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writes: is losing your virginity as bad as alot of people say??? i am a virgin and the things people say extremely puts me off sex, but i really hate been a virgin at 17!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): Hey Im 17 And Im A Virgin And I Feel The Exact Same Way But Ya Know Ive Talkin To My Friends And They Say Dont Be Afraid and dont rush into it they say if its gonna happen it will just give it time and you will know when you ready when the time comes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): its different for everyone, im 15 and im still a virgin, but some say it hurts if your nervous. but im sure if the guy is super gentle and your calm it wont hurt bad. and plus my friend told me it lasts for under a minute. people get their arms cut off and live, it cant compare to that. goood luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): i'm 16 and i've just lost my virginity a couple of days ago.
there honestly nothing to worry about because it aint everything it was craked up to be i thought. Yeah it did hurt a bit but it was because i was a bit nervous. but don't worry if you relax, trust and know you love your partner and have the right contraception then everything will be ok. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006): yea im only 13 and i am already thinking about losing my virginity 2 my current bf who is 15 and is not a virgin but i am kind of afraid dat it will hurt...but i am willing 2 do it 4 the guy that i love!!!! but good luck with that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): hey im a virgin 2 and also very scared lol im worried that it iwll really hurt as everyone is saying,iwish u luck n i hope 4 the both of us it isnt bad. take care xxx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (3 October 2006):
 The most common 'bad' bit that people have with losing their virginity is doing it with the wrong person. It seems that many feel they 'have' to lose their virginity, to be cool or keep up with their mates or whatever, and rush into it. That means lowering their standards. It's unfortunately too easy to find an obliging teenage boy who will talk about relationships but then loose interest after having had sex a few times. That can leave you feeling cheap and a bit used. Not pleasant.
I can only recommend holding out for someone you know really cares for you (ie you have been in a good relationship long enough to be sure), and to just remember that the word 'no' is always acceptable. That is the best path to having a good experience.
My experience was that many of my friends were busy telling people how they had lost there virginity and what it was like. But then when I did, many of those same people were very curious... 'so whats it like?'. I'm certain that a lot of boys lie about it to appear cool, and I wouldn't be surprised if girls do that too.
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reader, nigel knows!!!! +, writes (3 October 2006):
 well it depends on the individual person some people say it hurts others dont.
but just because you are 17 doesnt mean you have to lose your virginity it will happen when the time is right and with the right person this person should be caring and willing to understand that this is your first time
so when the time comes just remember to relax and take things slowly and remember SAFE SEX!!!
good luck
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