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Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 2 December 2011: "Boris, there is a third option: find a girl with values and morals towards intimacy that are the same as yours. They are rare, but to me, they are worth looking for." Well, I'm that kind of girl... my sexual history is so low, that I can tell ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend of 8 years pushing me away?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years this year, last year he went through a tough time at work he lost his job as a manager and now works on the floor where he managed but only temporary until later this year, then hes out, he was very ...
A. 1 February 2011: He Loves you...
But he's having trouble at work and it's making him very sad at the moment. Don't worry so much. When he's sad, he sad. Just like when your sad. Ignore him when he says he wants to leave you, that's just the sickness talking.... (read in full...)
Are my personal standards for my performance in the bedroom over the top?
Q. Um I'm 15 years old and a dude and me and my girlfriend who I've been crazy for for well over a year and who I've been with for about a month having been talking a lot about sex lately and we've decided that we both want to loose our virginity to ...
A. 27 January 2011: Lame Legal issues? What are those?
First time sex, especially for girls is painful, and pretty crap. First time sex for boys, can sometimes fail due to erection or ejaculation problems.
First time sex after four weeks at the age of 15..... m... (read in full...)
Why are man always so concerned about there performance and not about what porn actually can do to their brains and judgement?
Q. Porn is a big topic in a lot of relationships. For my own opinion, it is quite sad to see so many guys using porn to get satisfaction,despite having willing and loving partners. The argument is often just to have a quick gratification and not to ...
A. 27 January 2011: I'll agree, for the brain, imagination and reality actually feel the same. (Brain scans prove it)
The body however knows the difference... :)... (read in full...)
Help, I'd like to close this dark chapter in my life!
Q. I recently broke off a long term relationship with a man I was seeing for a while (about half a year). He was the first man that helped me bring my guards down and taught me how to love. I invested heavily into this relationship which eventually ...
A. 27 January 2011: Know how you feel sweetheart....
I always say... I love Paul Newman.. loved him since I was a kid.... Loved him when he was married, Love him now he's dead. Paul Newman is easy to love.. don't have to do anything, just love him.
You can love ... (read in full...)
Why do women often think too much into how to act with their guy?
Q. Why don't girls realize how easy it is to be a "catch?" I see so many posts that involve girls who will resist some sexual acts, or just being sexually aggressive, because they don't want their partners to think they are a slut. That's just not ...
A. 27 January 2011: Spot on... that's my 3 rules.. makes things simple and easy, and then I don't have to worry about skinny as pole, false breasts or how to pay flirting games that I always loose.
Additional enhancements.
4. Try to get out of the house and do... (read in full...)
Women and Men: Being Equal
Q. When your in a relationship, either married or dating I think it is safe to say that equality in that relationship is a very good thing. I'm interested in seeing what everyone can come up with for equality points in a relationship. I'm not really ...
A. 27 January 2011: No.. Can't do it... too complicated...lol
You may have a dominant female-passive male... then equality would be boring to them.
Or one sick/disabled partner and one healthy... equality not possible.
Wife is a professional driver... H... (read in full...)
Why are man always so concerned about there performance and not about what porn actually can do to their brains and judgement?
Q. Porn is a big topic in a lot of relationships. For my own opinion, it is quite sad to see so many guys using porn to get satisfaction,despite having willing and loving partners. The argument is often just to have a quick gratification and not to ...
A. 27 January 2011: Affect my judgement about what? Doesn't affect my capacity to love, my ability to orgasm or the amount of partners I have.
I walk and see beautiful flowers.. nice... I go home and see more beautiful flowers.. nice.. actually... I can spend ho... (read in full...)
A threesome with my wife & her friend was great! Now for the same with my mate...
Q. Hi, A few weeks ago my wife let me fufil a fantasy I had had for a long time: a threesome with her and her best mate. It was great and we all had a great time. Now she wants me to return the favour and wants me to arrange a threesome with m...
A. 27 January 2011: Talk to your wife and establish the rules of the game. If she's keen on seeing man on man action, then it's probably fair to try it, because she tried it for you. If you don't like it, then stop and say it's not your thing. Seems your both open ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have the right to be upset about a one night stand when we were separated?
Q. I'm so confused and need some advice. Let me start out by saying I am married, I love my husband and I have no intention on leaving him. Basically my question right now is does my husband have the right to be mad and upset at me for having a one ...
A. 27 January 2011: The aunts are right, your crazy to stay in this relationship with a man who has no problem walking out on his wife and kids, cheating on his mistress, telling his wife to go and get laid, then having problems when she does just that. You think... (read in full...)
