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writes:Ok.My girlfriend and I are both 50 years old.she lives 120 miles away.We have been going out for almost 3 years.We broke up at least 8 times.We just broke up again 3 weeks ago .I think its for good this time.I hope.But it dosint make sence this time.We hadint seen each other for almost 8 months after our last breakup.Then a few months ago she started texting me.That she missed me and loved me.So we got together a few weekends about 6 weeks ago.We started texting and talking again.about 3 weeks after we seen each other and spent 3 days together.We were texting and talking all night about 3 weeks ago.Did i mention she gets drunk a lot.She told me she loved me and wanted to marry me.And spend the summer with me.Two days later she said she had a panic attack and was drinking to much and wasint sleeping enough.She was going to get help.Well she ignored me for a week.So I called her daughter a week later and she told me that her mother was feeling ok.Why did she ignore me.I will never understand.That was her first panic attack.I broke up with her and changed my phone number.It just dosint add up.Does anyone know what might have happend.She has done things like this in the past.But im glad its over now.I could not handle it anymore. Wondering in Georgia
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (13 September 2010):
 miamme has a good point
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 She doesn't sound well. Is she an secret alcoholic, they get panic attacks, disappear and call you at strange hours of the day and night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk here is an update.I guess my ex girlfriend.Still has my land line phone number and my other cell phone number.I changed the cell phone number We use to talk on.Its been so long since i talked to her on the other numbers i thought she tossed those numbers.Well after a month of no contact.Yesterday morning 9-11-2010.She called me once on my landline and 2 times on my other cell.But did not leave any message.It was 3 calls between 6am and 630:am.Why is she doing this.I dont want to go through this Drama anymore.HELP....
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (6 September 2010):
sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, I'd call her on it. Ask her straight up why she keeps doing this to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you llindy87.But the thing is she has done this in the past.She ignored me for 5 months once for no reason.One week she loves me the next week she breaks up for stupid things.This has gone on long enough.We were doing fine this time.Then she stoped contacting me.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (6 September 2010):
Isn't it overreacting a bit that you changed your number? You simply could have asked her why she ignored you instead of blocking her out of your life. You clearly care about his person, so why run and avoid the situation instead of confronting it and working it out?
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