Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any ...
A. 8 August 2007: Glad you found out.
Morning sickness is something i am getting at the moment but i KNOW im not preggers. Its something i get ow n then for some weeks when ive got a lot of stress going on. Soon as i wake up, queasy. Goes by late morning. Actu... (read in full...)
After a year and a half he still wont introduce me to his daughter and wants our relationship to be secret
Q. I am separated and I met a man who is also separated. We have been seeing each other for a year and a half. When I first met him he explained that his ex can cause problems and so he wanted to keep things quiet about us. He further indicated he ...
A. 2 August 2007: You have a very understanding nature.
Hes lucky to have you.
Sounds like she gave him a right ol runaround!
Hope it all works out, and hopefully soon you will get to meet his daughter.
It must be frustrating for you. You could all have a good ... (read in full...)
After a year and a half he still wont introduce me to his daughter and wants our relationship to be secret
Q. I am separated and I met a man who is also separated. We have been seeing each other for a year and a half. When I first met him he explained that his ex can cause problems and so he wanted to keep things quiet about us. He further indicated he ...
A. 2 August 2007: Still doesnt make much sense to me. But if you are happy with the set up, then why the question in the first place? I always say, if somethings not a problem for you, then its not a problem. C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I feel like i'm more of a taker than a giver!!
Q. I feel insecure and it makes me somewhat shy in my relationship. I can never initiate anything, it's always him that has to ask if we want to go out or him initiating a kiss. I don't want to be like this because i feel somewhat selfish, you know, ...
A. 2 August 2007: Difficult one. I kinda know where you're coming from here. If they make all the moves you know they want to. Wheras if you make the first moves they might not want to & the thought of that is horrible?
Biting the bullet! thats the key i thin... (read in full...)
My ex is giving me majorly mixed signals, please help me figure him out!
Q. Mixed Signals!! DECODE!!! My ex boyfriend whom i still talk with everyday (its a long distance thing) says things that confuse me. Can you tell me what you think this all means: " You're hot. youre better looking than that girl. why would i care...
A. 2 August 2007: Its all a bit of a game though isnt it. If he doesnt want to hear you saying you want him back, maybe he just likes the attention? If someone backs off once they have 'got' the woman or man, it can be a sign of immaturity. Maybe hes nowhere near rea... (read in full...)
My ex is giving me majorly mixed signals, please help me figure him out!
Q. Mixed Signals!! DECODE!!! My ex boyfriend whom i still talk with everyday (its a long distance thing) says things that confuse me. Can you tell me what you think this all means: " You're hot. youre better looking than that girl. why would i care...
A. 2 August 2007: Very hard to say. Maybe he is trying to leave it so you're not waiting around for him to come back or maybe hes confused and doesnt know what he wants, so keeps swinging from being keen to not so keen. Its not fair on you thats all i can see. Bu... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't come during sex any more
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. The sex always seemed great to me..and at first he would cum. Now he never does. It's been almost 3 weeks since he came...I feel like I am doing something wrong. Please help?...
A. 2 August 2007: Its unlikely you are doing anything wrong. You have spoken about this i take it? Has he ever had anything like this before? Is he drinking lots of alcohol because i know that can effect it I'm not too sure how long guys go without coming. But... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with him because we always sweat the small stuff
Q. hi friends... i have been in relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and i love him so much and i know he loves me too but i want to let him go because we always fights on small reason, our taste are completely different,we always h...
A. 2 August 2007: You dont need to get him to hate you. You just need to say its over. And mean it. When couples get to the stage where they are bickering about completely stupid stuff, you know its probably reached the end of the line and you are just irritating ... (read in full...)
I dont want to sleep with a girl right away, why is this a problem?
Q. Girls, please give me your words of wisdom! I have not have sex I like over a year! I’m not ugly or anything! Just been real relaxed, REAL RELAXED about – getting out there. I hate one night stands – just not me. And this really isn’t about ...
A. 2 August 2007: Im really not seeing a problem here. Whats wrong with waiting until you have got to know someone? I dont think there is a problem. Are you sure you're not just meeting the wrong girls so far? As long as you know there is no deeper issue to it, and ... (read in full...)
Whats anal sex like for a woman?
Q. whats anal sex like, for a woman...
A. 2 August 2007: Painful! haha nah i dont know, everyone is different. I dont like it. First couple of minutes max is enough, then it starts to 'hurt' thats the only way i can describe the feeling. I dont see what the attraction is myself but im sure others will ... (read in full...)
I want us to continue just being 'friends with benefits' but I told him I'd like to see him a bit more, now I'm worried I scared him off
Q. I've been having casual sex with this guy for a couple of months now. This guy is involved with someone(he has a kid too). We both know where we stand in this situation. We're like friends with benefit relationship here. I definitely enjoy having ...
