Do I start again with my ex-girlfriend?
Q. Do I start again with my ex-girlfriend? Ok, here we go - I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years about 9 months ago. I broke up with her because we fought alot about everything, but mainly because I was interested and curious about this other...
A. 20 August 2007: I think you need to let the current beau go then. And let her meet someone thats more suited to her. If the sexual chemistry isnt there, and its that important to you, which is fair enough, i wouldn't stick it out.
You know when the chemistry is g... (read in full...)
I don't want to rush her but the bottom line is that I'm completely in love with this girl.. !
Q. Last June I picked up the phone and called a friend I went to high school with. I literally hadn't seen or spoken to her for 12 years. We went out for drinks and since then we've been spending time together at least once a week (maybe a little ...
A. 8 August 2007: It is a good sign yes!
Just go with the flow.
She sounds cool.
Good luck
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I have put an end to contacting her. Was that the right decision?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm afraid I did something very stupid yet again, and this time I think it has really blown things apart. *Check my column to hear about my situation* Last night I dreamt about her. It was us getting back together. First thing I di...
A. 8 August 2007: I think you are like me and you think too much! hehe
Seriously, stop trying to analize it all. She might be being childish, she might well hate the bones of you, either way, i would quit looking at her myspace & try and forget her.
Like someone ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex? Not even being intimate with other girls has worked!
Q. I am having serious problems getting over someone. I feel like I am obsessed with the other person. We dated for 4 months and broke up 6 months ago. We were very intimate and I have never felt a connection to someone like that since my 1st which was ...
A. 8 August 2007: Theres a saying here in the Uk, If something seems too good to be true, thats usually because it is!
Be safe xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Does cheating once mean he'll do it again?
Q. Does cheating once mean he'll do it again? My husband cheated on me before we got married. We had been dating for 3 months when he cheated on me. The sings were there but I didn't notice until later because I was going through school and worki...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi
No i dont think so.
My uncle Martin was a very good looking young guy, cheated on my aunt, but they got back together & he wouldnt dream of cheating on her now.
People grow up. Its probably because he is away that you are having old feelings... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi Duskyrowe
We all need a shout now n then.
I think this Robbie touched a nerve with you & you do have unfinished business. But only because you are still in contact with him.
If he used you recently, hes not a nice guy & quite frankly you ... (read in full...)
I'm too young to have sex, but my boyfriend wants to
Q. Hello I'm 15 Years Old 16 Soon And Am Scared Too Have Sex I Really Like This Boy But We Are Not Goiny Out We Have Done Everything Apart From Sex But I Think He Is Using Me Is There Any Advice You Could Give Me x...
A. 8 August 2007: Dont do it! please. I thought you was going to say you were in a relationship and your guy wanted to have sex. I lost my virginity just before i turned 16 but i ended up marrying the guy at 18. If your not even dating the guy, dont do it! Save it ... (read in full...)
I have put an end to contacting her. Was that the right decision?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm afraid I did something very stupid yet again, and this time I think it has really blown things apart. *Check my column to hear about my situation* Last night I dreamt about her. It was us getting back together. First thing I di...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi
You cant go wrong by giving her space now.
Shes made it perfectly clear she doesnt want to reconsile the relationship, so no contact is the best way forward.
I doubt very much she is 'over it' already. I split from a year long r/s just over a ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm!!
Q. Hiii, I have a BIG problem. I am 22 yrs old. I have been having sex since I was 16yrs old. I have never had any signs of having an organsum. I do not know what is going on with my body.It feels really good when I am having sex. It is just tha...
A. 8 August 2007: Foreplay is the key here. Women rarely have orgasms with penetrative sex alone. They need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. You dont say whether you can when you're on your own.
Sometimes practising different positions during sex like the woma... (read in full...)
Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any ...
A. 8 August 2007: Glad you found out.
Morning sickness is something i am getting at the moment but i KNOW im not preggers. Its something i get ow n then for some weeks when ive got a lot of stress going on. Soon as i wake up, queasy. Goes by late morning. Actu... (read in full...)
