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My Ex-Wife's New "Friend" With Whom She Appears To Have A Relationship Smokes Pot Regularly...And We Have A Young Son.
Q. Simply put folks, the above is what's going on. I found this out quite by accident and the source of the information is irrefutable. When, I in a roundabout way asked her about any bad habits he might have she straight up lied to me when I asked ...
A. 27 December 2010: Legal.. yes it is... medical use is allowed in America... and it is a felony punishable by a fine rather than being locked up in prison, illegal yes, but it won't bring you the death penalty....
But we are not going to argue about our opinions... (read in full...)
I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life
Q. i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i ...
A. 26 December 2010: The idea of romance in marriage is a very new thing. Yes, now we see men buying ballons with "I love you" or writing your name high in the sky, but that is very modern.
Watch older films and men and women married and shopped, cooked and raised c... (read in full...)
My Ex-Wife's New "Friend" With Whom She Appears To Have A Relationship Smokes Pot Regularly...And We Have A Young Son.
Q. Simply put folks, the above is what's going on. I found this out quite by accident and the source of the information is irrefutable. When, I in a roundabout way asked her about any bad habits he might have she straight up lied to me when I asked ...
A. 26 December 2010: Wow!!!! You gonna lock your son in his room next because the neighbour next door might do cocaine?
Yes we want to help and protect our kids, but go too far and you can disable them. If you wrap your son up in cotton wool and hide him away fro... (read in full...)
I woke up in my husband's arms and he was on his laptop looking at porn?
Q. I'm about 8 weeks pregnant and married. This morning I was watching tv with my husband and fell asleep on his arm. When I woke up he had his laptop and was looking at porn. I don't know how I should react. I don't know if this was no big deal or a ...
A. 26 December 2010: No woman wants to feel as though their mate will substitute them for porn if they are not available. After all, what does that really imply? (Female anonymous
DO NOT TRY TO SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN, WE DO NOT ALL THINK LIKE YOU...... (read in full...)
Help I got fired for kissing my boss Pleas HELP
Q. Yesterday I got fired from my job for having an affair with my boss. I didn't expect it because we thought we were careful not to get caught but the video camero showed us kissing in the parking lot. has this happened to anyone else and how do I ...
A. 25 December 2010: Anon reader has given good advice... as he's your boss, you may also have a claim for sexual harassment and loss of wages against him.. He's the senior employee, you could claim (if you feel desperate) that he should have known better, and you felt ... (read in full...)
Help I got fired for kissing my boss Pleas HELP
Q. Yesterday I got fired from my job for having an affair with my boss. I didn't expect it because we thought we were careful not to get caught but the video camero showed us kissing in the parking lot. has this happened to anyone else and how do I ...
A. 25 December 2010: Did your boss get fired to. If not, then you can sue the company for sex discrimination. Also, for this to be a sackable offence they needed to inform you that your not allowed to date people at work, it should have been some where either in your ... (read in full...)
I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life
Q. i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i ...
A. 24 December 2010: Your angry, upset and frustrated, all this is understandable. However, if you withhold sex, do not be surprised if your husband is unfaithful and has sex with someone else. Romance is like love, it's not something you can get by demanding it, or ... (read in full...)
Observing my parent's marriage has made me fear marriage!
Q. my mom and dad r very nice people,bt they look at everything from different angle.so i hav been watching them fighting all my life.now i hav developed a kind of fear about marriage.everytime i remember that one day i will hav to marry,i feel like a ...
A. 24 December 2010: My parents divorced when I was 12 and had years of unhappiness before that. What I learned by watching, was how sometimes the man is wrong and sometimes the woman is wrong. Like Mr Anon, I learnt what didn't work, and made up my mind to behave ... (read in full...)
Observing my parent's marriage has made me fear marriage!
Q. my mom and dad r very nice people,bt they look at everything from different angle.so i hav been watching them fighting all my life.now i hav developed a kind of fear about marriage.everytime i remember that one day i will hav to marry,i feel like a ...
