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He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...
A. 15 September 2010: lol.. I believe in you Shelly, take time, compromise and work things out for both of you.
Wishing you happiness and health..
Before you get into an argument with this guy, come to Dear Cupid and argue with us instead.... (read in full...)
Is my sensei hitting on me?
Q. hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...
A. 13 September 2010: Your fighting in hand to hand combat. To a certain extent you have to trust the teacher or you won't be able to learn.
My ex did martial arts and was qualified to carry several weapons and could easily be charged with murder due to his skill, s... (read in full...)
Is my sensei hitting on me?
Q. hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...
A. 13 September 2010: hehehe.. we is protected from such comments as yours Mr Q1605..... (read in full...)
She says all I think about is sex
Q. On Wednesday, I took my girlfriend to a restaurant with a beach view, the horse races, and a Padres game which all cost $120. Keep in mind that we are both full-time college students and I don't have a job because I write for the school newspaper ...
A. 13 September 2010: mmm..yep her behaviour sounds normal, that's the way we are.. we change our minds often.
Romance her more, take her out more.. and your lucky to get sex every night. Normal relations are just like this, sex all the time at the beginning, then it ... (read in full...)
Is my sensei hitting on me?
Q. hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...
A. 13 September 2010: I'm not concerned, his actions don't seem offensive at the moment. Continue as you've been doing, until you have more to report.... (read in full...)
How can I remind myself to take my birth control pill?
Q. What are some ways to remind your self to take your birthcontrol? so far I have an alarm on my laptop and an alarm on my phone and my Ipod dock and Ipod it's self and sometimes I STILL forget. What are some other ways incase I am not around a...
A. 13 September 2010: If your with your partner, make it their responsibility to remind you. That way you both take responsibility for birth control. It worked for me, and then if I forgot I could blame it on him.
Change to the implant if your having problems... (read in full...)
Why do we stereotype men and women?
Q. Im sure all of us have had this happen to us. Ok, let me start off with an example: Scenario: You just got pulled over for speeding. The cop is a male. The driver is a female. The woman flirts her way out of getting a ticket. Now if it were the same ...
A. 13 September 2010: The British and their tea is not a stereotype.. that is real, we like the stuff, it helps you deal with anything in life.. and yes, we also like queuing.. Some stereotypes can actually be real.. lol... (read in full...)
Why do we stereotype men and women?
Q. Im sure all of us have had this happen to us. Ok, let me start off with an example: Scenario: You just got pulled over for speeding. The cop is a male. The driver is a female. The woman flirts her way out of getting a ticket. Now if it were the same ...
A. 12 September 2010: I get stereotyped.. I'm either a nun, or I'm promiscuous woman with tons of experience. Sometimes I'm seen as dizzy and stupid, sometimes I'm seen as a bookworm who is innocent about life.. it depends on what I'm wearing or how I act..
I'm j... (read in full...)
She acts different around me
Q. So there is this girl I told I liked on facebook (i know it was stupid...) so she said she was flattered and she told me that she doesnt like me that way ever since then, i noticed she looks at me and when i catch her looking, she looks awa...
A. 12 September 2010: Don't see no signs of interest or attration. Your a kind person and she likes you, but there is no romantic interaction here. Sorry. She sounds like she is frightened of hurting your feelings because you've been so nice to her.... (read in full...)
I was a good girl and now I'm wondering why I didn't do the bad things that others do!
Q. I was a virgin when I got married. I will admit to heavy petting and finger penetration. But no complete sex penetration. I was saving myself for marriage. I was a good girl. I was married for 26 years when my husband past away suddenly. ...
A. 12 September 2010: You keep yourself a virgin because you decide to. You make your own morality for yourself. If you build your morality on what other people do or say, you end up with plenty of regrets.
Your angry and now looking back on your choices. You made... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to enjoy showing off his sexy wife?
Q. Hey all some advice please, so thanks to good genes and hard work I have a good body and I love showing it off. I like the looks I get and it gives me a lot of confidence. Some people might say I dress like a slut but that's their opinion and I do...
