Having a hot and cold relationship with my ex... do you think he still loves me?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for two years. After our two years came and went, I broke up with him. We were constantly arguing, and I was constantly wondering if I truely wanted to be with him. After I broke the news that I wanted time to myself, ...
A. 17 August 2007: Hes doing what most couples do when they split, thinking better the devil you know, stay in the safety net of someone hes been with and forgetting why you split in the first place. If he really was serious about possibly getting back together in the ... (read in full...)
I'm a single Mom dating a man with depression problems! Should I continue dating this guy?
Q. I m a single mum with a 5 yr old boy. I ve got a boyfriend of nearly a year. Things have been fine up until the past month or 2 but now I m not sure that I want to be with this man. He has recently told me he has suffered with depression most of his ...
A. 14 August 2007: That sounds similar to how it was for me. Its strange isnt it that usually guys say us women are too soft! Mine so far are well behaved kids. My ex didnt like my 10 yr old daughter sleeping in my bed the nights he didnt stop over. Said shes too old ... (read in full...)
I caught my partner on the internet putting a profile on "sexsearch" (when I was 8 months pregnant)... !
Q. how can i tell if my partner is cheating? i caught him on the computer putting a profile on a site called sexsearch at four in the morning when i was eight mnths pregnant. I told him to leave but he begged me to not make him leave and when i asked ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
If he is a liar, then hes a liar. Not a lot you can do about that. Some peoples first reaction to anything is lie about it. I think thats probably a compulsive liar. Been there done that bought the t shirt with a guy like that.
Nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
I have been bitten by something for the past several nights!
Q. Okay, This is really gross. I have been bitten by something for the past several nights. I have welts, the size of mosquito bites, that are itchy, but they ooze a little bit the size of a pin-prick at the top. I don't think it is bed-bugs...
A. 14 August 2007: Hehe oh dear poor little thing.
As long as you get it sorted though.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I'm a single Mom dating a man with depression problems! Should I continue dating this guy?
Q. I m a single mum with a 5 yr old boy. I ve got a boyfriend of nearly a year. Things have been fine up until the past month or 2 but now I m not sure that I want to be with this man. He has recently told me he has suffered with depression most of his ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Does this guy live with you & your son? because i wouldnt have a guy thats not living in our house start lourding it over my kids.
If they live with you then obviously they have more say, but in a reasonable way. I am fiercely protecti... (read in full...)
What are the signs when a guy is using you? Am I just his "money comfort?"
Q. What are the signs when a guys is using you? He works full time but has called in sick I think too many times. I wish he was more responsible. I feel like I support him and me. Eventhough he gets paid twice as much as me. I am almost everyday buying ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
You are going to have to put a stop to this. My brother uses women for money & sex basically, and i think its awful.
My ex made sure everyone in his life had a use, even members of his own family and people will always tire of that eventual... (read in full...)
Why is my ex bf acting this way? Any ideas?
Q. I have a question about my ex bf. I broke up with him a few nights ago because he was treating me really badly and was basically emotionally abusive. Anyway, tonight my friend said she saw him when she was out geting dinner. He was really nice ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Ive never heard of anything like that being possible on a phone? I could be wrong but i dont think so?
Hes playing games simple as that. He thinks you fancy someone else by the sounds of it & is trying to turn people against you. Tell your fri... (read in full...)
I forgave my friend for kissing the boy I've liked for two years. Now I found out she's been doing other things with him!
Q. A few months back me and my "best mate" were at a friend's house, and the guy I'd liked for a year and half was there, she ended up kissing him right in front of me, like it wouldn't be painful for me. We were both quite drunk so when I got home I ...
A. 14 August 2007: Then like i said before, shes insensitive & i wouldnt be calling her my mate thats for sure.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm devestated... My knight in shining armour wasn't supposed to sleep around!
Q. I thought I had the perfect boyfriend. Yes he's been married twice but he has always appeared genuine and loving and he has been very good to me. He was my knight in shining armour, he swept me off my feet after a very abusive relationship. I ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Its horrible when someone isnt quite what you thought they were.
But i wouldnt be too hard on him. Hes probably ashamed if she is that bad to be honest! Thats why he didnt say anything. I personally think he should of done, the first time you... (read in full...)
I recently dumped my boyfriend of 2 and a half years I'm finding it very difficult as I love him so much!
Q. Hi, I'm new to the site! I recently dumped my boyfriend of 2 and a half years I'm finding it very difficult as I love him so much! We both agreed that we could do with some time apart and we are meeting in another month to see where things lie...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
You havent said why you split really? There must of been a reason? If you keep splitting & getting back together its a waste of time really.
Maybe he wants to get out there a bit & not be settled down.
You havent given the reasons for the spli... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid????
