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Been through enough to give people help on some of their problems. I love helping people.
I do post a lot of my problems myself as i hate keeping things bottled up, this is my way of release and this brings me closer to other peoples' problems.
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It was so painful, every time I think about trying it again, I freak out.
Q. Hey Im 16 Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time a few nights ago and i was so nervous that it was like there was no hole at all.He tried using his finger and it hurt so much. It was so painful,why was it so sore ? ..a...
A. 7 April 2010: I know exactly how you feel, its scary i've been through it.
As the posts below have said it's all down to being relaxed, the more nervous you are the more tense your muscles will be.
Have you been fingered before? Has it hurt in the past... (read in full...)
Girls - Is a 6 inch penis big enough?
Q. I just turned 17 and currently have a penis size of 6 inches erect. girls is that good? also will my penis grow over the next couple of years as i continue to grow?...
A. 26 August 2009: plenty.... (read in full...)
Can my virginity affect my growth?
Q. hi, I am 22 and I am a virgin. I am slim, I want to ask can my virginity affect my growth? because people say that if u are a virgin that u will not be fully developed. ...
A. 19 August 2009: No. Not in any way,shape or form does virginity affect growth. ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a man has had sex already?
Q. how do you know if a man had sex already? would it take time for them to ejaculate? and if they havent had sex in a while would they ejaculate quicker?...
A. 19 August 2009: There is no way to know other than to see their reaction towards sex- that can sometimes not even be the truth. But there is no physical way you can find out. Confidence is a huge factor to knowing whether or not someone has had many sexual ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get itchy "down there'' after shaving?
Q. Ok this isn't really a problem but I just wanted some advice from the gals out there. Is it normal to get really itchy after shaving 'down there' or is it just me? In which case should I use a hair removal cream instead? I could really do with some ...
A. 15 June 2009: Yep it's totally normal but very annoying!!... (read in full...)
Why does my stomach hurt after first time sex?
Q. Okay, so i had sex for the first time yesterday. It was great and all and it didnt hurt when we did, but later on that day and today my stomach started hurting. Im just wondering if thats normal, since it was my fist time....
A. 10 June 2009: Yep, dont panic that's normal. Happened to me and a lot of my friends.
Don't worry, hope it stops soon. X... (read in full...)
Being short...
Q. How do women feel having a short guy? To me it bothers me here or there. Has we are all the same lying down. But what if the guy has some hangups about his height being shorter than his partners how would you feel?...
A. 9 June 2009: Personally i have a thing for tall men, but that's just me. I don't think many woman care unless he is shorter than them. I've gone out with a very short guy, ( i am just 5ft4) and he was basically the same height. Personally for me, this was a big ... (read in full...)
How can I help my son with his drug addiction?
Q. I don't know if I can help him (my son and his drug addiction.) Presently he lives with me and I want help, but he is not really ready to quit. I don't know if he will ever quit, but WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP? What do you think... what is the most comm...
A. 9 June 2009: To the writer below. Sadly it is not as easy as that- to just get a girlfriend. I was a girlfriend to my ex. He was a completely drugged up guy. This emotionally screwed me up- having an unstable boyfriend on a different drug every weekend. For him ... (read in full...)
Can a guy ever be just friends with a girl?
Q. Is it possible for a guy to be best friends with a girl and never get feelings for her?...
A. 6 June 2009: Yes, one of my best friends is a guy. And he is going out with my friend. We are not attracted to eachother so yes, you can be just friends with a guy...BUT...too be honest it doesn't happen a lot.
I think a lot of time the girl or guy can thin... (read in full...)
I like him, but he's a player. What do I do?
Q. There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and ...
A. 13 April 2009: honestly these are harsh words you about to recieve and i know you will be disappointed to hear them - i was and still am disappointed every time i fall for a player
...you need to forget about him seriously. The deeper you get the more hurt you... (read in full...)
I want to know really how to find people to date and how to become more confident around guys.
Q. I'm 14 and I've only ever had one boyfriend, it's not that I don't want one its just I never seem to be interested in guys and they don't seem to be interested in me either. It hadn't bothered me until now but now moat of my closest friends all have ...
A. 4 January 2009: to find guys to date you can't just click your fingers.
Maybe find a group of guy friends and if there is one that you fancy then let it lead on from there. You are so young but i know how it feels, you just want what a lot of people around you ... (read in full...)
Love at first sight - do you believe?
Q. do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...
A. 3 January 2009: I believe in lust at first sight which can DEFINATLEY lead to love very quickly.
Uncle Phill has the answers.
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My boyfriend wants love bites on his neck!
Q. hey everyone my bf always asks me for lovebites on his neck but i dont know how to take lovebites :( can anyone help me with this please....
A. 27 December 2008: heyy.
Easy Peasy - start kissing his neck, get him in the mood then slowly suck on it, maybe give a little bite if you want to :P
have fun x... (read in full...)
