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My purpose here is to listen and share my many years of relationship advising, along with, what feels like a life-time, of lessons learned from my own personal relationships and experiences. I am from the Midwestern US.

I believe there is always another "side-of-the-coin" so to speak. Sometimes sharing with a person, can bring a view of a different perspective of whatever the person is experiencing, thus producing results and solutions, and being gone with the problems.

I am in a happy partnership with a wonderful man. Between the two of us, we have 2-adult children and 2-teenagers.

Afraid to change things with my boyfriend and my friend in case this is all in my head.... Advice?

Q.   I dont know what to do, Im unhappy in my job, actively seeking a career that will satisfy me more even though it much less pay. Having problems with my boyfriend, a few little ones that feel worse to me because Im unhappy in other areas of my life, ...

A.   15 May 2006: What a Great time for you this should be!!! Take a step-back, look at you from the outside. You are at a perfect opportunity to change whatever you want to change!! Again, take a step back, re-evaluate what is happening right now in an optimistic ... (read in full...)

How To Stop Unwanted Affection

Q.   I work with loads a women but only a few guys. One of the guys is single and so am I. We get on really well, I spend ages chatting to him and we have a lot of fun because we're a laugh together. Trouble is some people from work have been saying that ...

A.   15 May 2006: People who gossip will do such, no matter what. At this point, have you thought about discussing matters with him outside of work, and maybe keeping the friendship outside of work. You really should not care what others say, but you sound ... (read in full...)

My Boyfriend loves everything except time with me!

Q.   A 40+ female with a 50+ male bf, moved in together about 3 months ago. Both formerly dating younger persons. His ex-gf is still actively in the pic, now mostly emails, of which he did not admit to me. Unfortunately, these past few weeks, he's ...

A.   15 May 2006: Hang in there and listen to your instincts, not your head. Sounds like the two of you have some things to discuss. You open to talking honestly to eachother? Let me know......... (read in full...)

My Boyfriend loves everything except time with me!

Q.   A 40+ female with a 50+ male bf, moved in together about 3 months ago. Both formerly dating younger persons. His ex-gf is still actively in the pic, now mostly emails, of which he did not admit to me. Unfortunately, these past few weeks, he's ...

A.   15 May 2006: Wow..you ARE frustrated...you now are past the honeymoon stage. At this point, you have a couple options; 1)make a choice to move out, 2)get a hobby (he will miss you) 3)have a sit-down and talk/work this out. It sounds as if he really does want ... (read in full...)

Why won't my boyfriend distance himself from his ex?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They split up 2 years ago, and he and I have been dating for 2 years (and living together). The problem is that it really bothers me that she is still in the picture (after she dumped h...

A.   5 March 2006: Sweet Girl. I am currently in a similar situation. As spiritual, loving, caring, & open as I am, I can not get past the fact that the man I love and want to spend my life with, continues, even after many confrontations, agreements, etc...to ... (read in full...)

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