A. 12 September 2010: Sigh.. Difficult situation, impossible to find a proper compromise where everyone feels happy..
1. You have the right to wear what you want, no one should control your dress.
2. Your husband is embarrased by the trashy look you like, he hat... (read in full...)
His mom caught us having oral sex!
Q. okay, so, me and my ex havent been dating for two years, and we havent really talked either, were teenagers, and his moms psycho, and becuz i got caught giving him oral sex, she dosent want him to talk to me, she practically has the people at our ...
A. 12 September 2010: He may like you, but if your under-age and giving oral sex, I can see why his mother hates you.
She made a big mistake, she should have told your parents about what you were doing so they could take better care of you.
She's not psycho, she'... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with 2 friends before me.
Q. I moved into a shared house with 3 girls F, D and S, and I started dating F, whilst I was with her the other girl D slept with my best friend. D was in a relationship with a guy she had been friends with a while Z, however whilst they were togeth...
A. 12 September 2010: Good luck.. lol.. live in the present, and create your own happiness...
I'm wishing you all the best that life has to offer... I think your decision is great.... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 12 September 2010: He's addicted and he won't get help. He's smoking all his money. Soon the weed won't be enough and he'll turn to the harder stuff.
This relationship will not work in the long term if he is addicted like this.
Sorry.. I wish you luck.... (read in full...)
Guys: How beautiful would a girl have to be for you to cheat with her?
Q. They say that a guy may not purposely go out to find someone to cheat with, but that if someone latches on to THEM, they would be willing to cheat. Guys, how beautiful would a girl have to be in order to get you to cheat on your significant other ...
A. 12 September 2010: Don't really think it's the beauty... guys cheat with ugly people as well.... (read in full...)
Is my sensei hitting on me?
Q. hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...
A. 12 September 2010: oops.. brown belt has jealousy.. Not your problem, you do your lessons and worry about your own actions and morality.. the brown belt needs to deal with their own issues and loose some of that pride. It's a good lesson to learn, pride can be dan... (read in full...)
Is my sensei hitting on me?
Q. hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...
A. 12 September 2010: Martial arts is more than exercise it's built on honour, dedication, strong mindfulness, and proper living... Remember this. I don't want to put barriers between you and your teacher, but if he offends you, then tell him off and show him up for the ... (read in full...)
I want a steady boyfriend and excitement on the side!
Q. I'm 14 and I have one of those boyfriends that everyone says is a 'great guy'. And he is. He's generous, good-looking, absolutely adores me and has never betrayed my trust and I don't think ever wants to. I lost my virginity to him at 13 and we've ...
A. 12 September 2010: Oh dear... You know so much about love, and love caused you to have illegal sex at 13. Now you are bored, not even legal yet and your looking for someone different to have sex with. True love to you last about 7months. Now you want to go out with ... (read in full...)
I gave my daughter the wrong advice and don't know how to make things right
Q. Three girls on the bus the other day told my daughter that her boyfriend was cheating on her. One of the girls has a brother that I think he is a little bit interested in my daughter and I think that she was trying to see if maybe my daughter was ...
A. 12 September 2010: Go and appologise to your daughter, tell her you are human and you were wrong.
Ask to talk to the boyfriend and explain the misunderstanding, and how it was your interference that provided the final straw.
Then sit back, leave them to it, and ... (read in full...)
Husband has breath holding fetish!!
Q. My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...
A. 12 September 2010: Big hugs babes, glad your still around and sorry your man is still as dumb and dumb comes.. I've seen the amount of guys who appreciate you on this post. Wish you would trade him for another kind hearted guy who likes the breathing thing but aren't ... (read in full...)
She blamed her actions on a panic attack?
Q. Ok.My girlfriend and I are both 50 years old.she lives 120 miles away.We have been going out for almost 3 years.We broke up at least 8 times.We just broke up again 3 weeks ago .I think its for good this time.I hope.But it dosint make sence this ...
A. 12 September 2010: She doesn't sound well. Is she an secret alcoholic, they get panic attacks, disappear and call you at strange hours of the day and night.... (read in full...)
I caught my dad on some sites and I don't want to be the cause for divorce!
