An emotive issue - support please!
Q. I found out 2 days ago that I am pregnant. My boyfriend has 3 children already and I don't want us to have anymore children around the house right now. He's asked me if I want to have an abortion and we have both agreed. I made an appointment, but ...
A. 26 May 2006: I just want to thank everyone for the support and for listening to my problem. This is the hardest thing I have ever been through and I needed advise from an outside view. Thanks Again to everyone who answered my question. It has helped tremendously ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he stopped using drugs, but he lied!
Q. hi i have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now in the beginning i knew he smoked pot but after a couple weeks in to our relationship he told me he was quitting for good and i belived him. nine months went by and i asked him if he really ...
A. 19 May 2006: First of all, he did it before you and if you don't like it you should leave him. You shouldn't try to change him. If you have to change him, then its not the person you love. TRUST ME! My man does worse. When you get older, even a few years, you'll ... (read in full...)
Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Q. I met a guy four yrs ago whilst travelling and he moved countries to be with me. We had a really great relationship and enjoyed being together and were very comfortable and talked alot. After 2yrs of living together,i had a miscarriage and he ...
A. 18 May 2006: I think you need to look at this seriously. It can hurt the baby in the long run, if he continues to hurt you, that hurts your child, if you resent what he did before your child will feel that also. My boyfriend has 2 little boys 5 and 3, he was in ... (read in full...)
How to stop picking at my boyfriends bad points.
Q. Hey I really like this guy but when i'm not with him and thinking about him, all I can think about is all of his bad points. So when i am with him i am put off by him. Is there anyway i could stop doing this?! i need help, it is realy effect...
A. 18 May 2006: I used to do this to my boyfriend, and it drove me crazy cause I knew I was in love with him. It was like a month or two before I realized that I his bad points didn't bug me anymore and that I never though about them anymore. They'll go away I ... (read in full...)
I kissed another man and now my bf won't talk to me! How do I get him back?
Q. i have just come out of a 9 yr relationship,and i dont want it to be like that. my partner myself and daughter went to a friends house to stay and have a few drinks when the kids went to bed.her bf kissed me to which i responded to for a sec and ...
A. 12 May 2006: He wont be with you because your the only person he trusted, he doesn't even trust himself so you letting him down probably made him give up all hope. I hope it works out, but I doubt he'll get passed it. GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)
Girls opinions needed... Is this chick interested in me or just being polite?
Q. Hi, I really just wanted some girls opinions... There is a girl who lives fairly near me who knows I like her (sent her a card ages ago), well nothing really happened as she always seemed so shy, I tried approaching her in the street but never go...
A. 12 May 2006: You have a good chance. Sounds like she was just shy, but now that you somewhat made an effort. She'll probably come around, just expect her to still be shy because thats how she is, but keep pushing. GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)
Older boyfriend wont move out from his mums house... what shall i do???
Q. My boyfriend is nearly 27 and I am 21, we have been together for 2yrs and 2 months and we have a great relationship. He is my best friend and although we do not live together, I stay at his house every night. Problem is, its not his house, its his ...
A. 11 May 2006: Deal with it. My 28 year old boyfriend lives with his parents (they are 66 and 77). And I love it. I live there and so do our kids (they are 3 and 5). We can afford our own place, but we are one big happy family and without us his parents would be ... (read in full...)
Broken up with boyfriend... could be my weight.. could be different views.. is there hope for me?
Q. i cant seem to find a boyfriend that fits my criteria. just broke up with my boyfriend today coz we dont share the same views. i feel i cant sustain a relationship coz im overweight. is there hope for me? i am 23 ...
A. 11 May 2006: I thought the same thing, I'm 23 overweight and didn't think love was there for me. I was wrong, in the last year I've lost 47lbs, just from not over stuffing myself and cutting out soda. I have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me very much and vise ... (read in full...)
He's given me two STD's and narrowly missed prison for beating me... not sure what to do?
Q. im 19 and have been with my partner for almost 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter but since being with him he has givin me 2 stds in a result of cheating on me he has just narrowly missed a prison sentence for beating me badly its not the firs...
A. 9 May 2006: GET OUT! Unless you want to have your daughter resent you. My roommate used to think it was alright her husband beat her, she wouldn't send him to jail because she loved him and they had kids. Well that all changed one day when he was standing in ... (read in full...)
I caught my 10-year-old daughter masturbating!