Does my husband have the right to be upset about a one night stand when we were separated?
Q. I'm so confused and need some advice. Let me start out by saying I am married, I love my husband and I have no intention on leaving him. Basically my question right now is does my husband have the right to be mad and upset at me for having a one ...
A. 27 January 2011: "the woman is crazy and trying to create the illusion that him and he are still together" (Confused) But you know better right.. your husbands so honest and decent and faithful, that she has to be crazy. He wouldn't still be telling her love... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend of 8 years pushing me away?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years this year, last year he went through a tough time at work he lost his job as a manager and now works on the floor where he managed but only temporary until later this year, then hes out, he was very ...
A. 27 January 2011: Depression hits you hard like that. It's hard to talk and make nice conversation when you just want to cry all the time, or hit something, or just run away.
He loves you, he see's no point in making you unhappy, your the only special thing in... (read in full...)
Why did you even ask?
Q. What brought you to Dear Cupid? Most likely it's because of some problem in your life or relationship. That's how most of us stumbled upon this place. You came here hoping that these anon people on the internet could offer you some insight into ...
A. 26 January 2011: Had a bad day honeypie.... Of course my answers are always perfect, (for me) I got the scores to prove it...lol
Reposting... reminds me of one Christmas...Tisha managed to track down about 20posts from the same person before she gave up.
S... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my ex?
Q. My ex bf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I initiated, but he agreed so it was mutual. We want different things in the future and it's for the best. Our relationship was short-term. I don't want him back. I do miss talking to him and miss his friendsh...
A. 26 January 2011: Most of the time people get hurt in situations like this, and it's usually the woman.
Sure, it's fine to have meaningless sex with someone you like and you know is a friend.
But.... your missing him already. What happens when he's too busy an... (read in full...)
My partner is posessive and doesn't allow me to have friends
Q. my partner is very possesive and wont allow me any friends. i dont work and am basically a recluse as im not allowed out. please could someone advice me on how i can make friends on line without my partner knowing. i feel i need company a...
A. 26 January 2011: The reason why it is difficult to recommend where you can find online friends, is that any friend that is decent will just say what we are telling you.
Friends (even online ones) will want you to be free, and after they get to know you for a wh... (read in full...)
How can I move on from my husbands past relationship
Q. I was reading the article a couple of men wrote. I have that same type of issue with my husband. I cannot let go of the past. We have been married for a long time and he is my best friend. My problem is that I cannot stop thinking about him and his ...
A. 25 January 2011: 20years, and your still angry... yes I think that you would benefit from some professional help.
Of course if you just found her picture, it's natural to be upset and disturbed. But you sound like your obsessed and bitter at your husbands... (read in full...)
Why does he look at porn when he still thinks I am beautiful and we have great sex?
Q. We all know about the ups and downs in a marriage.But my husband and me managed to really deeply fall in love again for the last two years. Married for 17 years and two kids. We have lots of wonderfull fullfilling sex.I love and appreciate him. So I ...
A. 25 January 2011: Sigh.. we have extensive writings on porn on Dear Cupid. I suggest you take a look at them... http://www.dearcupid.org/category/pornography I'll first state, I'm pro-porn. Many aunts are anti-porn and they will give different advice. Why d... (read in full...)
My partner is posessive and doesn't allow me to have friends
Q. my partner is very possesive and wont allow me any friends. i dont work and am basically a recluse as im not allowed out. please could someone advice me on how i can make friends on line without my partner knowing. i feel i need company a...
A. 25 January 2011: Leave him. You've voluntarily put yourself in prison and made yourself a slave. Only you can help yourself, only you can break free. Millions of women are laughing, being loved and treated well, whilst you choose to stay indoors in fear like a ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 23 January 2011: OCD and obsession... but you speak as if you have no choices. The thoughts come and you decide to allow the "horror" movie to play in your mind and drive you insane.
I know it's not as easy as it sounds, but thoughts can be controlled through ... (read in full...)
How often do engaged couples fight?
Q. I've been single for all my life and it's about to change. The dynamics of letting someone else have the reigns or at least to be the "head" of our relationship/marriage is hard for me to bite. I am so used to being independent and not allowing ...
A. 18 January 2011: Heart Healing (Poem to say aloud)
Place your own
healing hands
on your own
broken heart
with the gentleness
and with exquisite care
the care
you would afford
a tiny frozen bird
you found
there on your doorstep.
