Did I do something wrong? HELP Please advise!?
Q. Well, I´ve being having a long distance friendship with this guy I met in person quite some time ago. It happens that I was the one emailing and he replying every time. There I was battling to know if he was just polite or what. Until he sai...
A. 28 October 2008: My view is that he probably does feel a bit daunted about having to give a full reply to your long email, and he's putting it off. Not just a male thing, I am like it too, so I wouldn't take it to heart, especially if you are just friends. Why not ... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 28 October 2008: Please don't have your baby circumcised. It may be the norm in America, but it isn't in the rest of the world (UK included) unless for religious reasons.
There is so much debate over whether it can actually be detrimental to a man's sexual e... (read in full...)
Any idea what this lump could be?
Q. I have this hard bump on the inside of my vagina. Like, near the top, not near the opening. Near the clitoris I think. I am not sexually active and just want to know some ideas before I consult my doctor....
A. 28 September 2008: Hello - This post is probably a bit late, but I've just read and thought it was important to answer in case you were worried about about it being abnormal.
This sounds to me as if it's your cervix (entrance to your womb). This is a hard bump abo... (read in full...)
Am I mad to give up the chance of having a kid in the future by staying with him?
Q. Dear aunts, I am 30 years old and have no children. My boyfriend is in his 40s, has 2 kids and has had a vasectomy. Whilst I don't particularly want kids, am I mad to give up the chance of having a kid in the future by staying with him? You n...
A. 27 September 2008: Thank you very much for all of your wonderful advice. I really appreciate it. I will think a lot more on this - as you say, it is important. We have spoken about this, but as in 'are you ok with the fact that I cannot have kids?', to which... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me.
Q. My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me. they talk regularly on the phone, text a lot and meet up whenever they can. she lives over 200 miles away now but she is a threat to my relationship. my boyfriend chris ...
A. 26 September 2008: Hi there,
I totally understand how you are feeling, and it is completely normal. However, I do think this is something you are going to have to rationalize in your own head and learn to live with it if you are going to stay with him. They hav... (read in full...)
My ex and I had an on/off relationship with him going back to hsi ex every time. I felt horrible and insecure to know they are together soon after our break up. Help!
Q. I broke up with my ex two and a half weeks ago. Since then, I've been very good about not calling, and I was finally feeling good about myself and the situation. Then, yesterday, his ex-girlfriend's boyfriend wrote me a message over myspace telling ...
A. 24 September 2008: Hello,
I was really sad to read you putting yourself down in that question. What you have to remember is that you were obviously his first choice, his girl! She is clearly some silly blonde f$%ck buddy who he sees as always available to him. ... (read in full...)
Are his emails to his ex empty flirtation or leading to a fling?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year, and I am besotted by him. However, he is a very passionate and attractive man and had a number of romantic flings while with his long-term ex gf of 15 yrs (girl A - who he says he was with for the ...
A. 24 September 2008: Many thanks for reading my question and answering. Feel pleasantly reassured by hlskitten particularly, of course! But, as shandygirl says, I live in fear that he can't change his spots, but he doesn't really have the free time for a fling!
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