Q. i realized a few months ago that on my dad's computer there were sites for affairs in the top sites, but the history was cleared. i didn't say anything about it but cried about it and one day he caught me and i mentioned what i saw. he played i...
A. 12 September 2010: Molestation, nonsense... hogwash and frightening, incorrect advice.
Please listen to Jilly, her advice is very helpful and honest and truthful.
We don't know what is going on in between your father and mother, and we don't know if they are happ... (read in full...)
I was aroused after being punished by my mom. Freaked out by my feelings!
Q. I'm embarassed and ashamed but I felt aroused after being smacked by my mom. I got in some trouble at school after being caught lying about why I'd been hadn't been at school. The associate principle gave me a note to take home to my folks. I...
A. 12 September 2010: Keep it to dreams baby.. if you keep acting up to get spanked, your mum will be worried. There is nothing wrong with your desires, but sex is private. If you act on your desires and get in trouble often, your mother may guess what is going on and ... (read in full...)
I was aroused after being punished by my mom. Freaked out by my feelings!
Q. I'm embarassed and ashamed but I felt aroused after being smacked by my mom. I got in some trouble at school after being caught lying about why I'd been hadn't been at school. The associate principle gave me a note to take home to my folks. I...
A. 12 September 2010: Nothing to be ashamed of. Some people get aroused when they are spanked, this is normal, if unfortunate when you are young and in danger of getting spanked.. lol
The thing is, we humans are complicated, we get aroused by tons of stuff, some thi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 12 September 2010: Yes your a brilliant girlfriend, and you and your boyfriend have a strong relationship that allows a level of honesty few people have.
Sigh..
He doesn't know how long this crush will last, if he did he would be able to stop it now.
1. Brea... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 12 September 2010: Take her swimming... and touch her often as you help her get into shape.. the fluid water, the movements of your bodies and the fact the water will hide her large figure, should do a lot for helping your desire at the same time as she starts to trim ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever had to cut ties with a close family member?
Q. I have to cut all ties with my father. Basically, he is an emotional bully and because of him my whole life I have not had any confidence or self-esteem. Im 27 now and because of how he has made me feel, I am unable to deal with conflicts and ...
A. 12 September 2010: Naughty Q... I know what it's like.
You can build a emotional wall to protect yourself, distance yourself and try to spend little time in his company, but don't walk away forever. This way you'll be able to cope but you will still have a dad an... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 12 September 2010: That's the answer then. He just has to convince his dick that it is wrong. Your solution to think of how hard-working and kind his wife is, will probably do the trick. I'm sure your right, he's not using his brain in the right way and that's why ... (read in full...)
He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...
A. 12 September 2010: Shelby, please stop being so stubborn. You can't force the world to work the way you want and always bow to your demands. If you love this guy, then try to compromise, try to find a way for him to be happy, without making you unhappy. ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 12 September 2010: He is not talking about an intellectual exercise, or whether he loves his wife or not. His wife no longer attracts him now she has a larger size. If he wanted a bigger lady from the start, that's what he would have married. You can talk about if ... (read in full...)
He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...
A. 11 September 2010: Although you say he wants to marry you, and has voluntary chosen to give up things which cause him pleasure, the bottom line is the guy is not happy. Remember you came here to find out why your guy isn't as loving as before. As you said, if he ... (read in full...)
If this were your partner's past, would you be as upset as I am?
Q. I met my girlfriend on a popular on-line dating website. Her story was this - she had been doing on-line dating for 5 years, but had never been out on more than 2 dates with anyone she met on the internet. She is a divorced mother of one child, and ...
A. 11 September 2010: Here's the links..
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/retrograde-jealousy.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/retroactive-jealousy--how-do-i-overcome-it.html
Of course you have only two choice, to love her and continue the relationship, or... (read in full...)
I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!
Q. im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...
A. 11 September 2010: Male anonymous, they hold him responsible because she is young, she lacks experience and has learning difficulties, so she has less ability to make sensible choices....
But I think he has learning difficulties too, so therefore he also makes un... (read in full...)
I slept with him knowing he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi, i'm writing this as i feel lost and very confused. Me and a male friend went out for drinks and i ended up drinking a lot that evening, he was drinking also but didn't seem that drunk. We were walking home and he held my hand, i let him as i ...