A. 2 August 2007: I did the same thing years ago. I was at a stage where i was single for the first time since i was 15 which i liked. and had an amazing chemistry with an older married guy. I didnt want to take him away from his wife either. Only trouble was his ... (read in full...)
I signed up for a dating site and flirted with women, pretending to be one myself; was I cheating?
Q. So i screwed up big with my girlfriend. Everything has been great with us and i've never been happy. This girl is amazing on so many levels and couldnt ever think of a better woman. But a couple months ago I was bored on the computer and ended up ...
A. 2 August 2007: Yes i would classify it as cheating. I had someone lie to me for a year but didnt actually sleep with anyone else. I wouldnt of felt any less annoyed if he had. Your girlfriend had trust issues with you because her instincts were telling her you ... (read in full...)
After a year and a half he still wont introduce me to his daughter and wants our relationship to be secret
Q. I am separated and I met a man who is also separated. We have been seeing each other for a year and a half. When I first met him he explained that his ex can cause problems and so he wanted to keep things quiet about us. He further indicated he ...
A. 2 August 2007: Alarm bells would be ringing for me before now. There is more to this than hes letting on i would be thinking. If you 2 are a couple, why are you only seeing eachother on average once a week? Have you spoken to him about that? Is that a joint de... (read in full...)
What should I say to my boyfriend when I am really tired?
Q. Hi everyone. I was wondering if this is a bad thing. So My boyfriend is always touching me in a sexual way, like he will just walk up to me and grap my chest or the other part of me. Well Last night when we went to bed I was starting to fall asleep ...
A. 1 August 2007: No you shouldnt just have sex with him to please him. What are you, a sex object? Some nights you will be tired, thats your right, but obviously if he wants to please himself theres nothing wrong with that either.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I need to get my mind off him!!!
Q. hi i am 14 and i recently went to a football match and i really like one of the footballers i saw playing (it was a pre season match) i cant stop thinking about him although i have only seen him twice (i saw him in his car on the way home ) he is 21 ...
A. 1 August 2007: He definately wont be interested in a 15 year old, and quite rightly so. So you need to meet some more people your age. Any clubs you can join?
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm 20, 4'10in and worried.
Q. I am 20 years old and only 4 ft 10. My mother is 5 ft 3 and my father is 5ft 5. I am really getting worried about my height. I have been to my doctor who says i have nothing to worry about as long as i am healthy. Can any one help me please because ...
A. 1 August 2007: Im 5'3 & would loooooooooove to be shorter! Ive never wanted to be tall. Guys love small women too which is a bonus.
I would be happy with the way you are if i was you.
Clothes can be a bit of a pain but apart from that, its cool.
As you get olde... (read in full...)
Seen her text messages from another guy! How do I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi all. I have been with my girlfriend just over 3 months now and I am totally in love with her and I do really believe that she loves me and things are amazing most of the time. However I have a jealousy/trust issue. I checked ...
A. 1 August 2007: You will just have to wait n see. If its tonight the cinema, see if she wants to see you tonight. If she has male friends as the norm then it could just be one of them? Not too sure i would jump to the conclusion of her cheating just yet. More... (read in full...)
Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any ...
A. 1 August 2007: I would buy a pregnancy test just to know. You wont get a false positive if you are.
But i had tender breasts, and i mean extremely tender breats for just over a month & was convinced i was prenant.
But wasnt.
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I cheated on my bf and I can't get this other guy out of my head!
Q. Ok so im in a relationship of 2 n half years i cheated once had sex with someone i workd with, my bf knew i told him about a week after i did it, hes still with me because he loves me so much. i love him to but im not in love with him cos all i can ...
A. 1 August 2007: I dont think you should be with any of them to be honest.
This guy at work is just a sign that you want to move on.
I would end it with the current guy & stay single for a while. The guy at work is with someone else, and would end up doing to you w... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my gf but am having a hard time...I can't get away from her! Any advice?
Q. My girl and i have been going out for 1.5 years and it was awsome but i lost feelings for her and now she is all lovey and all ... i called to break up with her many times but like she will just start crying and it doesnt bother me thta she crys ...
A. 1 August 2007: Well good for you that you dont want to cheat. Its a shame more don think like that!
U need to just be firm, tell her its over & be direct & to the point.
Say what you have said on here. She should have more pride than to want to stay with someone ... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend of a year cheated on me?
Q. Hi Well My Name Is Kristal and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a couple months and he has ben cheating on me not sexually but in other ways why has he been doing this?? i am very sad i need to know??...
A. 1 August 2007: Because hes immature & likes the power of getting away with things? Who knows. If someones lying to you & your instincts are telling you that, quit it. And meet someone you can relax with & not be knowing someones trying to pull the wool over your ... (read in full...)
Should I make him choose between her and I, or just leave him?