Q. I got the feeling my boyfriend was meeting a girl for lunch or to hang out at work. Here is why. Hope you don't get confused. Read carefully and thanks. On Thursday night, he only got about 3 hours of sleep.. due to a flat. I stayed at his p...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Um to be honest i think you are over anylising! You dont trust this guy do you. There is way too much thinking going on about clothing. But obviously we will only see a small picture of the grand scheme of things in here. But from what you have... (read in full...)
I had a fiance for 6 years and he cheated a year after our baby was born...
Q. I had a fiance for 6 years and he cheated a year after our baby was born, it's been almost a year apart from each other and he says he really loves me and sorry and it was a huge mistake. I still love him but I have a boyfriend that I care about but ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Its taken him a year to realise this? Are you sure he hasnt had a bit of fun away from you, his latest relationship hasnt worked out & he wants back now?
Not too sure i would take the gamble with him to be honest, but only you can decide t... (read in full...)
He gave me an STD.
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years and after high school we got an apartment together and went to college. Living with him was alright... we fought at times, loved at others, but there was a lot of stress in our life because of college and work ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Has he admitted he cheated? I had the hp virus years ago, i had only been with 2 people by that point. Maybe he got it from someone before you? I had an abnormal pap test, the first ever test i had when i was 21 & had to have loop diathermy, a ho... (read in full...)
I'm in a loveless marriage and involved with a neighbour.. what should I do?
Q. I married my best friend in 1996. Although physical attraction was not a priority for me, I do love this man as he's good and kind.We do not have children. We probably would have plodded on had I not met a man 15 years older who happens to live in ...
A. 13 August 2007: Ive been there & done that too, with the guy thats dependant on you. I was in that situation for 9 years & had 2 kids with him. I made all the decisions in the relationship, where we lived, where we went etc. He was just that sort of perosn. And i ... (read in full...)
I think he's bored of me. Am I being insecure?
Q. Hi There. I need advice on my relationship as after a year and a half together I am feeling terribly insecure in my relationship. My boyfriend of over a year and a half has never given me a reason to doubt that he is faithful and is very loving a...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
I think you hit the nail on the head with the 'honeymoon period' bit.
Its normal between 18 months & 2 years for that period to change into something more settled. Not all relationships can survive this because its about the time someone ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether I'm squirting or not?
Q. Hi, I have never cum with a boyfriend and when I have used sex toys I have what I thought was urinated at the end, and I don't know why that has happened to me therefore I've been weary whilst having sex because I didn't want this to happen think ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
On the films there tends to be a fair bit of 'stage props' used but there is such a thing as female ejaculaion yes. Its not all that common, but its not rare either, it can happen!
People have described it as wetting themselves. But thats wh... (read in full...)
When my son tells his girlfriend that she can't have her way, she threatens to harm herself.
Q. Hello, my nineteen year old son has a girlfriend. They have been dating for about 8 months, he away at University. Last term as he was preparing to go back she asked how 'can you choose university over me if you loved me you would stay'. Now she is ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Sounds like her mother knows your son is a good catch for her!
Well, its a nightmare when someone threatens to self harm or o.d. My ex pretended he had taken 50 double strength nurofen when we split once & i had to take him to a & e the followin... (read in full...)
What do guys think of girls who make the first move?
Q. I need to know ..... what do guys think of girls who make the first move? Ive met someone I REALLY like, we exchanged numbers and have met up a few times. Each time, we get on great and theres a definite attraction between us. The only thing is, I...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
The guys ive been with loooooove girls to make the first move. I quite like guys that are shy & we wouldnt get anywhere in life if we didnt make the first move on shy guys!
Times have changed, thankfully! Its all good.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I had sex with my brother and I'm worried about being pregnant.
Q. I had sex with my brother I only started my period a month ago and I know your not even supposed to have produced eggs by this point but I'm worried and I don't want tests or to tell anyone. Please help....
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Sorry, with your brother?
If you can, you need to go get the morning after pill. Will stop you getting pregnant. Its fine to take up to 72 hours after the event. As for your brother, how old is he? I think once your periods have started you migh... (read in full...)
I forgave my friend for kissing the boy I've liked for two years. Now I found out she's been doing other things with him!
Q. A few months back me and my "best mate" were at a friend's house, and the guy I'd liked for a year and half was there, she ended up kissing him right in front of me, like it wouldn't be painful for me. We were both quite drunk so when I got home I ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Sounds like your mate might be in competition with you!Maybe theres a deeper seated rivalry going on there.
If your not actually dating this guy, then the golden rules dont really apply to be honest.
Its a bit insensititve of her. Maybe shes j... (read in full...)
I lost 7 pounds on my diet thi week. My mate says that I'll now only lose 2 pounds at a time??
Q. Ive been on a diet for the last week and ive lost 7 pounds. Ive been eating correctly just healthier foods because i used to eat loads a day. Someone told me that next week if i continue to eat the same i will only loose 2 pounds. Why is this? ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Everyone is different. I didnt lose a pound for 4 weeks! But then it averaged at 1-2 lb a week after that. I never go below 9 & half stone though. Thats what my body is comfortable with.