Q. I hope you can help me with this because i just dont know what to do! I have a 10 year old daughter who is very happy- go lucky and has lots of friends. Last week i walked into her bedroom to find her straddling her bedcorner and thrusting. I told ...
A. 5 May 2006: You have got to be kidding. How could you scold her. She was just doing something that is perfectly natural and that everyother human being has done at one point or another. You should be ashamed. Let her explore herself, its the only way she'll ... (read in full...)
How can I let a woman at work know how I feel for her?
Q. How do I tell a women in work(I know quite well) I have feelings for her and should I?(I don't know how she feels.)...
A. 5 May 2006: Ask her out for a drink or something, start small and see where it goes from there. Just be yourself and try to go on a date. Just think small! Good Luck!
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Is my little fella big enough to do its job?
Q. I am sure this question has been asked many times, but I am very insecure about the size of my penis, its just over 5 inches long and on somedays measures about 6. Is this big enough to do the necessary? I am not a virgin, but i feel nervous about ...
A. 5 May 2006: Your normal, don't even worry about it, plus you need to know how to use it, its not the size that matters its the way you use it. Trust me there are plenty of other ways to make a girl happy. GOODLUCK!... (read in full...)
We're together and fine out of school, but when we are at school he ignores me..
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now. We first met at school and we became best friends talking all the time in class and just having a laugh. And then we moved things to becoming boyfriend and girlfriend because we got on so well. Thing ...
A. 5 May 2006: I would chalk it up to its a guy thing and just be happy your with him, trust me school romance is nothing, be glad that you have him out of school and be your own person.
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I like this guy and I know he likes me, how can I get us together?
Q. a while ago i went to a party and this guy i like started givin me signals. unfortunately, i had a boyfriend and i didnt want 2 break up with him however, we broke up in march and i keep tryin to hook up with the another guy, but now he wont eve...
A. 5 May 2006: You hurt him, even if he still cares he doesn;t trust you and he doesn't want to let you hurt him again, his guard is up. You just have to sit back and give him time. GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)
I don't want to be without him, but he's not helping me whatsoever!
Q. my boyfriend never usually wants to go to my house... he always wants to hang at his house, and he never usually wants to go out... only sometimes... we get into really bad arguements sometimes and he justs laughs at me or we call each other names. ...
A. 5 May 2006: I'm in the same spot you are (except we never get physical) so I can't answer your question, but I just wanted you to know your not alone, your boyfriend isn't the only creep in the world, and your not the only one with a broken heart over stuff ... (read in full...)
My friend's telling my boyfriend that I'm cheating, when I'm not, what can I do?
Q. hi im with my boyfriend now and my friend always stirs it up and has been telling him that im cheating well im not and my boyfriend does not believe me at all and i feel like i want to cry and my boyfriend said well if im being cheated on then i can ...
A. 5 May 2006: KICK HER BUTT!!! No but she's not a friend if she's doing that and it sounds like she probably likes your man. Tell him you think she's just trying to break you two up. Tell her that if she doesn't stay out of it that when she has a boyfriend next ... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up and getting back together, what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend and i have known each other for almost two years and within that time, we've broken up and reconciled for about twenty times. maybe i'm over exegerating but the point is i know he doesn't trust me and he keeps referring me about an ...
A. 5 May 2006: He doesn't trust you and he never will, you lost that and can't get it back. I think you should sit back and think of how long you can deal with this because you hurt him and he's not going to change. He probably doesn't trust himself either. He ... (read in full...)
I have cerebral palsy and everyone treats me horrible. Can I change this?
Q. Dear Anyone. I'm 42, living in England, with Cerebral Palsy. This comes out mainly in my face - I look like a freshly shaved gorilla! And that, in a nutshell, is the question. How do I get people past the face and disability to the person ins...
A. 5 May 2006: The people that treat you like that should be ashamed. They are the ones with a problem not you. I can't really answer your question as to how to get people to change or meet new ones. What I can tell you is you don't need people in your life like ... (read in full...)
I haven't talken to her forever, she's married, but I think we want eachother...
Q. Ok last week i got a phone call from this girl that i haven't talked 2 in a year. Then yesterday i get this email from her and this is what she said (I have to say this. I probably shouldn't, but here we go. I can not stop thinking about yo...