A. 22 December 2010: If you argue with a friend, do you expect never to have a friend again? Your young and so you still think like a child. When you are older you will fall in love and you won't worry about stuff like this. Why would you choose a man you hate and... (read in full...)
StepDad terrorises me And Mum stays silent. Help please
Q. My mum got together with my stepdad when I was 6 years old (I'm now 20).All of my life he's been terrorising me and bullying me to the point when I was 14 I shot myself in the head with an airgun because I was severely depressed over him. Mum neve...
A. 21 December 2010: If things are really bad, go and get yourself a hotel room. You can also consider getting a room in a shared house which will be cheaper for you. Check loot or gumtree (online) or your local neighbourhood paper. Pubs often have rooms for let, and ... (read in full...)
StepDad terrorises me And Mum stays silent. Help please
Q. My mum got together with my stepdad when I was 6 years old (I'm now 20).All of my life he's been terrorising me and bullying me to the point when I was 14 I shot myself in the head with an airgun because I was severely depressed over him. Mum neve...
A. 21 December 2010: You can't change him, that's the way he is. You also can't convince your mother to leave him. All you can do is what you are doing, look for a way to leave that house fast.
If you have been upset enough to try to kill yourself, the money is... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is bigger than the other, will this affect my relationships?
Q. dear cupids, This question has been botherin me for a long time now. I have unequal breasts. One is half the size of the other. Will it affect my relationship in any way?? Do men give too much attention only to your outer appearence? Bcoz of this ...
A. 21 December 2010: Would you date a man with one finger shorter than the other?
Would you date a man with one testicle (balls) bigger than the other?
Would you date a man with one leg shorter than the other?
Would you date a man with one ear smaller than the oth... (read in full...)
Who is telling the truth here? I am stuck in the middle and don't know who to believe!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he's rough around the edges, but he is trying, and seems to be growing up, and in my head we're not all perfect. my mother has always been on the fence about him, and my best friend says she likes him, but ...
A. 21 December 2010: You know what... this is all too confusing.. time to play Sherlock Holmes and actually find out what went on.
Your on holiday with your boyfriend. You two start arguing. What did you argue about? Who started it?
So then, instead of askin... (read in full...)
I woke up in my husband's arms and he was on his laptop looking at porn?
Q. I'm about 8 weeks pregnant and married. This morning I was watching tv with my husband and fell asleep on his arm. When I woke up he had his laptop and was looking at porn. I don't know how I should react. I don't know if this was no big deal or a ...
A. 21 December 2010: Absolute agree with KC, but there are many more women who get upset by this type of thing, so we may be in the minority.
My guess is you was sleeping and he got horny but didn't want to wake you. As long as he makes you feel loved and adored a... (read in full...)
He tells me that masturbating to porn everyday before work is normal?
Q. My boyfriend has to watch porn and masturbate everyday before work, even if I'm home he'll do it in the bathroom, he says it has nothing to do with sex, Is this normal, I mean It makes me feel like I'm not enough for him! He don't see a problem...
A. 21 December 2010: If it was everyday after work, then I'd understand more and put it down to releasing tension...
Sounds like a bad habit he's gotten himself into.
Why do you feel that this is something to do with you. Many people still masturbate, even... (read in full...)
I'm disturbed by the fact that my girlfriend had a lot of sexual partners before me
Q. Hi, I am a 22 year old male and I'm currently with my girlfriend of 4 months. She is 18 years old. We have been having regular sex since we were together, and I love her very much. In fact, I love her more than anyone I've ever been with. Unti...
A. 21 December 2010: Your post has made me so sad. You and her are so young and you sound very much in love, it's painful to make past mistakes hurt you this way.
Do you love her?
Dose she love you?
What does she do to make you smile?
If you had to think of a wo... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 15 December 2010: Hi babes, Glad to hear you still working hard on making yourself a better person. Doesn't sound like this marriage is working for either of you, and from what you say, I don't see much reason for you to stay. Doing what is right for you is a gre... (read in full...)