I think my little sister is having sex. How should I handle this?
Q. I’m 20 male and have a 15 year old half sister who leaves with my Dad. I know she has had a bf for the last 4-5 months of which I didn’t think anything of it. The problem is, whilst I checking her social networking site for weird people and stuff...
A. 2 October 2008: you are a lovely brother for caring about your sister but honestly let the girl lead her life. Hopefully she will make the right decisions..x... (read in full...)
I have not had my period for two months, what could be wrong? I'm 13.
Q. I'm 13 years old, and have had my period since i was 11. I've never had sex before, but i haven't had my period for 2 months! What's wrong with me?...
A. 27 September 2008: Don't worry. Irregular periods are usual when you havn't had your period for a long time.
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Do people say what's in their heart while loaded up on alcohol?
Q. Is is true that people tend to speak the truth, and say what's truly in their heart when they are loaded? My b/f seems to have some difficulty being sweet and romantic to me, but when he's loaded he becomes poetic and loving, saying all the things ...
A. 26 August 2008: Alcohol for sure relaxes you and makes you lose your inhibitions. So yes for me i tell the truth when im drinking so to speak. ... (read in full...)
Preteen girl troubles
Q. Hi, I'm twelve years old. Six months ago I saw one most beatiful and intelligent girls on earth. She is(in my opinion) out of my league. It got to the point that I paid some of my friends to convince her that I was a good choice for her. During ...
A. 17 August 2008: how old are you? 10? 11? 12? Try not to worry about this sort of thing, your very young and have plenty of time to have teenage loves.This is just a crush. It's part of growing up so try not to worry if it doesn't all work out- there are plenty more ... (read in full...)
I have brown discharge before my period. Is this normal?
Q. is brown discharge normal? i seem to get this usaully before my period is it normal??...
A. 29 July 2008: yep that's normal, don't worry X... (read in full...)
Are girls turned off if guys have hairy asses?
Q. I've been complemented on having a nice and big ass, but the thing girls don't realize that i have a hairy ass. So here's my question, is it a turn-off, or do girls mind if guys have hairy asses??...
A. 28 July 2008: If they don't realise fine. Yet in general yess hairy asses are a BIG turn-off.
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How do I deal with my fear of attention from boys?
Q. Im 15 and really confused. i never have boyfriends enymore and it puts me on a all time low. Plus to make it worse i have never properly snogged a boy.All my friends have and they have done other things too. i gt scared when i get attention from ...
A. 28 July 2008: Uncle sneaker is correct, take his advice.
'Pulling' or 'snogging' really isn't what it's cracked up to be if it's with someone just for the sake of doing it.
You have got to really like someone for it to be special, that's the point. So don't ... (read in full...)
I have no drive or motivation in my life so how do I turn this around?
Q. can anyone please help me? to be honest i dn't know what is wrong with me. i feel like im not happy with my life. i have no drive, motivation or get up and go, for life. i feel like i find it so hard to live a normal life, im so disorganised,...
A. 25 July 2008: This lack of self motivation sounds a lot like depression.
I went through it at 14 - Age doesn't matter.
Too be honest, i know it may sound hard at the moment but the only way to stop this depression is to pick yourself up and realise that the... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an orgasm before ever having a period?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to have an orgasm before she's ever had a period?...
A. 22 June 2008: Ofcourse you can!!... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...
A. 10 May 2008: Firstly, why would your sisters laugh? They went through the exact same thing and so does every girl! You should be proud of becoming a woman :) Not ashamed.
Anyway...why do your sisters have to know?
Too be honest i was exactly the same... (read in full...)
He confessed that he's been sleeping with his ex, should I call off this relationship?
Q. dear readers, i have a small problem that i jus wanted some advice on i've liked his guy for a few months now, we swapped numbers about 3 onths ago n since then hae been txtin, callin etc. we have slept together a few times. the other nyt i was ...
A. 7 May 2008: Get out now. From what i have seen he likes you but has feelings for his ex. He's not going to trade up just yet. You'll get hurt.
I hope you make the right decision.
good luckkk :)... (read in full...)
Can a guy remain friends after oral sex?!
Q. Can a guy remain friends with a girl who gives him oral sex? How does he control his emotions around her, or is this different than making real love? OK, you guys out there, let's have it!!!...
A. 7 May 2008: Girls can come attached after a while. Believe me i have many friends who have gone into 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS', includinng me and have come out hurt. Guys can 'disengage' when having a relationship based on only sex.
So yes, a guy can remain f... (read in full...)
My mum forced me to end contact with this boy because of his past, but I like him! What do you advise?
Q. dear cupid, ive been kinda seeing this lad on and off for the past 7 months, but my mum doesn't like him because he has a bad past and i care a lot about what my mum thinks and me and her have a very close relationship. I really like this lad and ...