A. 5 May 2006: Take a good look at it but it sounds to me like you two were meant for eachother. I would take it slow and easy, see how connected her and her husband are and go from there. It sounds like you two are seriously in love, and you can't change your ... (read in full...)
We want to be together and love eachother, but she's putting his family before herself..
Q. i have fallen in love with agirl who has fallen in love with me, she has a child and still lives with the father, she wants to leave but realises the upset it will cause to both the father and his family, so she puts them first before her happiness, ...
A. 5 May 2006: GET OUT! If she did this to him, she'll do it to you. Plus if she really loved you , she'd have left by now. GOOD LUCK! andplease don't be a sucker!... (read in full...)
Is it because we're different races that she doesn't want me?
Q. is she ashamed to go out with me coz im black and she is asain? ...
A. 5 May 2006: I am white and my boyfriend is asian. It has never been a problem for us, but I do know that it is not easy. Life is not easy for us, we have totally differnt backgrounds and beliefs. Its very hard sometimes, maybe the house she was raised in has ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants arthritis, I'm not quite sure what to do about this.
Q. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20. He wants arthritis and insists: "People with arthritis have the best sex lives and lives in general. Arthritis is cool" What should I do? Our relationship was good up until now. Dannii in Leeds...
A. 4 May 2006: IS HE CRAZY! I think your boyfriend needs to talk to a physician, Arthritis is very painful it can cripple you and make it difficult to even do the smallest tasks, like walk up stairs, or open a jar. I've worked for plenty of physicians and my ... (read in full...)
I found out he keeps texting his ex's and other girls. I can't live like this!
Q. I can't help feeling like I have to snoop on my bf. We broke up before when I found out that he was texting his ex and when I asked him about it he lied...we had another break up when he was texting some girl all nite when he told me he had no ...
A. 4 May 2006: GET OUT! get out of the relationship, he's not being faithful whether he's building an emotional of physical relationship with a diferent girl, it will all hurt the same. If you have to snoop you shouldn't be together, trust me I learned this one ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 29. I want to lose it, what should I do?
Q. Virgin at 29 Years I know this may seem weird but it is true. I am 29 yr old woman, who is asking for your help. I am still a virgin. I go out sometimes. In a month i may go out 3 times. I work, l have a good job good life. But i am ready t...
A. 4 May 2006: Its not weird or uncommon that your a virgin at 29. I think you need to slow down, you should be proud of yourself for holding off this long, don't waste it. Its a precious thing and you want your first time to be memorable. GOOD LUCK! ... (read in full...)
He wants his ex back, but I like him. Should I go for it?
Q. I really like this guy, but he is still totally hung up over his ex and he is after getting back with her. Do i make a move or wait?...
A. 4 May 2006: WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, should I go for it?
Q. please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two yesrs ago a girl and i relly liked each other, each night we would talk to each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times ...
A. 4 May 2006: Sounds like there are still feelings there for both of you. I would ask for her number, and start talking with her again. Feelings don't just go away! GO FOR IT!
Thats what I would do. GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)
Why do I think he's too good for me?
Q. I met this new hot perfect guy who seems really interested in me...trouble is i don't know why,i feel like he's too good for me! What can i do to feel more worthy???...
A. 4 May 2006: BE YOURSELF, thats what he liked in the first place, and he's the one that gets to decide if your good enough or not, so obviously you are. Smile, be happy, and good luck with him in the future!... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for marriage, but he wants it so bad!
Q. Marry him or break up? I have been dating with my bf for 5 years who really love me, I think he has stronger feelings for me than I have for him. The thing is he is urge to get married and wants to be together afterwards, I am not rea...
A. 4 May 2006: He's not the one for you, but you already know that. You need to let him go, tell him you love him but that you two are not at the same points in your lives, if he loved you he'd wait, he'd respect the fact that your not ready. The fact that the two ... (read in full...)
I think I want to move, but then I think about what I'm giving up. What should I do?
Q. I think I might be having an early mid-life crisis. I am 30 soon and am wondering what to do with my life and don't feel like I have achieved much. I have been working at the same comapany for years and have lived in the same small town all my ...
A. 4 May 2006: I moved to a new town approximatly 9 months ago. I knew no one and had no job. After a month I got a job, started making friends, and now I love it. I never want to leave. I have met the most awesome people and have the most awesome boyfriend, not ... (read in full...)
Our relationship has gone long distance, now all we do is argue!
