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Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 13 October 2010: I'm here... sorry guys had a problem with a little irritating net nanny, give me some time to catch up and read what you've all been talking about.... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 27 September 2010: Your putting words into our mouth's...no one here has called you paranoid at all. Your lying yourself... in your original post, the main thing that made you angry is that your guy continued to look at pornography. This made you angry enough to ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 14 September 2010: Disagree with your statistics Person12345, but here is where we totally meet.... the pornography we currently have is too painful for so many people. We need better and less degrading pornography. We need more women making pornography rather than ... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 10 September 2010: Spot on Jonas and aunts... try building her another world, where love, fun and acceptance isn't built on sex or money... It needs to be a wider circle than just you and your boyfriend, that will make her feel low and increase her jealousy and ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 10 September 2010: That's fine, you don't like porn, no problem.. But it's his phone and his pc, not yours. You need to stop looking at his stuff if your going to get upset by what you see.
Tell him how you feel, you don't like the pornography stuff, and it humil... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner?
Q. Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner? Of course most wives will never be as attractive as skinny teen porn stars - because they are not teenage any longer, pert boo...
A. 9 September 2010: Ah pregnant.. men sometimes get scared of sex when your pregnant. But if he's been turning you away for many years, he has a big problem with porn or his erection.
How did you get pregnant if the man doesn't fancy you?... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 9 September 2010: Push her towards getting some counselling, your friend is very lost.... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner?
Q. Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner? Of course most wives will never be as attractive as skinny teen porn stars - because they are not teenage any longer, pert boo...
A. 9 September 2010: Millions of older men have sexy wives who are fat, with sagging breasts and wrinkles on her face. They love her, and they still say she's the sexiest woman on earth and they still have an exciting sex life, albeit they have to be more careful due ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 9 September 2010: PS: I don't like watching male strippers, I find it embarrassing. And if your embarrassed, the male strippers target you to embarrass you even more. If I ever get married, I'm hopping my girlfriends take me to Amsterdam to see a live sex show ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 9 September 2010: I'm from the UK, we have male strippers over here,and it's common for women to hire them or arrange a girls night out for some sexy fun. The most famous are the Chippendales, and we've a movie called "The Full Monty". Watch that, it is a very good ... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: Poor girl... you can't do any more than your doing, and you seem a very caring friend, even taking on board some of what we are saying.
She's very low in self-esteem.... maybe you could try another trick... ignore the men and the bad place sh... (read in full...)
My friend is turning into a prostitute!
Q. This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see ...
A. 8 September 2010: "Prostitute" that's a strong word to use. Is your friend asking for money in exchange for sex?
The terms you use, "Joke", "prostitute", "other people.. settle down", "family.. shambles"... you don't see her as an equal, and that might be why it's... (read in full...)
Do Women See Penises As Men Do Breasts?
Q. When a man sees a nice pair of boobs, they usually get turned on. But when a woman sees a penis does she get turned on like a man would by boobs? I was reading a post on here earlier and a woman said she doesnt find them attractive at all. If a ...
A. 8 September 2010: Great question... mmmm.. I like the penis.. I think they are cute. But I think our women parts look more sexy and are neater to tell the truth. The thing is babes, women don't really get as excited as men about sexual parts. We get aroused by h... (read in full...)
My ex husband sent me a picture of his penis! is he feeling regret for divorcing me?
Q. after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child". and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!! he said that he likes to se...
A. 8 September 2010: Sorry Assia, I have to put in the link to your original post, so the aunts will understand how wicked this man is, and why you had to leave him.
They will also see his actions now in a very different way..
http://ww... (read in full...)
My ex husband sent me a picture of his penis! is he feeling regret for divorcing me?
Q. after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child". and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!! he said that he likes to se...
A. 8 September 2010: Asiaa, I remember your original post.. your husband was hatefull and abusing... one of the worst examples of cruelty in marriage I have ever seen..
And now he sends you sexy pictures... I'm not allowed to swear here, but I wish I could tell you... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore?
Q. Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more? I am 19 years old and he's 34 years old.I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and he is an amazing person. He would come to my house everynight after work. however, like a w...
A. 8 September 2010: You said he was sick.. then you said he was sick all the time.. maybe he is sick and that's why he acts so different. Or maybe your tired of being with a man who is always ill. It's only been a week, and he is sick.. That's not enough time to ... (read in full...)
My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?