Long term relationship problem (communication and sex)
Q. Hello, I really need some help on this one. I've been in a relationship with this girl close to 3 years now. We've had less than 5 fights/conflicts during this time. The problem is that I start feeling like I'm living with a flat mate if we don't ha...
A. 15 December 2010: Sorry, nearly missed your follow up.
Ok, your aware of the issues and it doesn't seem to be any of them.
Ok.. sometimes people get lazy (shock, horror) or they forget their priorities. This may be happening to your woman. You are angry, hurt,... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't use condoms because he says they're gross and smell bad!
Q. Hi Im 21 years old and i have been with my boyfreind for 4 years and recently he wont use condoms he says that they are gross they smell and that he cant feel anything when they are on and he gets turned off. it make me upset that he doesnt want to ...
A. 8 December 2010: You don't have to do anything you don't want to....
Men (as you will find out) will make all kinds of threats. You can please the man or you can please yourself.
You risk getting pregnant, your risk getting a sexual disease.
Millions of wom... (read in full...)
Why can't I be loyal?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I love him so much. He's my best friend and we do everything together. I have an issue though. I seem to get satisfaction out of flirting with other people and leading them on and talking to ...
A. 8 December 2010: Your too young to commit yourself to dating only one man. You want to have choice and opportunities, and you when your with other men, naturally you want to feel attractive and wanted. Yes you love your boyfriend, and yes you like him and he's ... (read in full...)
I left my husband, miss my kids and I'm really messed up!
Q. My marriage has been slowly disolving over a period of years. (work / no time for me) I told my husband in Jan that I no longer loved him. He refused to move out of the bedroom, so I did...he pretended that things were ok and would still say I love ...
A. 8 December 2010: You ever heard the saying, "To make omelettes, you got to crack some eggs." Well that's what you did. You wanted more out of life than you had, and you made the choice to make changes. Now things have changed, but you don't know what to do with ... (read in full...)
Long term relationship problem (communication and sex)
Q. Hello, I really need some help on this one. I've been in a relationship with this girl close to 3 years now. We've had less than 5 fights/conflicts during this time. The problem is that I start feeling like I'm living with a flat mate if we don't ha...
A. 8 December 2010: Crying and threatening to leave is not a mature way of dealing with sexual problems. The next time she does that, let her go, she will find it hard to find anyone else to put up with such things. Why apologise, what have you done wrong?
The s... (read in full...)
Lost: The love for my fiance.
Q. I love my fiance with all my heart, but I don't think I'm IN love with him anymore. I don't know what to do. We have been together for 2 years and live together. He is an amazing man - kind, funny, adores me, treats me well... so WHY do I feel lik...
A. 8 December 2010: You've felt this way for 4months? Has anything in your life changed? New job, loss of weight, moved house, somebody die????
Change can destabilise us. If you loved him before, that what has changed your mind this way? Has he changed? Have you... (read in full...)
How can I open myself up to love again?
Q. I don't understand why I am so worried about being hurt or unable to love a girl. I just don't feel anything for any girl, just physical attraction nothing more, I went through a break up which left me confused of who I am, what I want and ...
A. 8 December 2010: You are very young, you haven't met the right person yet. Take time, you'll meet a lot of women before you die, and one of them will steal your heart. Stop worrying, date and just have fun.... (read in full...)
Can I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me for another guy, we were together 5 months. When we met we had this major connection between us, alot of chemistry, something that i never felt before with another person and i felt that from her cause she had tryed ...
A. 8 December 2010: Sorry....
She likes this guy a lot. She wants to be with this man, she believes he can make her and her child happy. You are too difficult to be with. You have too many issues, you are still growing and finding your way. It's impossib... (read in full...)
Admit it guys, you're fantasizing about the girls in porn, the rest is just excuses
Q. I have opinion's I’d like to express about male sexuality. Porn. I understand that not all girls have an issue with it, just as some guys don’t watch it. I often hear of guys feeling like they have to hide it from there spouse. "what they don’t know ...
