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writes: Hello, I had not slept with a man for five years until recently. After 3 very intense weeks of dating we slept together, do you think this was too soon and that he will think of me as easy? Im quite naive about everything. He made me feel that there was nothing wrong with sleeping with someone after three weeks, plus I was not going to see him for a while as he was going away. We are still seeing each other but I wonder if he would have wanted me more if I had held back. The feminist in me is incensed that Im even writing this message! Reply to this Question
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reader, hannahuk +, writes (6 October 2006):
its not like you sleep around!your on about one guy that your in a relationship with an that you really like,so no i dnt think you slept with him to soon,three weeks is still good!i slept with my bf before i even started going out with him!lol!an iv been with him 10months now.its not about sex,its about loving each other for who you are,and if his one a those guys,where everything revolves around sex,then clearly his not worth it.hannahxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): No i dont think it made you look easy.Think about the fact that it was 3 intense weeks until you done it and when you done it it must of seemed right at the time for it to of happend.You are still seeing each other which is more than a good thing and i doudt he has ever thought any less of you for doing it.And it seems he cant want you anymore than what he already does as hes still with you.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 It is true for many men that the longer you make them wait the more they feel they have when they finally 'get it'. But 3 weeks pretty good going by todays standards. Only time will tell, but you shouldn't feel it was too soon. You said that the 3 weeks were very intense, which is good. If you had seen each other for 3 dates in 3 weeks it would be a different situation perhaps.
Just put this thought behind you and work on making sex the second, third, fourth times even better...
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 your still seeing each other, so he doesnt think any less of you, so why question it you made him wait 3 weeks but you must have felt right at the time or you wouldn't have done it any way what is time and how long do you wait every-ones choice is an individual thing
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