Q. I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...
A. 8 September 2010: Ree, please copy your post and send it in as a question to the front board. The aunts will be able to help you with your own situation which is different from many of the stories that are written here.... (read in full...)
I will not make him marry me!
Q. When my boyfriend and I first got together, he said he didn't think he would ever get married. A while into the relationship, we talked about it as a possible option for us. Well, we got engaged July 9th. I was the one who asked and he said yes. It ...
A. 8 September 2010: Congratulations again honeypie...you've got two things going for you in this marriage. Your both in love and your both able to think about things, get advice and change your mind if you are wrong..
I see tons of happiness coming at you both, yo... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 8 September 2010: I worked in health before, and we fast tracked clients needing contraception as part of their work. The term was always "working women or man", and even at the lower end, the choice seemed to be prostitution and pornography gave them higher wages, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 8 September 2010: No I don't think your anti-sex at all, and yes, it might sound like I accuse you of that. I read your posts and you don't portray someone who is anti-sex...
However, as I said, the evidence you bring up here, lacks intellectually rigour and vali... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 7 September 2010: I think your guy likes to look at pornography, and he will lie about it if you force him to stop.
However, this doesn't mean he is cheating or will sleep with other women. Lots of men like pornography and so do lots of women, but this has noth... (read in full...)
I have always had a fear of men. Help me here!
Q. I have always had a fear of men. I feel like there is no way I will ever get married or have children because of it. I already feel like I will never be loved. I recently just realized that people dont make friends because of looks [I know that some ...
A. 7 September 2010: I choose men from films and used them as my role models, when I was your age.. these guys made me feel strong and brave and safe... Paul Newman (bohooo dead now :( and John Wayne taught me that men could be kind and loving and made me feel safe and ... (read in full...)
I have always had a fear of men. Help me here!
Q. I have always had a fear of men. I feel like there is no way I will ever get married or have children because of it. I already feel like I will never be loved. I recently just realized that people dont make friends because of looks [I know that some ...
A. 7 September 2010: I know exactly how you feel sweetheart, I had the same thoughts at your age, and yes, it's because of the bad things my mum said about ALL men. Luckily I had a dad, so I knew that it wasn't true. I knew that men could be bad, but I know that so ... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 7 September 2010: I'm scared, there are few people who can actually live the domination/humiliation life, and that's what the article by Yos explains... it's very, very frightening stuff... but between a man and woman in love and committed together in marriage...
... (read in full...)
He left me soon after my abortion, then I found out he was engaged the whole time! Please advise.
Q. Hi, i got pregnant because my method fail, i have a genetic condition which if i get pregnant and labor a baby i have the change to grown tumors all over my body,also spontaneous abortion, hypertension, and a chance of high complication, even death ...
A. 6 September 2010: Usually I say leave the girlfriend alone, but this is because the other woman is angry and wants to hurt her. If you contact the girlfriend because your angry, she will not believe you and he will be able to convince her with lies. Your heart is ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my dad is cheating?
Q. I've watched my dad for some time and watched him on the computer where he goes on dating sites and chats on msn with other women and when he left his phone in the bathroom once i checked and there were dirty messages and sick pictures of other ...
A. 6 September 2010: Talk to him, tell him what you know and what you've seen. It's not good to spy on your parents. Tell him you think he's cheating. This will be enough to scare him and make him stop the strange things he is doing.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with his weird fetish desires?
Q. my guy watches porn but not just any porn he watches foot fetish porn, gay porn and midget porn he has a serious foot fetish and he likes sucking cock (but isnt gay)and he says he would love to fuck a midget but how do i deal with this?...
A. 5 September 2010: Sounds like he's watched so much porn he can only become aroused by the extreme things. Don't make a big issue of it. He's never gonna give a man a bj or have sex with a midget. I would just say causally "baby, you got to cut back on your porn, or ... (read in full...)
I have always had a fear of men. Help me here!
Q. I have always had a fear of men. I feel like there is no way I will ever get married or have children because of it. I already feel like I will never be loved. I recently just realized that people dont make friends because of looks [I know that some ...
A. 5 September 2010: Can you talk to your mum about these feelings. I know the fear is real, but you are young.. things will look a lot less frightening when you are older.. you will grow taller and get stronger, you will learn ways to protect yourself if you need ... (read in full...)
I want a baby even though he has 8 kids. Will this be a problem?
Q. I have been with my partner for amonth or so and he has 8 kids and 1 on the way very sn .these children r al 2 different women.we r very open about life and the hope that it holds for us,but i want a child 2 him and a future.i am not a selfish ...