Q. i am 21 years old and i am in a long distance relationship my boyfriend i love him but we get into rediculous arguments i think becuase he is immature it wasn't always long distance but i am use to it now. i get very stressed out after an argument ...
A. 4 May 2006: I've been where you are, and I got out, I regret it everyday. Talk to your man, tell him how you feel and tell him you love him. Don't give up just yet. I gave up too soon and after 3 years long distance and 3 years in the same town, we couldn't ... (read in full...)
I'm not quite sure if he's asking me to be his girlfriend or what?
Q. I am re-posting this question as the last one didn't get an answer. I am desperate for some advice as I see this guy tonight and am worried because he wants a cuddle and I won't know where to stop and I haven't established if i'm his friend or ...
A. 4 May 2006: Good Question, I see this happen to my friends a lot. He may just want to be friends with benefits but I doubt it. If that was the case he'd have been long gone by now. It sounds to me like he likes you but he's just trying to take it slow. What I ... (read in full...)
Why is she talking about this other guy? Should I be worried?
Q. Last night i was at my girlfriends, her cousin left her Email-inbox signed in when they went to the video store, im a inquisitive guy and seen a email from my girlfriend to her cousin..i feel rude for reading it, but the Subject line was Private, ...
A. 4 May 2006: From one girl to a guy, get out while you can, if she doesn't break your heart with this guy, she eventually will, I know, I once was just like your girlfriend! Sorry man and Good Luck!!! ... (read in full...)
He's going to the army and I don't think I can deal with this...
Q. my bf of 2yrs is joining the army im only 18 and am struggling to deal with it. i love him soo much but dont want to any more. i dont think im mature enough to deal with a relationship like this. do you think i shuld try it and see how it works or ...
A. 4 May 2006: I have been there, My boyfriend of 3 years went into the Navy, right when we were so in love. We lasted 3 more beautiful years. I too felt like you do, am I mature enough, am I strong enough. Then I realized I couldn't live without him. I am so glad ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend asked odd question, How do I respond??
Q. "What would you do for me?"My boyfriend just asked me this question and it stumped me.So much so that I couldn't answer the question.Like how people say,"I'd die for you."That's what he meant.What does this mean and most important,how do I ...
A. 4 May 2006: My advise is to think about it. I thought about it and I'd tell my boyfriend what I would do for him is give him all the love, respect, and loyalty that my heart and soul can give, and that I'd giev him myself, which means giving up yourself. But ... (read in full...)
Urine is coming instead of semen, Please help??
Q. my girlfriend enjoys giving me head, but lately when i feel as though i come i shoot urine into her mouth. it is not intentional, and is about the same volume as my semen. what is happening??...
A. 4 May 2006: You should see a doctor, my ex had this same probelm, and yes it is a problem, just ask your girlfriend. You need to see a doctor, it was easy treatment for my boyfriend and I was happy, do you and your girlfriend a favor, get checked out.... (read in full...)
We have an age gap, but I like him, but none of my friends do, what can I do?
Q. i'm 19 and theres this 29 yr old guy that likes me! we are slowly getting closer as friends! he is really kind and friendly and he is easy to chat to! but none of my friends seem to like him, also i dont know if the age gap is too big for us to have ...
A. 3 May 2006: Age is just a number honey, My boyfriend is 6 years older than me and the way I look at it is, my grandparents are 16 years apart and my whole life they have had the best relationship out of any couple I know, so loving and the best of friends. Age ... (read in full...)
I attract too many guy, how do I attract less?
Q. Am i just a tease?? So loadsa guys always chat to me n stuff wen im out and im always friendly back (i hate bad manners:P)Thing is there is now soo many guys that want me and somehow think deep down that i want them, i dont want every guy i meet to ...
A. 3 May 2006: You don't honey, You might think it sucks but be greatful, just be gentle and tell guys sorry, I'm just not interested.... (read in full...)
She wouldn't have sex til marriage and I cheated on her. What should I do?
Q. I had been with my fiance for 6-1/2 years and we were engaged 2-1/2 of them. She refused to have sex with me until marriage and she wouldn't plan a wedding that we could afford. I ended up cheating and possibly having a child on the way. I regret ...
A. 3 May 2006: First you should be ashamed, not only did you cheat on her but you disrespected her by having sex with her after you knew she wanted to wait. Thats horrible, as for her, she probably just needs time. 6 1/2 years is a while to just throw away and ... (read in full...)
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