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writes:why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings does it mean they dont respect you or do they just not have any feelings for anyone apart fron themselves?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 I suspect he met someone else and he's focusing on that relationship now. You don't say if you were seeing this man when he cut contact with you, or if he's an ex and you've remained friends since the break-up. But either way, he's probably involved with someone else now, and sees no reason to continue having a relationship or friendship with you on the side. Don't contact him anymore. It's time to move on. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Because some men don't see women as people but objects to be used. I must stress immature, inconsiderate, unfeeling men who you really wouldn't want a relationship with anyway. An ex of this did the same to me, reason being he was seeing someone else and took the cowards way out to avoid the fallout. You're well shot of this jerk.
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reader, Lucy2118 +, writes (26 February 2008):
 I don't mean to be harsh but how long were you with this guy??? If it's not that long then I feel your thinking to far into things. Maybe he's having issues with what he wants at the moment and thought that cutting you off completly would be the best thing to do without hurting you.When he's sorted he'll contact you.Hope this helpsX
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Those men are not hardwired like you and when they have lose interest in you , they will delete you or terminate you from their radar.
Their brains are not programmed to reply to any message from you or simply your request is forbidden to reach their control centers.(brain)
They have a shallow brain and only a few kilobytes in their memories. LOL!
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reader, Kiss Dont Miss  +, writes (26 February 2008):
Oh, I know pretty well what you feel... I dated a guy who was just awesome, he was the first BF whom I loved dearly. Everything was great though he had a very busy lifestyle. And one day he just stopped calling me, we hadn't seen each other for about two weeks when my patience was over and I asked him to come. He came and we talked. He said we'd better part. Why? Why? Why? I couldn't understand what happened. The following 6 months were the most miserable time in my life. And then, on some sunny day, I realized he simply stopped loving me. It wasn't his fault, neither it was mine. Now I'm dating an awesome guy... Still I'm thankful to my ex for his being in my life. Oh, life has so many surprises...Cheer up, take your time, and some day you will forget that guy. And another day you will meet your significant one. Best of luck!
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reader, Kiss Dont Miss +, writes (26 February 2008):
Oh, I know pretty well what you feel... I dated a guy who was just awesome, he was the first BF whom I loved dearly. Everything was great though he had a very busy lifestyle. And one day he just stopped calling me, we hadn't seen each other for about two weeks when my patience was over and I asked him to come. He came and we talked. He said we'd better part. Why? Why? Why? I couldn't understand what happened. The following 6 months were the most miserable time in my life. And then, on some sunny day, I realized he simply stopped loving me. It wasn't his fault, neither it was mine. Now I'm dating an awesome guy... Still I'm thankful to my ex for his being in my life. Oh, life has so many surprises...Cheer up, take your time, and some day you will forget that guy. And another day you will meet your significant one. Best of luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Here you go You:
question #1 why? BECAUSE HE'S A JERK.
question #2 what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? BECAUSE HE'S AN INSENSITIVE JERK.
question #3 does it take a certain type of a man? YES IT TAKES AN INSENSITIVE JERK WHO ALSO HAPPENS TO BE A CHICKEN SHIT AS WELL.
You have escaped that should give you relief at least.
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reader, Chemer +, writes (26 February 2008):
 The answer to this is plain and simple for both Genders. A person cuts contact with another and not just specifically male, because they are scared to make a commitment. I have been dumped by email, text and letter. It vary rarely happens over the phone as people are scared that you may talk them back into it. When a person gets cold feet they don't know how to let you down gently. So they hope the problem will go away. Of course the other person becomes more hurt and more determined as they have no resolution to the relationship.Hope this helps,Steve
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Hi Hunny
It means they cant just say im sorry but I dont want to see you anymore, But its an easier way out hunny, Forget him he isnt worth you not in a million years you are worth more than this..A guy may have a better answer but if I were you Id forget go out get on and be happy as no one person is worth your happiness, Sweetheart you have so much to give and the right man will come along just thank the heavens that he didnt stay to long and be strong and love life TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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