A. 5 September 2010: You been with him for a month or so, a month, around 28 days.... now you're planning babies... Lady, this is crazy... He couldn't stay around long enough for his latest baby to pop out.. there's no future with this guy, he changes women every... (read in full...)
Confused: Does he like me? Or am I a booty call?
Q. So this guy asked me out last Friday, and we were supposed to have a date on last Sunday. An emergency on my end happened and I tried to back out of the date as gracefully as I could under the circumstances through texting. He meant to reply, "you ...
A. 5 September 2010: mmmm.. read more... So when you complain, all of a sudden your a princess that he's gonna marry... This guy sure likes jokes. He knows just what to say.. sounds like a player to me. He's too quick on his feet with his words.. too damn... (read in full...)
Confused: Does he like me? Or am I a booty call?
Q. So this guy asked me out last Friday, and we were supposed to have a date on last Sunday. An emergency on my end happened and I tried to back out of the date as gracefully as I could under the circumstances through texting. He meant to reply, "you ...
A. 5 September 2010: Sorry.. I couldn't finish your story.. got to the word "bitch" and didn't need to read no more. This guy has no respect for you and he's just looking for sex. Men don't call women they like and respect such disrespectful names. He doesn't talk to ... (read in full...)
My teacher has hit on me help please
Q. ok so guys i need help before the six weeks hoilday my it teacher tried to hit on me,i do fancie him a little but her promied me that he would let me pass my exams if i would have sex with him and he would give me an a but i didnt and i keep get...
A. 5 September 2010: Tell him he to mark your grade fairly or you will go to the head teacher and tell all about his nasty threats. Don't worry, he can't downgrade your mark. If you don't get the grade you expect, then demand a remark. If it comes back corrected t... (read in full...)
If you saw a 46 year old man and a 17 year old girl holding hands or kissing in public how would you react??
Q. My first love is 46, we've been seeing each other for a year now and we're both complete opposites but get on so well. We've cried together laughed together and he waited 4 months before we had sex. If you didn't know anything about the people...
A. 5 September 2010: Just wish you would tell your folks, and if they meet him and they don't mind, you'll feel more confident with your relationship. It won't hurt as much about what stranger's say if you know your supported at home.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: opps.. sorry, I talk lots.. gonna go and hit the books now, and take your ideas about further research.. thanks person12345... (read in full...)
How do I learn not to be distracted by boyfriends annoying habits?
Q. My question is how to to stop getting annoyed at the quirky habits people have? I can admit that I am probably an easily annoyed person, so I will assume that my boyfriends habits are totally normal, and that instead of trying to make him stop I ...
A. 5 September 2010: Yea, just look away. If you love him, this seems a little thing to ask.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: PS: Maybe them teen's you mentioned, don't like porn so much but see so many marriages which end in divorce...
Just because you record a phenomena, doesn't mean that porn is the cause... maybe they have more options than older folks to date and... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: Sorry, but because some people get addicted to pornography, dosen't make it a danger to everyone. Because some people have a difficult time in the industry, dosen't mean that everyone does. Because you think that pain and sex is wrong, dosen't ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: I went to the most popular porn site, and I didn't have to dig long.. what you say about the MAJORITY of porn, of what porn users like is wrong... I wasn't lucky and just happened to find less degrading things... What is viewed, and what is enjoyed ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: "As for boredom/anal, since 1995 (around when internet porn became widespread) anal sex rates among teens doubled."
Problem with your statistics, that around this time, George W Bush targeted funds to promote abstinence and no sex in schools.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend masturbate after having sex with me?
Q. Why does my boyfriend masturbate after having sex with me? After we have sex, he says he needs to pee, goes to the bathroom and continues masturbating? Why does he do that?...
A. 5 September 2010: Can you go again... boyfriend might not be satisfied and might need more. Or maybe your female touch is too loving and gentle. Ask him if he needs you to touch him harder. And tell him not to go to the bathroom, but let you arouse him and start ... (read in full...)
How do I learn not to be distracted by boyfriends annoying habits?
Q. My question is how to to stop getting annoyed at the quirky habits people have? I can admit that I am probably an easily annoyed person, so I will assume that my boyfriends habits are totally normal, and that instead of trying to make him stop I ...
A. 5 September 2010: "I think it is rude to sit and fidget with your head like that when someone is talking to you, or even in the presence of others."
