I'm falling for my step-brother (not blood related) Is this wrong ?
Q. Hi, I need some advice please. I live in Queensland with my mum and I am 19 years old. My parents divorced 6 years ago and dad remarried 2 years ago and lives about 1100 miles away interstate in Victoria. By his marriage, I have 2 step brothers wh...
A. 24 October 2008: it can just be that you two are too close in proximity with one another. in other words, you feel the excitement of being with one another because you are so close to another. think of it this way, had u met him on the street, and u did not live ... (read in full...)
Looking to finally move on...
Q. I have been single now for about 4 weeks, I ended a 13 month relationship for the 2nd time and this time for good. The last time I eneded it we got back to together in about 4 days. I have gone through the hurt and the anger and now find myself at ...
A. 9 February 2008: thank you for your advice but i see myself as a romantic in a pool of non romantics. I firmly believe in winning a womans heart in any way possible but my ex just did not want that. We were together for over a year but i played into what she wanted ... (read in full...)
Do I listen to my head or my heart? I know it's a bit complex but what do you guys think?
Q. I few years ago I fell in love with a much younger man, in a very strange way. I never acted on it. He was in love with me too, but we never did anything about it. As it was hopeless in so many ways. One is I'm married and have children, they are ...
A. 9 February 2008: the young man or the man who has been there through everything. its hard. do u stay with your husband becuase u feel bad for him or go for the young man who u know wont get married to you? you cant have your cake and eat it too so its a matter of ... (read in full...)
Coming to an end... or rough patch?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am completly in love with my boyfriend of almost a year and a half and I want to be with him forever but latley we have been having some issues... getting in a lot of little fights over nothing, been to busy with our schedule...
A. 9 February 2008: well i just got out of one of the same kind, but the difference being not only did we have "nothing arguments" but she had started talking to another man. we were together for 13 ans a half months and my work and school schedule may have had ... (read in full...)
Is the problem in the bedroom a sign of bigger troubles?
Q. Ok so i have a problem arising and I also have a seperate question for relationship veterans. So my first issue is taking place in the bedroom. We are both working and going to class so our time together outside of class is limited. But lately ...
A. 16 October 2007: thank you for your advice...maybe we are just not meant fot one nother....i have been thinkin about that... i will update the situation once i talk withb her. to be honest i do not see myself fixinf this thing again, i am young and i dont feel sex ... (read in full...)
Can a guy and a girl be platonic "friends" and nothing more?
Q. I need opinions here! Do you think it is possible for a guy and a girl to just be friends or is there always/almost always romantic feelings at some time for the other person?...
A. 6 September 2007: I would have to agree with Duce on this. I am actually finding myself having more and more friends who happen to be girls. Whether it be at work or class i find myself talking to more women than men. At first i felt like i was doing something wrong ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend haven't been the happiest lately, and I'm attracted to another who doesn't know I have a boyfriend!
Q. Hi, I'm having relationship problems. I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for the past 8 months. Lately we have been very rocky. I've started to fall for another guy, i've only met up with him twice, i haven't 'cheated' on my boyfr...
A. 3 September 2007: Do your boyfriend of the past 8 months a favor and break up with him. By you saying that you are falling hard for this new guy should set off something inside you morally and give you the motive you need to break up with your boyfriend. Although you ... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 31 August 2007: thsnk you duce00, your advise is greatly appreciated. well this has just all been a dramatic sequence of events that has led to us working things out. after talking it out, we came down to a mutual agreement. i give her the time she wants, but if am ... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 29 August 2007: so we talked today. it felt so good to laugh and stuff with her. its clear that this is still too strong to end, and we couldnt keep from hugging each other. so we are working thru things slowly, and she says she has been a mess ever since. i still ... (read in full...)
I'm happy in my relationship and a guy at uni is interested. Whats the best way to let him down gently?
Q. Hi! I'm happily together with a very nice young man for nearly 3 years and I love him very much. At the moment he is working at the other end of town and I'm learning for exams at university, so we don't see eachother everyday. Last week I was lear...
A. 29 August 2007: well just keep it short and sweet like u said. there are keywords that will ring off an alarm to a guy saying, ok she is not interested. they should be in this order: nice guy, but....so maybe write:
(interested persons name),
Hi i am flatt... (read in full...)
I'm happy in my relationship and a guy at uni is interested. Whats the best way to let him down gently?
Q. Hi! I'm happily together with a very nice young man for nearly 3 years and I love him very much. At the moment he is working at the other end of town and I'm learning for exams at university, so we don't see eachother everyday. Last week I was lear...
A. 28 August 2007: well first off your boyfriend is very lucky to have someone like you who is honest and faithful. usually when a girl would tell me, "oh, i already have a boyfriend" i would read that as her saying that she was open for a no strings fling. 9 times ... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 28 August 2007: i will suggest that idea of the list. it sounds like it can be brutal, but in the end it seems like the way to work things out. i know i am still in love and i know she still feels the same, when she called she was crying and i heard her throat ... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 27 August 2007: ok so we both have class together and we ignored each other all day. we got in touch a few minutes ago and we both agree that we feel weird not talking to each other. i told her i want to have a one on one with her and talk this out. i cannot tell u ... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 27 August 2007: thank you for the advice, i will definately go pick up that book now. its the hardest thing ive had to do relationship wise, but i have had much harder life struggles, so i will try think of that as i get thru this. well i will just have meaningless ... (read in full...)
I love her so much but I know I need to give her some space.
Q. I have been getting used to not seeing my girl as often as before. I am bothered sometimes by the fact that I make every effort to see her. I mean sometimes it just feels like I really really want to see her but those feelings are going away ...
