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Why do men not call after the first few dates?

Q.   Why do men, after a few dates and telling you how nice you are, suddenly never call you again??...

A.   24 April 2008: We want a sign on your part that your interested too, its that simple. Usually the guy want to move things along and it's kind of like you giving him the o.k if you call. But, it can also be a way to keep his dignity, no guy wants to be groveling at ... (read in full...)

Why aren't you men wooing us any more?

Q.   Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...

A.   24 April 2008: As a young guy, I just feel women today don't appreciate it. If they do, they get used to it, and thus appreciate it less. Things that become expected, deteriorate the feeling of giving, sincerity's, and caring on the part of the giver or "wooer". ... (read in full...)

Why am I seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....

Q.   Why am i seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....do they not have responsible parents anymore?....I know there is a lot more pressure to perform nowadays, unlike when i was a teenager, but it still dosent explain it to me, do ...

A.   24 April 2008: maybe their parents..., you know so little about them as people and what they do tell you makes them often seem flawless, or "holier than thou". I wish I had people on a site like this when I was younger because I wouldn't have dreamed of asking a ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. We have always been very sexually active and comfortable with speaking openly about what we want in the bedroom. About 2 months ago, during phone sex, he brought up how he wanted to watch me ...

A.   24 April 2008: even I know that's just not love... Guys who love their women would ache from the depths of their souls at just the thought. but apparently there are some who are into this and in love but if its not for you, neither is he. sorry if it's harsh. ... (read in full...)

I cant seem to get that engine started and give him the sex he wants and deserves!

Q.   Me and my boyfried have been together for 3 1/2 years we have a beautiful 1 year old little boy, but before all this our sex life was great!! Now it seems like I dont want it as much as he does we have talked, and talked about it but it seems like I ...

A.   24 April 2008: get drunk.... lol my girl wanted me to talk dirty, we got tipsy and i was able to. after her response i was reassured that she wouldn't find it weird or whatever. some may disagree but after the experiment while being tipsy I'm fine all the time. it ... (read in full...)

I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head

Q.   Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am ...

A.   24 April 2008: I feel your pain, My girl and I separated for like 4 years for college but were still seeing each other when we could. But when we got back together she gives me oral sex all the time and then randomly swallowed. I was glad and sick at the same time ... (read in full...)

How do I get ready for a performance? Any tips?

Q.   This is not a relationship question but can't blame a brother to try. Well it has been four years since I stop singing but this weeken I'm about sing 4 songs in front of 60 people. I still sing but not solo but this weekend is gona be solo, so I was ...

A.   24 April 2008: better performances come with experience there is just no getting around this fact. The more you do it the more you will notice what the audience responds to in a positive way and in a negative way. Most importantly know that every audience member, ... (read in full...)

After we broke up she "learned a few new things"! Having a hard time getting over the "she waited for me like a saint"! What do you think?

Q.   I'm a 24yr old male who has been with a girl since the 5th grade from puppy love to high school sweethearts. This girl has always loved me ever since I can remember but I have always taken her for granted. Not because I don't care for her but ...

A.   5 April 2008: Thanks for being honest, I tried to be as truthful in my description as I could. These responses have really let me calm down and realize it's something people go through and I have no right to have expected anything. I have since talked to her and ... (read in full...)

Is my husband have still having a relationship with his old gf?

Q.   how to find out that my husband is still have relation with his own old girlfriend. just today i find my husband private e-mail id and i tryed some of his passwords and luckly i got it right but when i opened his mail id i find that still he is ...

A.   4 April 2008: You run the risk of being wrong, although he seems guilty of something. Usually if a man is being unfaithful or is loosing interest you will notice it in other ways. When you argue does he just dismiss it or does he participate? Is he generous ... (read in full...)

Is the withdrawing method safe?

Q.   me and my husband just had sex since last week but he never discharge inside he always dischare outside but i am confussed will i get pregnant......or not this time we never use proctection cause since long time we were using that so this time we ...

A.   4 April 2008: My girl and I use the pull out method and and birth control... However we know it's still not the best idea and we have days where we just feel nervous because of it. We have started finishing each other off orally and believe we can use condoms now ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and about to get married..honeymoon tips wanted!

Q.   I'm twenty and still a VIRGIN ALL THE WAY. i have never even kissed a boy and about to get married in a few short months to a man who is also a virgin and has also never "bin there done that" I'm pretty sure the only sexual action we have both ...

A.   4 April 2008: First Congrats! Virginity is going to save you and your husband much anguish in regards to sexual history, which can be crushing to bring to light. Take things slow, due to your inexperience I doubt you'll be thrown over the table. Massage oil is a ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with this pests obsession with me?

Q.   Ok, I'm going to try and keep this simple. There's a guy who works in the shop across from me, and he's more than a little obsessed with me. It really freaks me out so I just tend to run away! But now he's taken to coming to the club I go to every ...

A.   4 April 2008: From my perspective he sounds like a guy who wants the best of both worlds. Guys often try to put women on hold in various ways, usually because we want a guilt free excuse to pursue other women. I'm guilty of this myself. He may realize he really ... (read in full...)

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