He's not doing this to be rude or irritate you, it's just an unconscious habit. There is nothing he can do to stop ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 4 September 2010: !Both portrayals are harmful, but in the sense that men get their ideas about how to treat women and sex and sexuality and general can be distorted." (Person)
Yep, this is the issue that concerns me.. not with adult men and women (I've no experien... (read in full...)
I'm scared of the man who molested me. Am I being stupid?
Q. is it stupid to be scared of the man who sexually molested you for years and stopped a few months ago? hes my moms bf and im really scared whenever im around him, i just cant help it but i also feel that im being stupid that im scared.....
A. 4 September 2010: You keep on posting... hasn't any of the advice you've been given managed to help you yet? I know your scared to tell your mum... have you tried to frighten this man.. tell him if he touches you again, you will tell the whole world about him and ... (read in full...)
How can I improve the texture and look of my stretch marks. How do girls feel about them?
Q. hi i have alot of stretch marks! i have em on my stomach, on the sides of my upper body, on my lover back, shoulders and where my arms meet my body, both on front and back. and i am a guy!! they are almost invisible by now but it feels ...
A. 4 September 2010: How do you feel about stretch marks on a girl.... that's how women will feel about you...
Stop worrying, little marks aren't important, she's more worried about her small tits, her flat ass and you looking at porn, to see your physical flaws.... (read in full...)
Is my guy lying to me ?
Q. Hi i'm 26 yrs old my boyfriend is 24 we have been dating for a little over 2 month now. we have definatly started out hot and heavy already in love and having great sex. But I recently found out that he has had several porn internet sites that are ...
A. 4 September 2010: Your both very jealous... this guy aint lying, his story sounds right.. he was looking but not very hard, that's why he's got stuff but can't remember why. I think you should trust him.... (read in full...)
I have a major issue with an adult figure!
Q. I have a major issue with an adult figure. Who doesn't, except mine are my to-be in-laws... I moved in over a year ago with my bf and his parents, and after being here for 10 months things were alright. Then we went to another state and stayed...
A. 4 September 2010: They are jealous because you left them and went to see your mother.. they are also missing you both already. They don't want you to move out, they think they will loose their son.
lol.. crazy ain't it.. they don't want you to go, so they make you... (read in full...)
I want him back, but he says "forget it"
Q. i was in a relation ship with an older man, he was married and he just had a kid. they were not doing so good they were sort of broke up, but stupid me started a relationship with him. we fell in love she found out and instead of just being broke up ...
A. 3 September 2010: Your young and mixed up, he was married and lying. It's guilt that is killing him, you have done exactly what he did, and now he knows just how it feels.
Don't worry, he has no right to get so angry. He expected you to wait whilst he went hom... (read in full...)
If you saw a 46 year old man and a 17 year old girl holding hands or kissing in public how would you react??
Q. My first love is 46, we've been seeing each other for a year now and we're both complete opposites but get on so well. We've cried together laughed together and he waited 4 months before we had sex. If you didn't know anything about the people...
A. 3 September 2010: I'd be sorry for your parents, especially your mother. No mother expects her daughter to find a partner so old. If you can't tell them about your relationship, then you make your relationship seem grubby and dirty.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: We had a whole pile of Chinese shipped illegal to Britain to work at catching sea fish... They were not in the sex trade, but they were under the same slavery conditions. They were more than mistreated, a ton of them got washed away and died. We ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Sex trafficking is illegal... that is more to do with the "war on drugs" than anything else... It is a technique to frighten people when you try to tie sex trafficking and pornography together like this. If you know of somebody being forced into ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Commando Dude, remember we are all trying to play nicely on this thread although we all have different views. Please don't make things personal, we are just talking and sharing ideas.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Also checked for the top viewed porn film on the same website. Woman has sex with boss. Has a story, a little bit of acting. Man and women are smiling. Women and man kiss. Woman get's oral sex. Movements are gentle. No talking, just "mmmmmm". ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: "Women in porn aren't human, they are bitches, whores, cumbuckets, sluts, etc... They are also almost always covered in semen at the end. They are three holes two hands, things to be penetrated"
Again, I must ask, what type of pornography are you ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Katy Did and Miss Golightly (original poster) wonderful, wonderful posts... you both bring to the table so many issues, it's hard to tackle them all... wonderful discussion, I am very much enjoying this post.