A. 8 December 2010: Most of the time we are looking at the sex actions, the people are easily and often forgotten.... (read in full...)
Admit it guys, you're fantasizing about the girls in porn, the rest is just excuses
Q. I have opinion's I’d like to express about male sexuality. Porn. I understand that not all girls have an issue with it, just as some guys don’t watch it. I often hear of guys feeling like they have to hide it from there spouse. "what they don’t know ...
A. 8 December 2010: Sigh... straight women and gay women (and men) look at pornography too... Where do we fit into your theories?
I can admit, as a straight woman, pornography is a masturbation aid, and intercourse with a man is not the same..
It's a selfis... (read in full...)
I can't get fully aroused and sex become uncomfortable
Q. I'm 22yrs old and why is it when I have sex or foreplay I can't get fully aroused. It gets unenjoyable fast. I've never even had an orgasm (I think). And during intercourse it's like I dry up to the point where my vagina feels raw and the labia ...
A. 8 December 2010: Maybe your not with the right person. How long does foreplay last, and do you masturbate and orgasm alone?
Use KY Jelly or another lubricant to stop yourself getting sore.... (read in full...)
He prefers to look at porn rather than have sex with me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend got together when i was 16 and he was 17. We have now been together for just over 7 years and living together for 3 years. 6 months befor we moved in with each other the sex dried right up. I usually get sex once a week but i ...
A. 8 December 2010: Stop giving him head... Demand that he satisfy you, your the one who is lonely and hungry.
If he can't satisfy you sexually, then leave him and find someone else because his problem will not improve.... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 22 November 2010: "spin less gut les man on this plant i have ever seen"....
"woohooo cry me a river"......
Yep, marriage counselling is definitely necessary for you. You may have reasons for sounding cruel and heartless, but people in pain suffer enough wi... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 18 November 2010: Sorry, me again... Middle of the day? Why isn't he out working, or looking after the kids, doing the shopping or cleaning up? Why does he have so much time to think about sex and look at porn?... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 18 November 2010: PS: Natasia, I was reading the situation the same way you was, e.g "He is sexually frustrated and feels rejected because you don't seem to want to have sex with him as much as he wants (which is perfectly understandable on your part - frankly I ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 18 November 2010: Thanks Tinkerbell for the update, that explains a hell of a lot and makes me understand more about what is going on... "slut, whore..." yep, that a case of domestic emotional abuse, and if he's watching pornography in the day when children are ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 14 November 2010: Tinkerbell, I have a feeling that you have no wish to hear what I have to say. I think you came to Dear Cupid looking for people to support your views and back you up. I think you believe that Marriage guidance will be the same. You will ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 11 November 2010: PS: Women magazines also have live photo stories, with men and women in very little clothes and feature very sexy stories... they always have.
As far as I know, many, many, millions of women report to dreaming about movie stars whilst they are... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 11 November 2010: mmm.. female anon, I am a woman who watches porn, reads erotica, and reads romance books.. so I'm speaking from my own direct experience when I say that these things are equivalent...
They all produce sexual arrousal, and the brain is not sophisti... (read in full...)
Are men who watch porn more likely to ogle women?
Q. I understand men glance, and I understand men look at attractive women. If the woman is extremely attractive or if she is scantily clad, I understand men will probably want to look a little longer. So, what I am wondering is if my boyfriend wat...
A. 1 November 2010: No.. no evidence that pornography causes you to start ogling or flirting with other women. Porn users exhibit the behaviour of normal people, because the majority of men and a large percentage of women do watch pornography in privacy. Your ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???
Q. I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...
A. 1 November 2010: But you are controlling. He likes to look at pornography, you don't like him to. You sneak and check up on him, and you come to dear cupid looking for people to help you to change him to the way you want. He is doing nothing wrong. You want him ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl who loves porn!