A. 15 August 2007: you know u guys are right. i am not clingy but i will admit to giving up doing something else to hang out with her. as for not talking to her when i actually can, that sounds like some good advice. it makes sense that we need to see less of each ... (read in full...)
I always seem to get attached so quickly in a relationship, why does this happen?
Q. I feel like I get attached so easily either in relationships or even meeting a guy for the first night and developing feelings. I don't understand how it happens but is there anyway that I can become not so attached. I'm really starting to think ...
A. 15 August 2007: you may not want to put all your eggs in one basket. so if u meet a guy and develop feelings, try to hang out with your friends more often. become active on your own. i mean u still are young and you are going thru alot of changes, so that is a ... (read in full...)
I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?
Q. I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?...
A. 15 August 2007: your still young. i dont know how sexually active you have been, but it takes time to build up stamina. i dont know whether u want to last longer for yourself or your girl, but having great sex does not mean lasting an hour. if you are feeling like ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me doesn't want to talk to me, or does he like me and wants to get to know me?
Q. Hi All I need some advice. I've met someone I like a lot, except there's one problem, I'm not sure if he likes me, so could you please give me your honest opinion. Here's what's happened. Well, this guy asked me for my number, and we texted each o...
A. 14 August 2007: well see how it goes on your drink date. he is interested if he has agreed to go out for a drink. now its just time to see how much u two can get along. good luck... (read in full...)
Is this distance a sign of maturity or a lack of interest?
Q. i love spending time with my girlfriend, i wish we lived together, and she has expressed the same feeling with me. i understand that she needs her time with her family and i need time with my hobbies/activities. but when we first met we would text ...
A. 13 August 2007: thank you all for your thoughts on the matter. ... (read in full...)
I felt angry and jealous that he might want to look at a bunch of naked women with plastic jugs!
Q. I got pissed off at my boyfriend for glancing at a strip club when we were driving to dinner, is this psycho jealous of me? We've been seeing each other for 6 months and I've finally come around to accepting that he may look at other girls from ...
A. 13 August 2007: your boyfriend is what we all call "a guy". not to make light of your situation at all, but if u got angry at him lookinh at a strip club, i think you would break up with him if u knew what was inside his head. i have a girlfriend of 8.5 months, and ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me doesn't want to talk to me, or does he like me and wants to get to know me?
Q. Hi All I need some advice. I've met someone I like a lot, except there's one problem, I'm not sure if he likes me, so could you please give me your honest opinion. Here's what's happened. Well, this guy asked me for my number, and we texted each o...
A. 13 August 2007: ok being a guy first off i would take his story with a pinch of salt...it could be coincidental or it could just be him just not wanting to talk to you. again being a guy, if a girl was to ask me out for a date it would make me feel like i have the ... (read in full...)
Why does she think I'll leave her?
Q. It's been 7 months into our relationship and dated only twice.... We both express our feelings (i.e. I love you) over 50 times a day through the mobile phone.... everything goes fine... but don't know sometimes she acts very weird... she says that ...
A. 13 August 2007: this is just her "asking" if you will for your undivided attention. she wants you to reaffirm to her that u truly do love her. i have been in my relationship for about 8 and a half months so we are just about in the same time frame. i dont know how ... (read in full...)
I've been blindsided and just end up getting in terrible moods constantly because I want him, just not with a cigarette in his hand...
Q. I'm only seventeen, but I have been dating my current boyfriend for eight months. He isn't what you would call the perfect "bring home to meet mom" kind of guy but he's very sweet. The only problem is he smokes cigarettes. Now to most people this ...
A. 13 August 2007: the only thing i can advise because i am in a similiar situation is to ask him straight to stop smoking. then throw some hard facts at him. dont come off as one of those "truth" commercials, but show genuine concern for his well being and ultimately ... (read in full...)
A man being nice to me is a sign of weakness!
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up 6 months ago because he cheated on me, however during our relationship he was the sweetest nicest man in the world, although around the time he cheated he treated me in the worst possible way but I just kept running back ...
A. 12 August 2007: i dont think until u forget about the last man you will not have too much success with any future ones. as far as you seeing being nice as a sign of weakness, it could just be cuz you are still thinking way too much about your ex and could just be ... (read in full...)
He only gets hard if I touch his thing... why isn't the thought of it enough to turn him on?
Q. My Boyfriend only gets hard when I go down on him or give him a hand job!! It is as if us making out isnt enough, i am worried it is not me that turns him on, I feel if anyone else was touching his penis he would still get hard. I have never had...
A. 12 August 2007: i would not read too much into this...i sometimes need a little physical contact from my gf to get things started. it could also just depend on the mood and the setting too. but definitely nothing to be worried about. ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about the drop off in sex?
Q. i am a 21yr old male and i have been in a relationship for a little over 8 months. when we first met the sexual attraction to one another was unbelievable, but lately i fear that the passion is being lost. when we first met we both were only doing ...
A. 12 August 2007: thank you for that. i have never held a relationship this long, my previous longest was only about 4 months and that was way back in high school. after that relationship in high school i really just did not wanna deal with the pressures of a ... (read in full...)
What good first liners can i say to ask a girl out. Secondly what are good places to go to on a first date?
Q. i was at a party last night and there was a really attractive girl there. the problem was that i couldn't get the courage to ask her out, even with a bit of alcohol down me. Anyway it's too late now to ask her out but I just need some advice. ...
A. 12 August 2007: hey
humor is usually a good start, but try not to be completely drunk when approaching a girl. it would show just a little bit more interest from you if u went up to a girl with your first drink in hand and then once you break the ice, the two ... (read in full...)
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