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writes: What can a woman do to make a guy want her more. I have been seeing a guy (we are not yet official) but I want to keep him interested and would like us to be official, however I would like him to be the one to tell me he wants it to be official.Thank you. xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): If u to make a guy want u more that ur not really official with i say dont be to clingy.I dont kno about u but i hate it when guys are to clingy to me becuz it makes a person feel like they r bein sufficated. Also if hes into a certain kind of music or sports team then tell him ur opinions about UR favorite music or sports team. But dont jump all over him with why ur right that way he will want to talk to u about guy stuff. also its a good conversation starter.but dont let guy talk be ur only social life with him. talk about stuff u like to. oh yea when ur out in public with him, dont act like a total dude becuz come on, no one wants to see u embarrass ur self in public. dont talk about a relationship often becuz he may feel like hes bein pressured to do something. let him come to u. if the guy ur seein hasnt made it official in the next 4-5 weeks then u say something but remember dont beg and plead him to want u. If hes not lookin for one then maybe he isnt the guy for u or better ofF friends then boyfriend material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): Just be yourself and be attractive and he will come on to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): ive been doing things with this guy for 7 months now and I want a to date him But he says he dont want a girl friend right now. Cause hes to young. Im also engaged to anthor guy who is madly in love with me and I still love him. But im not in love with him anymore. And now I feel in love with the other guy to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): a relationship is like a growing child, you should never push too hard or the child will fall. you can be urself and be as honest with him, more importantly yourself. it is not possible to make someone fell a certain way, if they dohat is great but you cam try to assisst the process by showing him you care,love and trust him. listern to him when he speaks and be an emotional support for him. men are aware women want them but it's the little things you do that makes a guy want you more. notice his smile, his best food, his best position in bed, keep him interested and at the end of the day if he doesn't make it official, i will, (just kidding). just be patient with him, remember, he is a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): i think you should confront him about your relationship and ask him if its going to go anywhere, there is no point in fighting for something if he doesn want it.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (24 October 2006):
Having read Yos's reply, I wonder if this website has talked about "The
Rules"?? before. I've never figured out what I think of them. You are
supposed to make him initiate. I think it does work, like a cake recipe
works, though I've never had enough stick-to-it to really apply them
myself. I always break down and call...
I think the best way to keep him interested is to be your own independent
person, always doing unexpected things that are neat, or cosy, or social or just
totally you in a way that if he really likes you, he just wants to stick around!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Have you read the Book of Rules? It describes (in a very direct way) the classic tactics a girl can use to get a guy to fall in love with her. I hate to admit it, but they do work too, rather well.
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Complete-Book-Rules-Everything-Capture/dp/0722539746/sr=8-1/qid=1161705223/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/026-3035055-3383618?ie=UTF8
I'll probably get told off for posting this advice.
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