Q. When I was about sixteen, like most people, i got curious about sex and so i started searching the internet for sexual videos. People always talk about how horrible it is for guys to watch porn and i feel like being a girl...its even worse for me ...
A. 1 November 2010: I'm a woman who watches porn, so no your not alone, arround 30% of women watch pornography according to the statistics.
It's just not talked about, because it doesn't seem to cause problems in relationships (eg: like the problem many women ha... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???
Q. I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...
A. 1 November 2010: Here, try this link, good conversation going on regarding pornography issue.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-there-no-middle-ground-when-it.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-watching-porn-am-i.html
... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???
Q. I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...
A. 1 November 2010: End the relationship. Your guy will not stop looking at pornography and you do not like it, it is ruining your sex life.
This relationship cannot work.... (read in full...)
Isnt being a porn star harmful to their normal lives?
Q. All porn stars perform in porn movies to make money but isn't harmful to they real life? how they'll live in real life what are they daily schedule do that's also get married make they own kids if they do that how they can work in porn after ...
A. 1 November 2010: Opps, yes, forgot to highlight the millions of people who are forced into the industry, or enter it and feel trapped and then have no way out.. Thanks Person12345.... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 29 October 2010: Do you masterbate or use a vibrator. Do you read romantic books or erotica. Do you watch romantic movies? Do you read fashion magazines or look at gossip about your favourite handsome movie star? Do you read chick lit?
Your husbands porn wat... (read in full...)
Isnt being a porn star harmful to their normal lives?
Q. All porn stars perform in porn movies to make money but isn't harmful to they real life? how they'll live in real life what are they daily schedule do that's also get married make they own kids if they do that how they can work in porn after ...
A. 29 October 2010: Thanks for the link Gabrielle. :)
Yes, of course Gabrielle must be right, common sense dictates that there must be good reasons why so many people enter the porn industry and continue to work there, even when they are paid enough to be classed ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Remember I mentioned before, he has sadness and worries which have nothing to do with you... I bet he's the kind of guy who if he loves you today, he'll love you tomorrow, that's why he's been able to try to forgive you and come back... as you said, ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: "monotone and just emotionless"....
that's what being a solider does to people.. it's not you, it's the job he's doing, he's seen too much unhappiness and therefore needs a lot of loving kindness..... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: http://www.militaryonesource.com/MOS/About/Announcements.aspx#622... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: opps.. he don't like the sexy stuff... ok, some men don't, that's ok... he probably likes women to pretend to be pure.. so do it romantic like instead....
I'm crossing my fingers babes, but whatever happens, this stuff is doing you good, I can se... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Sorry... last point from me.. promise.. hahahaha...
If he gets sexy letters everyday from his wife at home, he will make the other soliders jealous.. they will tell him how wonderfull and special his wife is, and they will work to help him fall... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Yep.. like this letter writing thing... people can be honest in letters, people can fall in love with letters...
A guy used to write my mother letters everyday, and she fell in love with him... when she found out who he was, she didn't notice h... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: PS: Ask him to speak to the army chaplin about problems in his marriage... the army can offer help and counselling.. just because he's going away dosen't mean there isn't resources to help both him and you...
Keep on trying babes untill you have... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Oh yea.. the aunts are right.. people that are in the army learn to ignore the normal emotions and can react like stone walls.. they have to protect themselves, they see death, destruction and murder every day... a woman who is healthy, in a safe ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: It's easy for other people to talk about divorce, they don't have to sign the papers, they aren't the people who will end up single with regrets... Marriage is supposed to be for life, not something you dump because you hit a couple of hard ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: And this unloved and unappreciated feeling? Has he always treated you this way? Was he distant before you did the cheating thing?... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: How good are you at letter writing? Are you any good at telling stories and fairy tales?... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: Congratulations Babymonkey, I can hear the change in you and I'm very impressed.
Of course you got to fight for your guy, of course you got to do your best to save your marriage, you love him and I think he probably loves you.
He could have... (read in full...)
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