A. 11 September 2010: Please don't worry about the girlfriend, a mistake happened, your correcting it.. if he wants to tell, then it's his responsibility, she's not your problem, you made no promises to her... as you say, take yourself away from this mess and chalk it ... (read in full...)
He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...
A. 10 September 2010: To be with you, he has to quit drinking, chewing and he has to give up his friends.. and you wonder why the man is unhappy...
Why do you expect him to celebrate and be happy when you've taken away a lot of things that entertain him?
Now you... (read in full...)
Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!
Q. I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...
A. 10 September 2010: He's already forgiven you, you impressed him by dealing with things like a man... he didn't ban you, he only asked you to slow down.. I think this man will become a friend if you treat his daughter and family with respect.. again, well done on you.... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: There is nothing wrong with being overweight, healthy and eating well. I call that voluptuous. Many larger ladies are sexy and they meet men who likes the size of them. But this guy married a slim woman, she's now changed. If he found the fat ... (read in full...)
How do women deal with former lovers who were better?
Q. How hard, or dissapointing is it for you women to go from a guy who is very well hung and mind blowing in bed to a guy who is just average in both the size and skill departments. Let's say that the well hung guy was great in bed, and you were only ...
A. 10 September 2010: I'm funny like that.. I shut the bedroom door, and I must be in charge. I take the responsibility of showing you what I expect of a good lover. If you fail or have problems, it's my fault and not yours. (unless you is selfish or bloody stupid)
... (read in full...)
If this were your partner's past, would you be as upset as I am?
Q. I met my girlfriend on a popular on-line dating website. Her story was this - she had been doing on-line dating for 5 years, but had never been out on more than 2 dates with anyone she met on the internet. She is a divorced mother of one child, and ...
A. 10 September 2010: Nope, I wouldn't be upset as you are.. there is no point.. getting upset and angry over the past is a waste of energy. However, yes, I'd not like the fact that you sleep with two fuck buddies at the same time. One good fuck buddy who treats you n... (read in full...)
I feel I have to change myself to look like these pornstars he looks at daily......
Q. hi im 25 and live with my partner of 6years,we have two children,together..we have a great sex life,we watch porn together sometimes and i know he also watches it a lot online by checking history. I dont mind him watching as I know all men do its n...
A. 10 September 2010: Absolutely understand honeypie. Your not anti-porn, you can see it has a role for both you and your partner in your relationship. You are also not controlling and jealous. You have no problem excepting that sometimes he needs to be alone to have ... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 10 September 2010: Spot on Jonas and aunts... try building her another world, where love, fun and acceptance isn't built on sex or money... It needs to be a wider circle than just you and your boyfriend, that will make her feel low and increase her jealousy and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 10 September 2010: "He's not a very confident person, and i am the only one he's got."
Oh shit, the guy is really fucked then... he should think about starting to date men, if he has any balls left by the time you finish with him....
Your a very cruel person.... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 10 September 2010: THE WORD ACCORDING TO CHUCKLWATERS.... "But the f-buddy relationship is about all about objectification; hence, reducing people to things." "I'm not against sex - love it - so I'll sleep with women who've boned up on their bedroom skills as an... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? The 13 year old? Or the 16 year old?
Q. Hi, I'm 14 and there are 2 different girls that I like and have questions about. There is a 16 year old she has a car and she wants to have sex with me. Should I? But there is a 13 year old almost 14 and I really like her and she really likes me. We ...
A. 10 September 2010: Since your determined to have illegal sex...
Don't pick the 13year old, because you will mess up her life and hurt her badly, and she'll regret ever meeting you.
Pick the 16year old, she'll mess up your life instead. She's got a car, children ... (read in full...)
I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!
Q. im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...
A. 10 September 2010: Do you have special needs as well? Is that why you made this mistake? Is everything confusing to you? You must take care of this girl and her baby now, because they need your help? Please talk to your care worker about the trouble you now find ... (read in full...)
Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!