Q. i really dont know what to do! i'm seeing this very older guy.his 43 and i'm 22 when i met him he told me he wasn't married. then to come and find out he was living with this other woman and has 2 daughters.we still kept seeing each other and in the ...
A. 1 August 2007: What a mess. This is ridiculous. It couldnt get much worse. The only person this guy loves is himself in my opinion.
2 women & 4 kids basically? Hes a dangerous man thats got you both dancing to his tune & of course hes sleeping with her, the sofa... (read in full...)
She met a guy on holiday and he confessed he likes her; she says nothing's in it but now we're on a break. Should I be suspicious?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months! We are in a long distance relationship and it was going rather well. We where having the best relationship possible, we were so happy and in love. She has just got back from a weeks ...
A. 1 August 2007: Without beating yourself up about it, i would be suspicious yes.
A break sometimes is just a gentler way of saying its over.
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain at the best of times.
Put it all down to experience & try n meet s... (read in full...)
I want to stay with her but her trust issues are making it very difficult
Q. Hi- I have a tough one. I am engaged to a girl that I have only known for 1.5 years and we have a 9 week old baby. She wants the relationship, yet has some serious trust and insecurity issues. Her dad cheated on her mom and her mother told her...
A. 1 August 2007: There is therapy she can go for. And would definately need it by the sounds of it. Your Gp can sort that.
What a nasty upbringing. Thats a lot for someone to deal with & to be cheated on by a couple of guys too, is just going to add to them.
To th... (read in full...)
I ended it by text.
Q. I was seeing someone but finished with him because he had another girlfriend, he siad he didn't love her but would not leave his children. He admitted he was scared of getting hurt but he did love me but he had to hold back. I finished it because it ...
A. 1 August 2007: You did the right thing. Hasnt he wasted enough of your time?
Of course you will miss him, but you deserve someone thats in a position to be able to respond to your calls & txt because they havent got a wife or girlfreind in tow. Surely you wont... (read in full...)
Can an STD like chlamydia make you sterile?
Q. ok i have a std called chlamidia (not sure if thats how its spelled) ok well im getting it taken care of right now. but isnt it true that that std can make you infertile. how long would you have to have it before it did?...
A. 1 August 2007: If you have started treatment, dont be worrying about it, you're doing all you can. can take a long time before it can make you infertile. Its people that leave it untreated for a long time that happens to. C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...
A. 1 August 2007: I had the 'but i miss the daughter' one and hes back with his ex, which i always knew would happen eventually, he was just going through the motions, having a gap year! Its not his problem that she cant afford a gardner. Its not his responsibili... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesnt just glance at other women, he GAWKS
Q. Dear cupid, I have a question about men who gawk for long periods of time at other women. I understand that it is human nature for a man to glance. Is it a problem when it gets to the point to where my BF is spending the whole night at the pub gawk...
A. 31 July 2007: Its rude in your company, at the very least.
Do the same back.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't get rid of his porn collection. Should I find someone else?
Q. Another porn question. My boyfriend of 16 months has thousand of porn pics/clips. He says that it was from the years he was single, however all the material he has makes me wonder how long everyday he would look at it and get off to it. When we ...
A. 31 July 2007: Um i wouldnt say so? I mean, i think porn is fine for guys & girls. Men have always been more visual than women. I used to like the stories in grot mags (sorry thats my name for them) not the pics. And i used to borrow them off the guy i was with at ... (read in full...)
She seems very stern about breaking up, should I continut to work on our relationship or just let her go her own way?
Q. My girlfriend and I started out as freinds for over 2 years. We have been dating for 8 months. She is a recovering alcoholic and most of these 8 months has been hell. After a day of drinking she would lose her temper over nothing and cause huge ...
A. 31 July 2007: I am all for counselling in certain situations but people tend to be paying them to stroke their egos & tell them everyone else is in the wrong, except themselves. Its annoying as hell & really doesnt steer them in the right direction.
Your girl... (read in full...)
I am confortable being frumpy, but want to be attractive
Q. I feel a bit Bridget Jones writing this but I am truly feeling like life is passing by. I'm 35 and have one failed marriage of 13 years behind me - no children. I am comfortable in my own company but I feel like I am stuck between wanting to find ...
A. 31 July 2007: Well, i watched loose women on tv today & they were saying they would rather be a bit frumpy cuz the women that look young for their age get the bad boys after them so leaves the good guys for them! hehe
Dont know about that. It might be true... (read in full...)
He keeps changing his mind about our relationship
Q. should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the ...
A. 31 July 2007: Tell this guy your children are important to you & you dont want them to be fcuked around! Who does he think he is?
If a guy said that kinda thing to me i would bin them off as soon as. Preferbly before my children got to know him!
But thats ju... (read in full...)
How do the men feel about dating an older woman?