She says she has an orgasm but cannot cum? How do I help her to do this as well?
Q. my girlfriend tells me that when she masturbates, or when i finger her, she orgasms but isn't able to cum. As far as i was aware these two things were one and the same. how do i help her to cum as well? thanks...
A. 8 August 2007: Very few women 'ejaculate'
We orgasm. More a feeling.
Dont worry! You could try forever though and it wont happen! Its nothing personal. Its a physical impossibility for most girls.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I did cheat on him but I want him back!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for a year now a month ago we broke when he was told that i was cheating on him and i have tried talking to him but he keeps me off, the truth is that i cheated on him and i now feel i don't love this other guy its ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi
He might never forgive you, no matter what you say to him.
I wouldnt if someone cheated, its just the way some of us are. Its still early days though so after a bit of time, the anger might subside in him.
Give him some time & space.
C xx... (read in full...)
I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me...
Q. Hi I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me! I split with someone just over a month ago. Was a year long nightmare relationship. All is good, I can't stand the bloke. He rang Friday night trying to explain things 'cuz he l...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi Penta
Oooh never thought of that actually. Maybe it will help me understand why he has turned on his own family in favour of someone whos only use to him is money.
Thanks for that.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex? Not even being intimate with other girls has worked!
Q. I am having serious problems getting over someone. I feel like I am obsessed with the other person. We dated for 4 months and broke up 6 months ago. We were very intimate and I have never felt a connection to someone like that since my 1st which was ...
A. 7 August 2007: Well some things just aren't meant to be sweetheart and this seems to be one of them. If you split a while ago & shes not shown any signs of wanting to get back together, you really do need to move on.
We cant make people love us. If we could i woul... (read in full...)
Do you have to get rid of chlamydia in order to become pregnant?
Q. i wanted to know if you have chlamydia which is an sti can you still get pregnant or do you have to get rid of it first...
A. 7 August 2007: Why would someone worry about getting pregnant in that situ? I would get rid of the STD first myself!
And what about the fact they will pass it onto the person they're having sex with in order to actually get pregnant?
Anyone thinking of doing th... (read in full...)
I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me...
Q. Hi I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me! I split with someone just over a month ago. Was a year long nightmare relationship. All is good, I can't stand the bloke. He rang Friday night trying to explain things 'cuz he l...
A. 7 August 2007: Oh blimey no, hes not my kids dad! hehe Kids dad is a decent guy & i certainly wouldnt of had children with this guy im talking about!
Was only with this guy just on a year, and hes not on drugs either, yet. Although thats not my concern now.
I wou... (read in full...)
He brought up that I'm on dating sites - but why is he looking if we're going out together?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, we broke up 4 months ago, but 6 weeks ago he phoned me and asked me out, so we started going out again, while we were broke up I joined a dating agency, the other day he said to me how many dating sites was I ...
A. 7 August 2007: You must still have your profile active if he found you on a dating site?
Do you think you did the right thing getting back together? an ex is usually an ex for a reason. Maybe both of you are fed up that you havent met someone else quick enou... (read in full...)
What do you do when the person who you love, dream and care about is unavailable?
Q. Please tell me, what do you do when the person who you love, dream and care so much about, is unavailable and its unlikely for you to ever be with them cos they're already married and are quite older than yourself? I'm so depressed and i can't take ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
In time it will pass, trust me. I had a crush on someone once, they werent available. I would walk the way they drove to work the time i knew they would be driving past. Made sure i had my best get up on! I was verging on stalker status! Only... (read in full...)
What's the point of remaining in a relationship that is never going to grow into something more?
Q. My story is a little long, my major complaint is I don't believe in MEN anymore, or in my sense of judgement.. My ex boyfriend, I thought he was a real angel but he didn't treat me so great. Like I would always have to be the one to call him and ...
A. 7 August 2007: Sounds like hes basically doing just that, saying theres no promises from him, if you last its a bonus.