Q. I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...
A. 10 September 2010: Absolutely brilliantly handled, man to man, you forced him to be truthful and tell you exactly what was wrong. Agree with Tish, you have every reason to be proud of yourself. Now, be bloody carefully, keep your hands to yourself until you can ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 9 September 2010: Please aunts don't get upset.. this is purely a entertaining post to make our day.. this woman can't be for real.
" i knew it was expensive and he payed for all of it, my friend offered to pay, but i thought my bf offered to pay for everythi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 9 September 2010: "i blurted out that me andmy ex had sex in the forest there and in the car down the lane. he just went quiet and wouldnt talk to me for the rest of the evening...i meant nothing by it!"
Are you a troll? Is this a joke post? ... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 9 September 2010: "Bottom line is she lied to me, and was used as someone's sex toy for 2 years."
Your views are outdated, this is the 21st century babes. We women can do casual sex if we don't fancy dating. Men do it all the time. Have sex with lots of women un... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: Cindycares is spot on.. that's what I mean about police pressure.. you are in the house, you know what is going on.. it's no problem for them to lock up you and him. He can't take the blame, your there and you know.... (read in full...)
I slept with him knowing he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi, i'm writing this as i feel lost and very confused. Me and a male friend went out for drinks and i ended up drinking a lot that evening, he was drinking also but didn't seem that drunk. We were walking home and he held my hand, i let him as i ...
A. 9 September 2010: Good girl.. shit happens, we make mistakes.. but you don't have to feel guilty no more.. it happened and now you are making sure it is ended..
Good for you.... (read in full...)
I slept with him knowing he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi, i'm writing this as i feel lost and very confused. Me and a male friend went out for drinks and i ended up drinking a lot that evening, he was drinking also but didn't seem that drunk. We were walking home and he held my hand, i let him as i ...
A. 9 September 2010: So, anyway, what do you think he's up to?
Answer to your question: He wants to have sex with you again, then he will go back to his girlfriend and pretend nothing happened. He can have sex with you, he can have sex with her. You know the scor... (read in full...)
He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...
A. 9 September 2010: "But when my interests are in my friends or someone else, then he puts all of his effort into not losin me and into our relationship... What can I do to get him to want me?"
Seems you answered your own question.
Keep doing new things with him,... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 9 September 2010: Push her towards getting some counselling, your friend is very lost.... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: Addiction.. difficult It's not supposed to be physically addicting, but yes it is, especially if your a heavy daily user. If you come off the weed, you miss it for maybe a couple of months, but it's not like heroin, crack or cocaine, you won... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: I live in that type of neighbourhood.... no good smoking profits, that will turn him into a poor pothead. He's got to bank that money, he's risking stuff, and it's stupid to just use the money for fun. Yep guess it was just the weed... he's sil... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: One last thing.. if he's already on probation then he's not a very good drug dealer. The police and the law know about him, and they are likely to catch him soon and put him in jail.
Please plan with him what you will do when he goes to jail.... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: Ok, you really love him, and it's just his drug dealing job. Tell him he has to study at home and get some qualifications. He will not give up drug dealing until he can get a similar amount of money from legal work. The only way he can do that is ... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: He has a job. He's drug dealing, that's his job, he has no time to go to school. He's not interested in work or school, he can get more money dealing drugs.
Drug dealing is very time intensive. As you notice, he has to go out all funny times of... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: Poor girl... you can't do any more than your doing, and you seem a very caring friend, even taking on board some of what we are saying.
She's very low in self-esteem.... maybe you could try another trick... ignore the men and the bad place sh... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: "Prostitute" that's a strong word to use. Is your friend asking for money in exchange for sex?
The terms you use, "Joke", "prostitute", "other people.. settle down", "family.. shambles"... you don't see her as an equal, and that might be why it's... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with 2 friends before me.
Q. I moved into a shared house with 3 girls F, D and S, and I started dating F, whilst I was with her the other girl D slept with my best friend. D was in a relationship with a guy she had been friends with a while Z, however whilst they were togeth...
A. 30 August 2010: You dated F, maybe she feels that she's not your first choice and you prefer the other girl. Maybe she's upset to know you slept with and loved a woman she actually lived with.... (read in full...)
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