Katy Did, you seem to take a feminist... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: Have you seen the film "The Secretary", brilliant film that deals with pain sex in relationships. You can use her interest in pain and humiliation to help the situation. If she's submissive, then she has to follow orders. Therefore you or... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: Stop pain filled sex.. it cannot be practised safely if she wants punishment due to low self esteem. Yes she gets a short feeling of relief. But this is the same as people that cut themselves or stop eating. Stop, she is forcing you to become an... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: Pain and humiliation in sex is common, how ever to this degree it's very rare.
You do have to be careful about emotional and psychological damage that may be present or may be caused.
Yes, you both like it... but may it be a symptom of somet... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 2 September 2010: You get more than just a free jail pass.. you get thanks and admiration for coming back and showing your face and being willing to stand by your views. I know this subject is hard, and it's more easy to stay anonymous. But I'm so happy that you've ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 September 2010: But reader anon, now you want to police people's thoughts, and that is very difficult and it's also dangerous. People think all kinds of things, not only men, but women too. It's a good thing we can't read minds, otherwise we'd find out the your ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 September 2010: Nope, that's still wrong isn't it.. it's 85% of people who use porn.. sigh.. ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 September 2010: Mmmm.. anon, this was set up to be a positive post where people can express themselves. I'm really sorry you feel that way about somebody else.
Person 12345, I can see where I went wrong. No good at sums you see. From what you are saying, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 30 August 2010: Hey, original poster, miss Golightly. I got a question for you. You've tried very hard to change your attitude and solve the problem of porn in your relationship.
But still sometimes it makes you feel bad. Can I ask why?... (read in full...)
I will not make him marry me!
Q. When my boyfriend and I first got together, he said he didn't think he would ever get married. A while into the relationship, we talked about it as a possible option for us. Well, we got engaged July 9th. I was the one who asked and he said yes. It ...
A. 30 August 2010: Damn girl, grab that wedding ring.. this is silly. He didn't want to get married, many men don't. But you asked, he thought about it... He loves marriage now because it's either that or loose you. He's bending over backwards. If it will make you ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 29 August 2010: One last question? Apart from no discussion about masturbation addiction.. what prevents women from getting addicted to porn... a low number of women look at pornography, but by your statistics, one in four of them must have problems with ad... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 29 August 2010: From what I can see, your one in four people who are so called "addicted" have a very simple solution.. they find a woman who doesn't have porn issues and then the problem is solved... Not much of an addiction if it can be solved so easily.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 29 August 2010: I'll put it this way, a higher percentage of porn users are addicted to porn than the percentage of alcohol users who are addicted to alcohol, but we still warn people that they could develop a dependence on alcohol and warn people about it's ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 28 August 2010: "15-20 of addicts do get addictive!!!!!!!".. that seems very high to me... but your probably going by the questionnaires that are on the web... addicted includes people continuing pornography even though their partner dislikes it.... I did one of ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 26 August 2010: "We need to make sure when people are young, they learn that porn is a) addictive"
But this is where me and you disagree.... it sounds like you think that everyone who looks at porn must have an addiction problem... but surely before you stated s... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: "Actually my boyfriend hated that "eye crap" I'd wear (for different reasons) so I wore it a lot less." (personwithnumbers)
I think we are moving towards compromise.. I'm trying for no total ban, but to indulge in pornography less and to keep it ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: "But I think a lot of the problem is that men don't just want the visual, there's some kind of feeling of entitlement to ogle lots of other naked women."
Be careful when you say such things, especially if the pig is around. He tends to get very... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: Yes "aunt out of hiding and now moving" it's that middle group that is the problem... and yes their needs should be met as well..
Fair compromise for me is, he's allowed to look at porn outside the house and he tries to reduce his usage, she does... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: "I just think it's different with the porn thing from make-up, from going out with the guys, from whatever because it hurts her deep down at her core and while in a relationship, it seems like you should just want to do everything you possibly can ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: Your missing the point... Asking a man to never look at pornography even in private is controlling..
Asking a woman to stop wearing make-up and dress like her grandmother is controlling.
Both are based on the other persons insecurities. I... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: Where is everybody... bohoooo.... I'm all alone now...
Anyway, I got a question.. I lifted it from an anonymous lady who answered a question on porn.. I thought it was interesting, so I'll post it here...
"What if he turned around saying th... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: OK.. I understand now, thanks to wikipedia..GGW indeed..... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: What's GGW.. please translate for British readers...
