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Is it usual for the boyfriend to say I Love You more? I was the first to say it and still say it the most...

Q.   Me and my GF have been together for almost months and two weeks now. well to start i said I love you first. I don't know Y but I did. we had only been together like a week or two at the most. and she was very excited i said it and surprised I said ...

A.   23 December 2011: I waited for too long before saying it even though I felt it the first...and now we are having trouble over the time when we didn't say it. I'm not saying that our problems only have to do with those three words, but I think that if I did tell him ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend left me after I miscarried our baby and now I am furious

Q.   Hi. I posted on here a few weeks ago re my situation but things have changed. Me and my bf have always had a tricky relationship but our love seems to hold us together. I have had some mental health issues that go back a long way, back to my ...

A.   23 December 2011: I think that he is being a baby by leaving you in such a terrifying state. He was scared and hurt by the dead baby, I am aure. However he has also to think about what the mother of that baby is feeling!! He is definitely not ready to be a ... (read in full...)

How do you feel about nick-names in a loving relationship? Do you have a favorite nick-name?

Q.   Does your loved one give you nick names? Or a nick name? And which one do you love the most? I think nick-names can be a barometer of a relationship. If the nick-names stopped happening then I would know there was a problem, even if nothing had been ...

A.   22 December 2011: I was called a few names while being a child and I didn't really like them, but with my current BF we have a few nick-names for each other that we like a lot. My favorite is Chéri/Chérie and I find it really endearing when we call each other that.... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   23 October 2011: Hello JH. First, I want to thank you again for the last answer you posted. I think that you are right to say that the more my boyfriend and I do together, the less we'll think about my past. However, what I meant by "the things I do" is the things I ... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   22 October 2011: Hi everyone. I just wanted to let you know that my boyfriend, being the sweet caring man he is, came over to my place to surprise me for my birthday. He told me that he's been planning this for weeks!! I was so happy to see him because it's been... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   20 October 2011: Hi, everyone that's been helping me. I'm so glad that all of you are helping my boyfriend and I to move on from our past. I believe that if I want to gain his trust back, I do, most certainly to tell him the truth. However, I also don't want to hurt... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   20 October 2011: Hi, everyone that's been helping me. I'm so glad that all of you are helping my boyfriend and I to move on from our past. I believe that if I want to gain his trust back, I do, most certainly to tell him the truth. However, I also don't want to hurt ... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   18 October 2011: Hi everyone. I want to thank you all for the insightful inputs, as they have helped me a lot. I talked to my boyfriend today, and we've decided that we are going to try to work things out. I told him I know that it takes time, and I will patiently ... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   18 October 2011: This is a question to Yos for his last post: Yos, you said that I shouldn't give him facts, and I understand that if I do he will only be more hurt, however I also wanted to know the important reasons behind the refusal? My boyfriend likes to... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   18 October 2011: Thank you Yos and JustHelpingAgain for your posts! It is really helpful and even calming that there is people out there who are helping me. I'm glad to have asked my question, and I came to the right place. Right now, I am trying to express my own ... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   16 October 2011: Thank you mishmash and Yos for your input. I do realize that I have rather low self-esteem...and I usually rely on others to judge myself. However I really don't see how I can forgive myself when I've hurt them so much, my mother and him, and even ... (read in full...)

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

Q.   He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

A.   16 October 2011: Just to clarify about what the two other readers have answered: @Moo's Mum: I do agree with you about the hacking part, and he admitted that it was wrong and if he didn't, everything would've been fine. But in my point of view, if we loved each ot... (read in full...)

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