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writes:Okay, I know there's so many questions about this but I really need help with my situation. I started to like this teacher at my school when i was 13, and now i'm 16 and leaving the school i've realised I do love him. Don't tell me it's a crush or infatuation or it's part of growing up... because I am in love with him.And I think he may like me too. He smiles and blushes when he see's me, and gives a funny little smile. And in lessons and assemblies all my friends are giggling because he just stares at me. We always make deep, meaningful eye contact and he interrupts his conversations with other people to talk to me. Also, when my friends went to talk to him the other week, he said my name even though they didn't mention me. So does he like me?I was thinking about telling him on my last day of school, telling him about how I feel. But i'm scared he'll just brush me away carelessly. What do I do? :/ Please help!!Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): The problem here is that it probably is a crush or an infatuation. But I didnt say that. Be careful - you are young yet and have lots of time to learn about love and (I hope not too much) heartache and mistakes.
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reader, CharmmyKitty  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 I know this is the last thing you want to hear, but how can you be so sure it's love?
When I was 16, I thought I knew too, but my perseptions have totally changed. I'm 21, and I'm still finding out that I really don't know as much as I thought about love!
But that aside, if he does indeed have feelings for you, it would be unwise for you to pursue a relationship. Because of your age, if anyone were to find out, it could be extremely detrimental to his career and reputation.
If it's true love, it can certainly wait a few more years. In the mean time, think about what makes you 'love' him, and be sure that you can separate all those things from infactuation.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 You said you are in love with him but do you know what real love is?
If you have real love, you would not have all those types of feelings and emotions that is afflicting you right now.
How can you be loving someone when you don't even know if he likes you or not?
You could be loving a famous singer or artiste and he even does not know if you exist or not.
When you are in love, you view things through rose tinted glasses .Your perception of things are irrational.
He maybe sexually attracted to you because you have sex appeal but this does not mean that he loves you.
Many students secretly have a crush or infatuated with their teachers.You can read my write here.
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/help-i-am-falling-in-love-with-my-teacher/
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): He's too old for you. You may end up feeling used or become used.
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