You need to stop trying to communicate with him on the internet though. I dont think the internet holds a place in relationships. You need to b... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex? Not even being intimate with other girls has worked!
Q. I am having serious problems getting over someone. I feel like I am obsessed with the other person. We dated for 4 months and broke up 6 months ago. We were very intimate and I have never felt a connection to someone like that since my 1st which was ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
It sounds like you are building this woman up to be something shes not & its clouding you. If you were only together 4 months i wouldnt of thought it could be anything more than an obsession after having split 6 months ago.
You didnt say the ... (read in full...)
I have developed a close friendship with a teacher eight years my senior who is single and now that I am no longer his pupil, I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with him.
Q. I graduated high school this year and am off to university. I have developed a close friendship with a teacher eight years my senior who is single and now that I am no longer his pupil, I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with him. Can ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
At the end of the day, you're not his pupil anymore so what you both do is your own business.
When i was at school i remember our art teacher struck up a relationship with an ex sixth former, and as far as i know they stayed together.
See how i... (read in full...)
I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site...
Q. I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site, when I asked him why he just said it was to have a look, I find this strange, we are both in our 40s. I can't really understand why he would want to do this?...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi Has he actually signed up for it as in paid, or just been browsing? Cuz you can do that without joining. To send and reply to most of them you need to pay. Apart from girls date for free, and even that the guys have to pay for. This doesnt so... (read in full...)
I finally called, just to find out that he's back with his ex...
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 1/2 weeks ago, (our anniversary is in about 20 more days) He did the whole not talking thing to me, and I couldn't bottle it in anymore that I wasn't over him, so I finally called, just to find out that he's back ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi Its awful isnt it when they go back to their ex. I had a guy do that to me when i was very young. My 'first love' and all that. She was older than me and was into things obviously i wasnt at 15. But you just have to dust yourself off and get out ... (read in full...)
I don't want to split up with him but I don't know what to do, should I believe him?
Q. I had been going out with a lad for a few months when I found out he had been cheating on me. We split up for 6 months and then he asked me to go back out with him and that he was sorry for what he had done. I have now been going out with the sam...
A. 7 August 2007: Spidey senses are saying no! What are your instincts telling you? C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my ex if he tells me he loves me and will make more effort this time?
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months before he dumped me saying he didn't love me anymore. This was about 3 months ago, we are still very good friends as I was not angry with him because he was honest with me about how he felt which is ...
A. 7 August 2007: The new guy already is second best. You just said if it doesnt work with your ex. You cant really expect him to wait in the wings to see if it works out with your ex, if he did that, i would think hes a doormat personally. I would be honest with t... (read in full...)
What's the point of remaining in a relationship that is never going to grow into something more?
Q. My story is a little long, my major complaint is I don't believe in MEN anymore, or in my sense of judgement.. My ex boyfriend, I thought he was a real angel but he didn't treat me so great. Like I would always have to be the one to call him and ...
A. 7 August 2007: What a let down :o( Well, thats the trouble, like i said in another answer to someone, you have to take gambles in life or you stay stood still. We all beat ourselves up about someone we have been with, blimey i did it too. Was with him about a... (read in full...)
Not sure my partner is over his ex... I sometimes feel as if he doesn't even like me!
Q. I'm 22 currently dating a man who has only had one relationship. He was with her for 5-6 years and they have a child together. So they have to stay in contact. I don't think he is over her. He never says "i love you" to me unless i say it first. I ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi He might not be in love with you as much as you are with him. I dont see the connection with the ex though. Has he dropped hints he still has feelings for her. You said you need to feel loved to be happy, maybe hes not the same, not everyone i... (read in full...)
His friends take their girlfriends.
Q. My boyfriend is always going away with his mates for weekends every three or four weeks. Sometimes some of his mates take their girlfriends. When should I start putting my foot down and how do I talk to him about this and explain my feelings ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
Im not too sure i would be happy with my guy going off on boys weekends every month, now n then maybe, but once a month? Its normal for people to grow out of that when they are in a relationship.