With your gentle ... (read in full...)
How often do engaged couples fight?
Q. I've been single for all my life and it's about to change. The dynamics of letting someone else have the reigns or at least to be the "head" of our relationship/marriage is hard for me to bite. I am so used to being independent and not allowing ...
A. 18 January 2011: Religion often helps when the heart is closed and bitter. Try searching for "loving kindness" (metta) on the internet... Buddhist philosophy or read about the love of Jesus Christ (Christianity)
I'm not religious, I'm atheist, but the lessons ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned for my grandchild!
Q. My daughter is 25, has a child 4 years old. She met a new boyfriend 2 month ago. She always lived with us until she met this person, my concern is that it is not stable for her child to live 3 days at our house and the rest of the week at his house, ...
A. 18 January 2011: Nope, children are flexible. Two months is a bit early for the child to be sleeping at the boyfriends house, but that's what has happened, it's done already and probably shouldn't be changed. Children easily attach to people they like and become ... (read in full...)
21 year old dating a 16 year old... how do I make people understand we are serious?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've recently been seeing this girl who is the sister of a work collegue. We get on like a house on fire, shes sweet, thoughtful and drop dead gorgeous but there is one thing holding me back and that's a gap between our ages, i'm 21 and...
A. 18 January 2011: UK laws.. at 16 you are legally able to have a sexual relationship with anyone you want. (updated laws, as long as you didn't start dating before 16, then you have to wait until 17 to have sex or the older person can go to jail) 16 and 21, not... (read in full...)
How often do engaged couples fight?
Q. I've been single for all my life and it's about to change. The dynamics of letting someone else have the reigns or at least to be the "head" of our relationship/marriage is hard for me to bite. I am so used to being independent and not allowing ...
A. 18 January 2011: FA regarding men in the woods... you are old enough to know the answer to that particular question.
I've been thinking... Original poster you behave badly towards this man and he still wants to marry you. There is something about you that att... (read in full...)
Is anyone curious about asexual people?
Q. Hello. I was wondering if there are any asexual people on this board. I am one myself, but I would be curious to change thoughts with other like minded people or with people who are curious about asexuality. Often I read about some people havi...
A. 18 January 2011: I think there is a difference between being asexual and celibate (non-sexual). Asexual is not choosing not to have sex, there is no physical desire or interest to do so, and there never will be any. Celibacy is a choice, asexualism is not.
Origi... (read in full...)
How often do engaged couples fight?
Q. I've been single for all my life and it's about to change. The dynamics of letting someone else have the reigns or at least to be the "head" of our relationship/marriage is hard for me to bite. I am so used to being independent and not allowing ...
A. 17 January 2011: "I told him that if I wanted his opinion then I'll ask for it, otherwise, no, I don't want to know what he has to say" Why are you getting married? Why don't you just get a dog who will follow your commands without question. "The woman is a... (read in full...)
Is anyone curious about asexual people?
Q. Hello. I was wondering if there are any asexual people on this board. I am one myself, but I would be curious to change thoughts with other like minded people or with people who are curious about asexuality. Often I read about some people havi...
A. 17 January 2011: Yes there are asexual people, but they are very rare. We have had one or two people like this on Dear Cupid. One person was actually violently anti-sex, which is something I've never seen before.
Many people who have no sexual desire may be d... (read in full...)
How do you turn a straight boy gay?
Q. i am a boy of 19 years and mostly get attracted toward boys.so there is a boy that lives just behind my house i really feel attracted towards him.that boy age is 20 years and i really cant spend even a single second without seeing him and i really ...
A. 17 January 2011: How do you turn a straight boy gay.. easy... the same way you turn a gay boy straight.
After you manage that trick, can you teach me how to turn oranges into gold coins.... (read in full...)
She's unsure... help, what do I do?
Q. Well im not sure how to put this but here goes, there is this girl at my 6th form and i have gotten to know and love her over the past 8 months she knows how i feel and feels the same way but she just cant get her head round being in a ...
A. 17 January 2011: Don't forget to write back and tell us how it goes.
(crosses fingers for good luck)... (read in full...)
She's unsure... help, what do I do?
Q. Well im not sure how to put this but here goes, there is this girl at my 6th form and i have gotten to know and love her over the past 8 months she knows how i feel and feels the same way but she just cant get her head round being in a ...
A. 17 January 2011: Hope this is the post we spoke about... anyway..
My heart hurts for you, being a teenager in the confusion of love for the first time really sucks.
