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*usciousLatina1
writes:Hi Well My Name Is Kristal and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a couple months and he has ben cheating on me not sexually but in other ways why has he been doing this?? i am very sad i need to know??
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Boys at that age have a hard time settling down to just one female when there's so many to pick from. It's best not to get involved in any "serious" relationships until you guys are older and more stable. Men in their 30's and 40's can barely resist the temptation of being with another woman, much less at 16, or 17 years of age. They are just too immature to focus on one girl at that age. I'm sorry you are hurting, but we've all been there and it will get better.
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reader, x-kay_kay-x  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 beause his eyes are bigger than his head wen he sees a gal putting things up for free(if ya et wat i mean) the first instinct is go for it mate but frm wat i can gather ya better off wid out him and if he tells u il never do it again just remeber this advise once a cheater always a chaeter
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 There are other ways to cheat than sexually. Emotionally, financially, romantically (that does not involve sex). How exactly has he been cheating? If you can be a bit more specific it might be a little easier to give advice. However, I would say that the man who cheats is refusing to commit to one person. He may feel that since it isnt sexual it is all ok, and none of your concern. But I would disagree. He needs to be commited and devoted to you, you are number one. If he wants you to be his partner than he needs to change his ways.
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reader, kenny +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Its hard to say why he has been cheating without knowing a little more about your situation here.
You say he has not been cheating on you sexually so i can only assume he has been flirting, texting, or emailing another girl.
Are you sure its not just playful banter than means nothing, or has he given you reason for grave concern.
k
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Because hes immature & likes the power of getting away with things? Who knows. If someones lying to you & your instincts are telling you that, quit it. And meet someone you can relax with & not be knowing someones trying to pull the wool over your eyes. Why they do it isnt worth fretting about, the chances are they dont even know why they do it, so you will be there all year trying to figure that out yourself.
All the best.
C xxx
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reader, kelpel +, writes (1 August 2007):
what other ways do you mean? like kissing? The only way you will find out why is by asking him directly. No one else will know that except him.
Try not to be sad, is he really worth the heartache if hes cheating on you?
keep your chin up girl xx
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