Thats just my opinion though.
If you think yo... (read in full...)
Do you think i deserve to be treated in this way?
Q. please help!!! my boyfriend is starting to be very controlling, for instance he always wants me to do what he says, listen to him, leave him be when he doesnt want me around and on top of that he is so mean to me. He talks to me like I am a little ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
I think you probably moved in together a bit too quick? 10 months & already living together?
If you have lied to him, hes probably put a barrier up now. Very hard to knock that down again im afraid.
But once you crumble to someone & start begg... (read in full...)
Slept with the ex... but he still wants space. Will we ever get back together?
Q. Hi everyone, ive got a problem that i could do with some advice about. My ex broke up with me about a month ago. I was madly inlove with him so i was distraught when it happened. It was all very sudden and his reasons were that he was worried ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
Im sure this question was posted the other day, but yes i think he was drunk, and if he had been sober, he wouldnt of done it. Someone that uses you isnt worth waiting for.
Heres what will happen next, he will txt you again, probably this wee... (read in full...)
I have not got any time for her anymore.
Q. I feel like I don't want to be friends with my "best friend" anymore. When she calls, I don't want to talk to her. She's been really skanky lately, drinking to the point of having to go into emergency, taking pills, neglecting her 2 y/o daughter, ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
I sympathise with you, been in a similar situ recently with a couple of people, one, my ex from years ago that keeps making the same mistakes & the other my own brother, similar to your mate with the booze & drugs & it drags you down i can tell... (read in full...)
I don't want to rush her but the bottom line is that I'm completely in love with this girl.. !
Q. Last June I picked up the phone and called a friend I went to high school with. I literally hadn't seen or spoken to her for 12 years. We went out for drinks and since then we've been spending time together at least once a week (maybe a little ...
A. 7 August 2007: So my question is... should I just relax, not make any moves, play it cool and wait it out... see what happens?
Yes...This one!!
She sounds lovely. Very honest up front person. Well worth the wait dont you think???
Good luck
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
He loves to eye other women be it any public gathering.
Q. I have been married for the last 5 years and I share a very good relationship with my husband but there is one thing we always disagree on. He loves to eye other women be it any public gathering. I have confronted him a lot of times and I am very ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
I dont think there is anything wrong with window shopping, as long as people resist the urge to buy!
But if he is lingering looking, thats rude.
My ex used to do that, i walked behind him once & watched him doing it to the extent his head tur... (read in full...)
We agreed to remain friends but others guys I date, don't compare! What can I do?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, we were together for just over a year. Its only been a couple of weeks ago since we split up. And its my first proper break up. I still love him but not nearly as much as i did, he broke my heart, and i just ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
Its probably just too soon to be honest.
Ive recently split from a year long relationship & i cant stand him to be quite frank. He didnt cheat but he lied, but denied lying all the way through. Thankfully i dont fall in love with guys that i d... (read in full...)
I'm back with the man who's heart I broke; is he out for revenge or could he really still love me?
Q. I was in a relationship with a guy 15 yrs ago and just recently reunited with him. He acts like i did no wrong, when actually i broke his heart. could he be trying to set me up for heartache or could he really still have feelings for me after all ...
A. 7 August 2007: If it was that long ago, he probably has gotten over it! I would be surprised someone would harbour hatred for that long. My mates just got back with her husband, they never divorced, and she had a child by someone else while apart from him. Cheate... (read in full...)
He doesn't make noises when we have sex anymore!
Q. my boyfriend never moans. He used to long time ago like 8 months ago when we just started talkin, but he used to moan jus from me kissin on his neck, now when i kiss on his neck he doesnt moan, but he does enjoy it a lot. And when we have sex he ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi I just think hes so relaxed with you now, he doesnt feel he needs to put on the 'act' anymore. I must of led a sheltered life because ive never actually been with a guy that 'moans'! And im 36 (not saying ive been with shed loads though lik... (read in full...)
He treats me like his cook and cleaner! I love him very much but just don't seem to be getting anything back...
