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writes: i've really small boobs i measure 34AA they're really small, it's like nothing but a nipple because i'm really thin. should i take breast enlarging pills? which ones work better? pills or creams? i'm only 17 though maybe it'll grow but i'm getting impatient, i know of a lot of girls my age who have bigger boobs. my bf just broke up with me a couple of months ago (he always said i had small ones and he likes those with big ones). i'll feel more confident if i get bigger breasts, should i try one i saw on tv it's pretty expensive though? But i don't want to waste money if it didn't work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): i agree, i have the same problem i have been thinking about taking pills. im 17 as well and ive BEEN impatient. are there any pills or any thing that actually work without me getting any side effects?
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (25 October 2006):
Confidence is not something you can find in any pill. Even if you get larger breasts, if you are down on yourself, you will find something else to feel bad about...that is why people who go do plastic sugery for one thing, end up going for more and more and more.
I am overwieght, and I have had people reject me just on that. It hurts, and makes it more difficult to be open to the next person for more fear of rejection...
HOWEVER...in time, you just learn to get comfortable with your body, and if the person you are with does not like it, find someone that does.
You are young, and so was your idiot boyfriend for being insensitive to you. It is not the size of the breasts...it is the enthusiams of the lover.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Yos +, writes (24 October 2006):
The pills don't work.
Repeat that over and over again until you can't continue. They really don't work.
My girlfriend got breast enlargements. Here is what she said about it:
"It took me getting breast enlargements to realize that my self esteem was nothing to do with the size of my breasts. It was useful for finding that out at least".
Personally I don't like them. They feel a bit odd and remind me of how unconfident she used to be :( But they are part of her, and I'd never say that to her of course, since there is nothing she can do about it now.
When we are young we tend to think that our physical appearance effects our confidence. As you get older you realize that it works the other way round: your confidence effects your physical appearance. If you are confident and happy then everyone will find you attractive, whatever your breast size. And if you are unconfident and unhappy, then people won't find you attractive (other than 'players' looking for an easy target), whatever your breast size.
Something else to remember: almost every guy I know likes breasts of all shapes and sizes. Really. Go look at all those super models that everyone drools over, a lot of them have your bust size (albeit they are very thin to start with).
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reader, jack23 +, writes (24 October 2006):
Firstly I would suggest not talking anything until you are atleast 18-20, just so that your body has had enough time to grow properly, before you try to alter it.
Im not very clued up on the pills, but I do know some women that have tried them with little or no sucess. Alto I am aware that some have managed to increase their breast size simply eating properly to gain and and controling there shape through exercise, I would suggest trying this first.
The main question would be, do you really want to change yourself? From a male view I much prefer the smaller breasts rather than the larger. Remember everyone is different, this isnt a bad thing, it is what makes you unique.
I hope this advice is of some use :)
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