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† To sum myself up in four words, I'd say I'm rather open-minded, reflective, understanding & independent. I have quite a wide variety of interests and a great affinity for seeking knowledge. Someday, I would love to travel around world. †
My qualifications? I'm very level-headed and least likely to make decisions on a whim. Whenever I'm faced with a messy situation (mine or someone else's), I normally ponder everything through and search for every possible option & outcome available. Then I make my choice. Also, I've observed numerous family/relationship/marriage dilemmas first-handedly - I think can offer at least some good advice.
Nevertheless, I enjoy offering advice to others as one of my favorite pastimes. And through assisting others, their issues teach me something new everytime. I do ultimately try my best to offer an unbiased reply when answering other people's questions. As it may be unfair to force my personal beliefs onto others, I will instead try to point out the undisputable areas within those issues, and help them see their problems/options clearly when emotions cloud their best judgments.
Yet nothing makes me anymore *happier* than knowing that I've helped someone else.
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I don't know if anything could ever happen between us because of the age gap, what do you think?
Q. Hi I'm 14 and have liked a boy now for nearly a year. I feel more for him than I've ever felt for anyone before. He goes to my youth club and I only see him once a week :(the problem is he's 19 although he acts alot younger than he is) and I don't ...
A. 18 March 2007: Ahhh, my computer cut me off!
So for the growth part, it was supposed to be written like this -
+ growth – As a girl who’s in her very late teens, I can certainly say that what you thought at 14 will be very different (if not completely) in f... (read in full...)
I don't know if anything could ever happen between us because of the age gap, what do you think?
Q. Hi I'm 14 and have liked a boy now for nearly a year. I feel more for him than I've ever felt for anyone before. He goes to my youth club and I only see him once a week :(the problem is he's 19 although he acts alot younger than he is) and I don't ...
A. 18 March 2007: While xlindax has certainly hit the mark especially about being cautious & how it is illegal to have a sexual relationship with him, I disagree with Friend Tom. Firstly, I can say this because I am around your love interest’s age myself. And I know ... (read in full...)
After I've graduated, should I let him know about my feelings?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 17, a feamle senior in high school. I took a two-semester class last year with the same teacher. I realized after getting to know him for some time that I felt like I really connected with him. Obviously, this progressed into ...
A. 6 December 2006: To answer Pica's question: nothing, but a great relief for the soul. It will help us from feeling regretful that we did not do or say anything when we had the chance. And that could be as simple as thanking someone for their assistance to confessing ... (read in full...)
I'm her 46 year old teacher, but I think I'm falling for my 16 year old student!
Q. The thing is: there is this girl - a student of mine. I notice things about her that I shouldnt: well I have always noticed things I shouldnt about various girls I am just.. well very aware of the female species lets put it that way. However with ...
A. 6 December 2006: ...and by gosh, it would be best if you did not mention anything about her attractiveness until she has graduated and is legal to avoid in any potential problems.
Many adolescent girls think it'd be lovely if their feelings were reciproc... (read in full...)
I'm her 46 year old teacher, but I think I'm falling for my 16 year old student!
Q. The thing is: there is this girl - a student of mine. I notice things about her that I shouldnt: well I have always noticed things I shouldnt about various girls I am just.. well very aware of the female species lets put it that way. However with ...
A. 5 December 2006: Judging from what you have written, I'd say this is only a simple harmless attraction or infatuation... unless you act out your feelings, then some obvious problems will arise - how this will strain your relationship with your girlfriend, legal age ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and have never kissed anyone! I'm scared to death I won't do it right.
Q. I'm a 21 year old female and never been kissed. But there's this guy, we've gotten really close lately. And I really, really like him. Last night he tried to kiss me like 10 times and I just couldn't do it. I just kept moving my head away. I was too ...
A. 5 December 2006: First things first - do not worry about getting all the movements down perfectly. Most people MESS up their first time, and have done stupid things like bite the other person's lip, have their braces caught in together, miss the mouth completely, ... (read in full...)
I'm 32 and he's 58 - would a relationship with him work?
Q. Hi there, i am in love with this guy, he is 26 years older than me (I am 32)..i have connected with him like i never had with anyone before. I know he feels something, he has mentioned it to my colleague..saying its not just my looks, its something ...
A. 5 December 2006: I'd believe the two of you should be peers by now. The situation would be much different if you were a woman in her early twenties, per se.
Its not the age gap that's the real concern, but rather the life stages. Most women in their early 30... (read in full...)
After I've graduated, should I let him know about my feelings?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 17, a feamle senior in high school. I took a two-semester class last year with the same teacher. I realized after getting to know him for some time that I felt like I really connected with him. Obviously, this progressed into ...
A. 5 December 2006: Lol! I had the exact same dilemma (except the teacher was not married)!
If he wasn't married, I would have posted a super long reply, but he is, so therefore he should have a "lookie no touchy" sign seared into his forehead.
Well, especia... (read in full...)
Is it alright to date a 15, almost 16 year old when i'm 18?
Q. Ok so I met this girl through my cousin that i really like, i met her at the movies....and she found me on my cousins "myspace" and we started talking and whatnot, she told me she was 15 and I was 17 at the time, I didn't know if it was alright to ...
A. 5 December 2006: Oh gosh yes!
I'm also 18 right now also, and trust me, in a few years when you two are both in your early twenties, a three or two year age gap hardly makes a difference! And even for a super religious devotee, this is honestly not a major ga... (read in full...)
He takes advantage of my feelings for him, how can I help this?
Q. How do you stop yourself from loving someone? I'm in love with this guy who i seem to think is the nicest guy in the world. I want so badly to stop loving him, because even though he makes me the happiest person in the world when i'm with him, ...
A. 6 June 2006: I have a few infatuations where I myself did not want have in the first place. And it becomes been exceedingly difficult to get rid of if I don't put determination into it. Nonetheless, I am so glad you are able to see past your emotions, and look ... (read in full...)
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