First, you need to tackle your negative thoughts. She's not playing with you, she's not using ... (read in full...)
My husband tells me he doesn't know.
Q. Why is it, that a guy would have the same answer to literally EVERY question, that he should know: "I don't know" it is driving me insane. I actually feel like I'm going crazy. It could be about food, beer, how to cook something, (he has cooked his ...
A. 17 January 2011: Another stupid question, but was he like this before the wedding?... (read in full...)
Pull out method... reliable enough???
Q. me and my boyfriend want to have sex, im not on the pill or anything and neither of us have got condoms. he said he could put it in then take it out when hes about to come, but i dont know if thats okay or not. what is the best thing to do?...
A. 16 January 2011: Stop being silly.. you will get pregnant this way.
Condoms are free in the UK, if you think your old enough to have sex, your old enough to protect yourself. Men that can't be bothered to buy a condom find it difficult to provide money for a ne... (read in full...)
Is it important to date during your youth?
Q. is it important to have girlfriends or boyfriends during your youth? ...
A. 16 January 2011: No it's not important, but it can be useful, same as learning to play the piano. Good for some people, but not for all. Some people date young and get into a lot of trouble. Some people date young and get hurt and start to make bad choices in the ... (read in full...)
She wants me to get my penis pierced!
Q. Hey everybody! I've been in relationship with this girl for 2 years now... She wants to spice things up so she got a tattoo and she asked me to get my dick pierced!! Is this too much? Is it gonna hurt? Should I do it? So many questions...
A. 16 January 2011: Penis Piercing... yep, known to make penis sensitive and give good orgasm to both parties. Also known for causing dangerous infections in penis and desensitise/overstimulate the penis in some men. The fact that your asking, means you are not c... (read in full...)
My fiance is into sheMale porn and has listed himself as bisexual on a dating site. I want him to be faithful and honest to me
Q. My fiance is into porn like just about every other normal Joe out there. I have no problem with this. I have no problem with him viewing the occasional she-male porn either. I get that some guys just need to look at different things. However, ...
A. 16 January 2011: Sensible woman,and very understanding. Your right, sexual orientation doesn't matter that much as long as your partner is faithful. He sounds bi-curious (wondering if he could sleep with a man) but as long as he's faithful to you, he's a man in a ... (read in full...)
Is the porn industry corrupting me?
Q. My new years resolution would be not to masturbate while dating. Though since im not I do everyday after school ( Finished all my homework etc.) will it be hard to stop. the reason(s) are below 2. I heard that an over consumsion of Pornagra...
A. 15 January 2011: Here read this link.. netdoctor on the internet. The advice is the same as most (if not all) medical doctors across the world. Masturbation is normal and healthy at your age, and is known to protect against certain diseases of the penis.
http:... (read in full...)
My fiance watches porn on my teenage daughter's computer!
Q. Is it unreasonable to confront my Fiance on his recent porn watching on my computer that my young teenage daughter uses as well? I am another one who is not thrilled about him watching the porn, but he can do what he wants (I'd rather not know ...
A. 15 January 2011: Make as much "light" as you want sweetheart..this is your space, and it's your house and your relationship.
Kid didn't see anything, so not much harm done. This gives you an excellent opportunity to talk about an embarrassing subject in a adult ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 January 2011: Somewhatdamaged,
Tisha is right, it sounds like you badly need professional help and counselling. Your situation is slightly different from the usual RJ cases we here, and I suspect there is anger, hatred and guilt, over wrong choices that have... (read in full...)
I tested my boyfriend and he failed!
Q. so i had my friend send my bf a message on myspace to see if he would cheat on me she sent him a message asking him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. I found a different reason to break up with him and after i broke up with him i asked him why ...
A. 11 January 2011: Stop dating, your too immature, too self-centred to think about being kind to other people.
You hurt this guy, you made him feel alone and rejected, and then your rude and insulting.
Leave him alone for a little while. Think about how you wo... (read in full...)
My fiance watches porn on my teenage daughter's computer!
Q. Is it unreasonable to confront my Fiance on his recent porn watching on my computer that my young teenage daughter uses as well? I am another one who is not thrilled about him watching the porn, but he can do what he wants (I'd rather not know ...
A. 11 January 2011: Perfectly reasonable to say.. No porn in my house, no porn on my daughters computer. Say it as simple as that and then end the conversation. Same as you'd say if someone started smoking dope in your kitchen, or put their feet on your table, or ... (read in full...)
No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!