And I should have guessed it was you... lol.. I could see your beliefs through your opinions, but you have been totally respectful towards us people with different points of view... Now that's t... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: No dear, your aunt in hiding, and yes your arguments are very good indeed.. thank you very much for sharing.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: I did promise to answer you questions, and no I didn't forget, but the research from Miss anon aunt who is hiding, has been compelling and interesting..
Now I see you thought I was making fun off you.. no, pure misunderstanding on your part. W... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: "Thanks Miamine for your sarcasm "but this brings us back to real life and Miss Golightly's original post." Perhaps if you had a relationship on the rocks after 14 years due to porn, you might be a bit less nasty and a bit more empathic. On the ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Couldn't agree more. There's been a rise in unplanned teen pregnancy recently and this has been cited as a possible reason (obviously no one really knows).
In the UK (and I think across Europe) there has been a drop in unplanned teenage pregnanc... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: We are all totally agreed that pornography is not for children, and our efforts should be (anti-porn and pro-porn) to put in controls to make it harder for them to access it.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: "In terms of sex versus porn addiction, porn is much riskier than sex in terms of addiction I can't say why for sure it is so much riskier, but some think it's because in some users it's actually a much more intense experience than sex alone."
... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yippie.. a true scholar.. thank you for the references and links...
Miamine goes off to read interesting research... :)... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yea.. the lack of condoms bothered me.. until I researched more.. the industry are very, very big on STD tests.. if your not clean you don't work...I think they are tested every 6months and often in the middle of shoots.
One sex worker with an ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: From Wikipedia..
Robert Jensen.. As a strong pro-feminist, Jensen has focused much of his work on the radical feminist critique of pornography and of masculinity. He also has written about white privilege and institutionalized racism. Jensen i... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Miamine hides whips and chains so not to offend Askoldersis... Miamine takes dictionary out, to look up long words like dopperme... (cheap way of getting education)
Will be back to answer Lucyloo's as soon as I process this intelligent stuff...... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry, I don't mean to minimise the true pain that sex addiction causes.. but I'm also very weary of the "fear mongering"... making people afraid of sex will have very destructive effects..
As to what the woman who hates porn but loves the man ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: One more thing.. if more and more porn users are using degrading pornography, then where does the whole amateur scene come from.. From what I can see, the amateur scene is fairly new and has gone from few users (and producers) to millions ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: It's because of this that the new DSM manual is removing the word addiction, because it has been so generalised it can no longer be used to explain clinical malfunctioning that needs treatment and help.
If we can all be addicted to anything... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: From what you say, if we remove the pornography, we are all still in danger from addiction to orgasm.... makes one want to stop sex altogether..
And then there's the danger of getting addicted to anything on earth... yes there is also sports a... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry, sorry, sorry.. last question I promise...
"If most men look at degrading porn, and it affects their brain. What happens to the women who watch pornography, do they begin to hate themselves?"... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry one more questions anon...
1. You believe that watching porn affects the brain in some way. If your watching degrading pornography for study, how is it effecting your sexuality?
2. Is your study of degrading pornography not ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: "Just because of the existence of other kinds of non-degrading porn does not mean most porn that most men watch isn't degrading."
1. How do you know MOST men watch degrading porn?
2. What type of porn do you classify as degrading?... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 20 August 2010: "So let me ask you, if as a woman she finds it degrading to women, but you find it arousing, is that a good thing to be aroused by degrading women? You think it's healthy?" (anon)
I'll bite, and this is a difficult one.. Healthy is the same as ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Non-compromise is also good.. you have standards, you set them and you keep to them.. But I'm an atheist.. I declare this on my first date.. I don't think it's the job of the religious to tell me that they like God.. If I don't like something, it's ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Exactly Cerbus.... I'm not a porn lover, actually I watch it very rarely.. my problem is that I LOVE ROMANCE AND EROTIC NOVELS... I love the millionaire prince that dates the secretary and then they have sex on the floor.. like many women, words are ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hi, I just want to add this answer given by one of our aunts.. (Kaede) I hope she doesn't mind.. but this is very close to how I think, and is one of the best answers to a pornography problem that I have ever read. Because I have used pornography, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hi Sis...lol.. and I know your not too keen on the whole porn thing, so I'm surprised we find ourselves in agreement.
Thanks anon, we got to give you a name.. lets call you miss Golightly, and I thank you for starting this thread. I think I'... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Totally agree honeypie, it's best if people can compromise over difficulties with pornography, that really is the best way. I also agree that it is not helpful when us aunts and uncles get into big discussions on people's threads, totally ... (read in full...)
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