Q. Men only please! I am a woman in my early fifties and have met a guy in his forties, there is a 8 year gap. He is grey haired and a bit overweight and I am hardly grey at all and trim, fit, and told I look much younger quite often, even in my thirt...
A. 31 July 2007: Oooops! didnt see the men only bit! My bad...ignore the below advice! haha
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Where is a good place to meet viable men?
Q. Where do you meet people to date? I don't know where to meet worthwhile guys. I go out to the bar but all that those guys seem to be interested is sex, I don't go to school anymore and I work in a small office where there are no guys my age. I don't ...
A. 31 July 2007: Well apart from work, i dont know to be honest. Ive only ever met one decent guy, and he was the dad of my 2 children, i met him through work. Anyone else ive met has been in bars, and you're mostly right, they are a bit young & out for what they ... (read in full...)
He said he wouldnt be a dad to our baby and so I had an abortion
Q. I really dont know where to start...I need some advice. About 2 years ago I started seeing a guy who I thought was really nice. When we were together 8 months, I read his mobile phone messages. He was saying to his ex girlfriend that he loved her ...
A. 31 July 2007: How horrible.
Some men dont have a care in the world!
Its mother natures way sometimes to kick us in the teeth i think!
Im so sorry you feel you did the wrong thing, but from an outsiders point of view, i am not so sure. This is where mother natur... (read in full...)
I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I ...
A. 31 July 2007: Shes scared to know the truth! I still think its weird hes not told her hes with someone new. Are you sure theres not more to this than meets the eye? C xxxxx... (read in full...)
How do the men feel about dating an older woman?
Q. Men only please! I am a woman in my early fifties and have met a guy in his forties, there is a 8 year gap. He is grey haired and a bit overweight and I am hardly grey at all and trim, fit, and told I look much younger quite often, even in my thirt...
A. 31 July 2007: Oh geez yes go for it!
Not saying i think you're old at all! But i think as we all get older, the age gaps actually get smaller. As in, someone of 16 would have quite a big gap mentally with someone of 24. But someone of 30 with someone of 38 for ... (read in full...)
I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I ...
A. 31 July 2007: Be very careful. Someone that doesnt want to let their ex know they have met someone new, tends to be keeping there options open so they can go back if it goes tits up with their current beau.
Not always the case~! But just be careful.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...
A. 31 July 2007: No
I wouldnt accept this. My kids dad doesnt come round here cutting my grass and doing d.i.y & his girlfriend would have a fit if he did! And quite rightly so. His ex is either using him, or is completely dependant on other people to do for her.... (read in full...)
why is my ex still lying to me?
Q. hi i have written quite afew times about my now ex partner and how he has treated me.i.e first he had a "fling" wanted me out of our home; then decided we should make a go of it .. then a few months later, he decided he wanted me out again - so...
A. 31 July 2007: Ha! Been there done it bought the t shirt! They lie because they are pathalogical liars, habitual liars, compulsive liars, all the liars rolled into one little annoying package grrrrr He couldnt speak the truth if it jumped up and bit him in the b... (read in full...)
My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!
Q. My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, ...
A. 30 July 2007: Yes~! this isnt right and its unfair for her to expect you to accept it! Its treating you badly. With no respect. You need to have a proper talk to her and make some decisions. She shouldnt be let to have her cake and eat it in front of your face... (read in full...)
How can I change my mood and stop thinking these crazy things?
Q. I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I love my boyfriend to death. My main problem is mostly with myself. A lot of the time I’m creating scenarios in my head that I know aren’t true (and I have no reason to suspect that they are) about ...
A. 30 July 2007: Feel like you're going crazy dont you. But you're not! It does sound like you are needing reassurance from your guy, thats why you're putting the pressure on him to make you feel more secure. Its weird isnt it, why its started. Although i wonde... (read in full...)
He gets uncontrollable urges to sleep with other women... our sex life is great, is this normal?
Q. Hi, I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, he is 34, me 35. We moved to China a year ago to work and during this time our relationship has gone downhill. Partly due to the lifestyle, not having enough space from each ...
A. 30 July 2007: Ummm not usually no. Maybe hes trying to break it to you gently that this relationship has run its course. If you are going to be apart travelling then it might be a good thing. Bit of space for both of you to explore. If you hook up again after, t... (read in full...)
I find it hard to trust him because I have had 2 failed marriages both because they cheated on me.
Q. I have had two failed marriages both of which they cheated on me. My relationship with my boyfriend is falling because I find it difficult to trust him, it is not because he has done anthing wrong, he wants to go to night clubs with friends which I ...
A. 30 July 2007: I can see where you're coming from here, i used to feel like that about all those things too. Nuts and Zoo mags even! But things like clubbing i wouldnt expect my partner to be happy about but thats just how i am. Its normal for couples to set thei... (read in full...)
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