...)
I feel depressed and don't know why
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...
A. 24 June 2007: I am still feeling mega depressed!
I have just found a profile on the internet of my b/f's where he watches live porn shows and is frinds with all of the women in them and is acting like he's single!
I cant believe he has done that!... (read in full...)
I feel depressed and don't know why
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...
A. 23 June 2007: More info: In school had 3 friends in which became closed off into a group in which our whole school year completely excluded and made us feel little and like muck on their shoes. Boys would ignore and/or tease us constantly. and i have never had a ... (read in full...)
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