Q. hi there i have been in a relationship for 2 yrs i met him as i had just split with my ex husband i have 2 children and he has 1 he is currently in the army and i only see him on weekends but when he comes home he totaly disregards me and it doesnt ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi That would drive me nuts too. You're suppose to feel happier being with someone, not used. First off i would sit down and talk to him, explain how you feel, its your right. secondly, then decide what you want. If you feel you're a convenience ra... (read in full...)
Feeling in a mess with my life...
Q. hi im in abit of a mess with my life, all my life i have been with men thinking they were kind caring men but they have never been they all have hurt me and beaten me. now im with a guy now and its complicated because at one point i used to have f...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi A lad of 15? Here in the Uk thats illegal. How do you get involved with a 15 year old? What age are your children? You shouldnt stay with someone for childrens sake. Lots of us have tried that in time but if you dont love someone thats not a... (read in full...)
I know that boys "cum" sperm but do girls come? What is it? Confused!
Q. Hi i was wondering, do girls cum? I thought only boys came because well its sperm but what is girl cum ? Do they cum during sex? If they do where does it go because the guys penis is up there i dont get it. Or is it only some girls who come? or do ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi
In porn films women ejaculate across the room! In reality, not many do. Some women ejaculate, but im not too sure how common it is. I remember talking to a counsellor friend once and we were saying how many guys are left feeling inadequate beca... (read in full...)
Do I start again with my ex-girlfriend?
Q. Do I start again with my ex-girlfriend? Ok, here we go - I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years about 9 months ago. I broke up with her because we fought alot about everything, but mainly because I was interested and curious about this other...
A. 7 August 2007: I think the person below is spot on.
I was wondering if your age is printed wrong on here.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
My kids don't like my ex who I've started seeing again but he wants us to move in with him
Q. I have a problem. I'm a single mom with 2 boys ages 12 and six, and just got back with my ex who they know but it seems that they don't like going to his house for some reason. My ex wants me to move back with him, do you think it's fair for me to ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hi Its hard to say because you haven't given much information about this situation, like why dont your children like him? So i would be surprised if anyone can give an opinion. I dont think its always a good idea to let your children live your ... (read in full...)
I just can't make her orgasm from penetrative sex... tell me how I can through oral?
Q. I'm in a very loving relationship with this girl, and have to ask for 2 pieces of advice here. 1. She does not orgasm during intercourse. She says she has never been able to. Being a man, I look at this as a challenge, and am continually diss...
A. 6 August 2007: Hi For starters, only 30% of women will orgasm through intercourse alone. Fact! Might be even less in fact. Most women need clitoral stimulation. Its nothing personal to you at all. If you can do both at the same time you might be onto a winner! ... (read in full...)
My wife caught me talking to other women on dating sites.
Q. ok well here goes. i used to be on all these dating sites. then i got married. but i continued to go on them well. the other day my wife caught me, and seen that i had been talking to these women. so she then accused me of lieing, cheating, and meet ...
A. 6 August 2007: Hi Im a very unforgiving person unfortunately so i wouldnt be able to ever forget that and would basically, turf you out. Someone doing something like that behind my back would feel as bad to me as cheating anyway. But i guess you can keep tryin... (read in full...)
when a couple make rules in their relationship, does that mean they are very controlling of one another or is it a good thing to do?
Q. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 10 month anniversary yesterday. Lately we have been arguing a lot about stupid little things. We get to the point where neither one of us want to deal with eachother anymore and we pretty much break up but then ...
A. 6 August 2007: Hi I wouldnt say so no. Whats wrong with having a few ground rules? I think its a good idea. As for the splitting up all the time, thats never a good thing, so if it works what hes suggesting, then it worthwhile isnt it. Lots of people want leav... (read in full...)
Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any ...
A. 1 August 2007: I would buy a pregnancy test just to know. You wont get a false positive if you are.
But i had tender breasts, and i mean extremely tender breats for just over a month & was convinced i was prenant.
But wasnt.
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
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