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writes:Ok so im in a relationship of 2 n half years i cheated once had sex with someone i workd with, my bf knew i told him about a week after i did it, hes still with me because he loves me so much. i love him to but im not in love with him cos all i can do is think about the guy i work with and it makes me push my bf away, it wouldnt be so bad if the lad i wanted wanted me to, hes flirty n gropey but has a gf n i no im nt the one he wants but hes the one i want i dnt no what to do. i wana try get over the lad i fancy cos its jus nt gunna happen. i feel so guilty to my bf because i do love him so much i wanna fall bk in love with him but i cant get the other one out of my head. any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): you know, the exact same scenario happened to me about 2 years ago. I'm not gonna lie, it was so difficult - and it wasnt just the one time i slept with the lad from work, we had a full blown affair i guess you could call it that. And i was so caught between the lad from work I so lusted for, and my boyfriend who i loved but so was not in love with.
Then when it came to the crunch, i thought, I am with my man for a reason. And that was enough to hold on and work at it.
Now, i'm due to be married to my man in a few weeks time. The lad at work, we are friends. He has a new girlfriend, and yes I do still wonder how things might have turned out. hope this helps xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Hi, i found myself in this exact situation and suggest you speak to the other guy and ask him just for a chat so you can check how he really feels and tell him how you feel. The constant thoughts dont go away although they do fade a little.
Good Luck hun
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (1 August 2007):
 I dont think you should be with any of them to be honest.
This guy at work is just a sign that you want to move on.
I would end it with the current guy & stay single for a while. The guy at work is with someone else, and would end up doing to you what hes done behind his girlfriends back.
Dont end up like her.
Good luck
C xxxxxx
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