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writes: My boyfriend needs to look at porn on a regularbasis, and has denied me sex to do so before is this a real problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): leave sweetheart...while you still have a chance at some self respect
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reader, melisnjustn05 +, writes (2 October 2006):
Hunny my boyfriend is the same way. We have a three month old and another one on the way in 8 months. I hate him looking at porn. we actually get in fights and I say that I'm going to leave and it's like he don't care. To me it makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him. The thing is I ask him all the time well why can't you watch it with me. and his respond is well all men look at porn and i don't know a man that doesn't and blah blah. And I think I should have my own private time and whatever. Well just tell him that if he don't give it up then your gone and if he agrees with it then you know what you deseve better. I know that you might love him but don't let him choose porn over you.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (29 September 2006):
 It's called porn addiction. Don't laugh because it is a clinical addiction. It happens when the fantasy world of exotic sex partners becomes more exciting than the real thing. I know, I thought I might be having that problem too. So I decided to throw away all my porn and delete everything off my computer. My girl and I have a good sex life. If he wont do that, then maybe do some reading up on the net and show him all the problems with it you find. He might start to come around.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (29 September 2006):
 'Needs' to look at porn?
How can it be a need? 'Wants' to look at porn maybe, but need?
The fact that he is placing porn above you is a serious issue. You need to be very clear with him that it is not acceptable, and be willing to take whatever steps are necessary if he doesn't change his habits. Over the long run your self esteem could end up eroded badly if you continue in this pattern.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): so sorry to learn of this,my husband looks and watches porn and never has he denied me sex,i also look and watch porn, either we watch it together or alone as porn cant give you that physical touch only mental.try suggestin you share the porn its a lot more fun.if he refuses its more than just porn why he wont ave sex with you.
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reader, glassofwater +, writes (29 September 2006):
My question is why has he not asked you to watch with him? Watching porn can be a fun experience with a couple. He should let you join in if you would like it too or do it on his own time.
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