Q. My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so ...
A. 11 January 2011: He either needs to talk to you, or talk to a counsellor or your marriage is over. Don't want to talk doesn't cut the mustard, when he's unable to have sex and won't talk about it. Keep making appointments for him, if he cancels to many of them, ... (read in full...)
Struggling to have sex... help?
Q. Hey all :) Recently me and my boyfriend are struggling to have sex. when we first started having sex we both had a lot more free time and were having sex almost everyday. Since September we both have more commitments and have been having sex abo...
A. 11 January 2011: No reason to believe he doesn't masturbate. Some people don't and he has no reason to lie. 3-5 times sex per week is more than enough, but you both are highly so it's not enough for you.
I'm gonna assume you boyfriend is the same age as you, 22-... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 11 January 2011: Well I did 18years with a man, and had no problem with him buying a woman a drink or even dancing with her. I don't do possessiveness or jealousy.
Yes your boyfriend has issues if he needs to drop his pants in public all the time, and that wou... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 9 January 2011: Wow...
mmmm... Leave him.. You've told him your values, you've made your commands, this solider isn't used to obeying and he does what he wants.
Leave him, you've put up with the crap for too long.. go find another solider who can understand w... (read in full...)
Is the porn industry corrupting me?
Q. My new years resolution would be not to masturbate while dating. Though since im not I do everyday after school ( Finished all my homework etc.) will it be hard to stop. the reason(s) are below 2. I heard that an over consumsion of Pornagra...
A. 4 January 2011: Masturbation is normal and healthy at your age. Pornography is not suitable for children as it gives the wrong idea about sex. Pornography is not very realistic and can be harmful for sexual development in the young. Yes, a very small minority o... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 30 August 2010: This interesting post has come up again.. I'd like to repost something pyroshadow said which I thought was very helpful.
"You should be trying to help him. Trying to tell him that its not his fault he loves someone who has done such awful things. ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 21 August 2010: "when I get into these debates my ratings on this site go WAY down (from above 8 to usually around 7.5)" (anon)
So that's how it's done... good thing that I aint really worried about my ratings, cause I would have left a long time ago.. but it s... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 16 August 2010: Actually, picking up the morality part... many guys with this retrograde jealousy make a point of pointing out that the values of the woman who sleeps around disgusts them very much...
This is the point that Odds and Pyroshadow were trying t... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: Men and women BOTH, encourage the idea of the promiscuous male super stud lover.. :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "But as you admit sometimes you speak too soon rather than taking the time to reflect on what has been said. I think this has happened here."
@ Yos....
I hate that word Slut.... grrrrr
But yes, I was wrong... :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "The only people who seem to approve of man-sluts are women themselves (evidenced by the fact that they, by definition, continue to date and sleep with man-sluts), and not even all of those by a long shot."
You have a very strange view of the worl... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "Since when is it "OK" for a man to be promiscuous?"
Men are called studs and applauded by other men when they ;have sex with many women. Men and boys boast about the amount of women they have slept with and always lie and say the number is high.... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 August 2010: Ah.. thank you Yos.. finally I understand the feelings people get through Retrograde jealousy. I have clinical depression and in the past I have felt bad enough to try to end my life... It wasn't rational, and it wasn't controlable and ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 August 2010: Yes, anon, I asked Pyroshadow the same question, but it hasn't come through, so I'll ask it again, and no judgement is meant.....
Is the feelings of jealousy really as strong as the complete devastation and worthlessness people feel when they hav... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 12 August 2010: Oh dear, Pyroshadow, your one of the people I'm talking about who is helping me learn to understand this jealousy thing...
As I said, I'm still pondering hard about the last question you set... ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 10 August 2010: I'm one of the "shut up and get over it brigade.. the past is the past", but with the help from you men brave enough to tell their stories, I'm learning my advice is not helpful at all...
I'm learning...
But, I speak to a lot of women who suf... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: "Virginity is just one of the many attributes that an individual wants in a person." (shoccs)
This is something that I don't understand. Are all virgin's nice, kind and thoughtfull.. Are there no virgin criminals in jail? (apart from kids tha... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: Buddhist way is the best.. jealousy is a mind poison, it's the worst possessive side of us trying to destory our lives..
Either use Buddhist meditation techniques, to realise the mind has many thoughts, not all of them pleasant, but most of them ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: Brilliant MissManners, some of them angry anon's got a fantastic post closed with their own worries and woes..
It's nice for them to have a space to express their anger in a healthy way, rather than destroying another person's chance at happines... (read in full...)
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