A. 7 May 2008: What was his past like, does your mum have a point? All this needs to be taken into consideration. Your mum is just trying to protect you from getting hurt. Mother's know best when it comes to relationships and teengers. They have been through it! ... (read in full...)
I'm I a virgin or not anymore?
Q. Help i know people will think im stupid for doing it but last nite me and b/f where doing stuff,and after when he was inside me he said he thought i was a virgin which i was at the time but never told him, Anyway when he was going further in it di...
A. 4 March 2008: Congrats, your no longer a virgin.
x x ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could get pregnant?
Q. Yesterday, my boyfriend was on top of me and he put his hand down his trousers and started wanking, he then had a little bit of cum on his hand and then a few minutes later he put his hand down my knickers and was going to finger me but didn't, he ...
A. 17 February 2008: Sadly. Yes if there was sperm on his fingers there is a chance of pregnancy. It's small but it's still there. Take a pregnancy test and be careful next time :)... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me?
Q. I have a problem, I meet this guy a while ago, I don't really know him that well but last night I saw him and things got a little frisky. So my question is can you get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me? All I know is that he did the ...
A. 17 February 2008: If any sperm gets close or inside you there is a chance of pregnancy. It's pretty small but sometimes you are unlucky: you can never be to careful. ... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: Bit of both to be honest. I need a guy with a sense of humour as well....picky i know. X... (read in full...)
On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?
Q. Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...
A. 31 January 2008: You idiot. Teenage girls worry about their appearance towards boys 24/7 and for her boyfriend to say that- the guy who's supposed to think she is amazing is very hurtful. I suggest you be more careful in the future.
It's all about learning..... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my boyfriend planned for us to reenact porn scenes...
Q. Hi I'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to see me squirt I need help my boyfriend is 18 and likes us to watch porn together then reenact it he got his best mate to join so we could reenact this scene with two boys one girl help please ...
A. 16 January 2008: If you don't wanna do it don't do it.. It will come back and haunt you at some point. Be rational about the situation, don't make a mistake that you regret later on. He sounds like he just wants you for sex to be honest.
Take Caree xx... (read in full...)
Does this sound like an orgasm??
Q. I'm 18 Years old. Recently started rubbing and tickling my clit. After a few minutes i get a strong urge to pee and my body tenses up. I can also feel and see my vagina beating. Is all this normal ? Does it sound like an orgasm ?...
A. 30 December 2007: Completely normal! Congratulations on your first orgasm!
Take care. x... (read in full...)
How do I keep a New Year's resolution?
Q. I know this isnt a sex etc related question but if possible can i have sum advice. Im planning to do the old new years resolution thing, and i was wondering if any1 has actually managed to keep theres, because i hear of everyone saying thet will...
A. 28 December 2007: DETERMINATION.
As Kenny said programme the mind, it's all about control. I would take Kenny's advice seriously. It's all that needs to be said.
Take care. I am sure it will work with a little determination!... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 28 December 2007: Why should you be humiliated?? It's your body. Different boys/men like different things! He could have even prefered it!
And i doubt he will say anything to the kids at school. Don't panic. Just act as though it never happened. I'm sure it won't... (read in full...)
Do the loudness and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment during sex?
Q. My gf and I just had sex for the first time. Does the loudness and the amount of noises and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment? Do moans mean that I am satisfying her sexually?...
A. 27 December 2007: Normally a moan can show enjoyment yet it's hard to answer this question as the loudness or the amount can be faked so watch out if it is "too much".
It can also depend on how comfortable you are with eachother.
Don't worry. It all depends o... (read in full...)
What is sticking sex?
Q. plz tel me what is the sticking sex...? or meaning of sticking sex....?...
A. 27 December 2007: Never heard of "sticking sex".
Are you sure you don't mean 'stocking sex' or 'stick insect' ???... (read in full...)
My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?
Q. im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...
A. 27 December 2007: Stop having sex with one of them. Follow your heart. Do the RIGHT thing and don't be let taken advantage of!... (read in full...)
To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?
Q. What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...
A. 27 December 2007: I like a smooth chest. Yet all women differ to what they like. Never A LOT of chest hair. A big turn off.
As for the pubic hair trimmed, yet some women may prefer shaven.
Different things turn on different individuals. ... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and my period has been very heavy, should I be worried?
Q. I'm 11 and I got my period October 10. It skipped in the beginning of November and my mum said it's normal. Then, I got it right on Thanksgiving! For December, I got right on Christmas! Weird! I think their's something wrong though, because last ...
A. 26 December 2007: You are perfectly fine, you can relax! All my friends, including me have had varied amounts of blood each month. I have found in the night i bleed much heavier than in the day. Each individual has a different menstrual cycle. Some people get cramps ... (read in full...)
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