Its healthiest to lose 2 lb a week. But if you are not ... (read in full...)
Because my parents hate my boyfriend's parents, they won't come to my wedding!!!
Q. Hi,my bf has asked me to get married in December but my parents feel i am too young,I am 19 and my bf is 30, so we decided to get engaged instead. I told my mum but noy my dad yet as i am scared to hear his negative response. My bf's parents are ok ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Arrrgggg i hate these situations. Your parents should be putting their differences with his family aside on this day & going to their daughters wedding!
You cant unfortunately make your parents see this sense if they refuse to.
But at the age y... (read in full...)
How do birth control pills work?
Q. How do birth control pills work? And after how long can I start having sex without a condom after starting the pill? ...
A. 13 August 2007: Blimey its been years since i was on the pill. I think its a week, but dont quote me on it! It might even be cycle related. If i was you, i would google it. Just type in the name of your pills & loads of sites will come up on it.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I just want to know if i should move on from my ex?..
Q. I dont really know where to start.... Basically i just want to know if i should move on from my ex?.. To cut a long story short; we went out for 18 months, we lived together, engaged etc, then i got a text from a guy in my past, i told this guy i ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Um Happytochat, if you think someone has lied to you, you will say you hate them & dont want anything to do with them, i know, ive done it myself recently lol
Im 36 & can be immature but i dont think saying you hate someone because they basicall... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend and her mates are going to try and ruin things with my new girlfriend and I by lying to her.
Q. Me and My ex girlfriend have split up for about 3 weeks now and I dumped her because we started having arguments and we never really took off if you know what I mean? I had many people tell me she was cheating on me with work mates and so forth. ...
A. 13 August 2007: Blimey i know where you're coming from with the keying of the car thing. That petrifies me about my ex of 5 weeks ago. He drinks in the pub next to my house most nights since we split & im hoping to god he doesnt touch my car!
I also had to chan... (read in full...)
I'm in a loveless marriage and involved with a neighbour.. what should I do?
Q. I married my best friend in 1996. Although physical attraction was not a priority for me, I do love this man as he's good and kind.We do not have children. We probably would have plodded on had I not met a man 15 years older who happens to live in ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Well there might well come a time when he does meet someone special?
Maybe you should bite the bullet & ask him where you would stand if you had split with your other half, totally not connected to him of course. See what he says?
But if yo... (read in full...)
Is this distance a sign of maturity or a lack of interest?
Q. i love spending time with my girlfriend, i wish we lived together, and she has expressed the same feeling with me. i understand that she needs her time with her family and i need time with my hobbies/activities. but when we first met we would text ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Maturity in the relationship i would say.
You couldnt possibly keep up the momentem you had in the early days. It always calms down a bit.
Its not really healthy to put all your eggs in one basket & focus solely on each other.
Its a natural... (read in full...)
Why does she think I'll leave her?
Q. It's been 7 months into our relationship and dated only twice.... We both express our feelings (i.e. I love you) over 50 times a day through the mobile phone.... everything goes fine... but don't know sometimes she acts very weird... she says that ...
A. 13 August 2007: Actions speak louder than words.
I expect she has been hurt in the past & everyone has left her. Or maybe it even goes back to her childhood, parents splitting or something along those lines.
Still earlyish days for you 2 so keep proving to her y... (read in full...)
I have been bitten by something for the past several nights!
Q. Okay, This is really gross. I have been bitten by something for the past several nights. I have welts, the size of mosquito bites, that are itchy, but they ooze a little bit the size of a pin-prick at the top. I don't think it is bed-bugs...
A. 13 August 2007: I would go along to the docs. My mum gets bitten by things and they swell up horrendously, the doctor gives her a course of meds to sort it. Some people react differently to others.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I get violent and moody just before my period! Help!?
Q. heya im just wondering for help from either a proffesional or another girl that has something to help her. Before im due for my period i get really violent and moody and shout at everyone for no reason or for the slightest thing. I want to c...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
I used to, and sometimes still do, suffer from PMT. Its starting to ease off now, but it does depend whats going on in my life at the time. I have been to the docs a few times with this. I dont get violent but i get extremely down, stressed & an... (read in full...)
I just wanted to know, can you get a disease by very passionate kissing, or by receiving oral sex?
Q. Hi, I'll try keep this quick and simple, and not graphic, I hope it gets posted, but I need some advice. I went on a date last week with a guy that was great and decent with great morals. We clicked instantly. We went back to his place where we k...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Dont panick!
Yes you can get std's through oral sex. You can buy something called a dental dam. Not too sure how romantic they are! But if you are really worried, use one of those.
But if you have your gruts on i wouldnt worry too much.
Kissi... (read in full...)
I felt angry and jealous that he might want to look at a bunch of naked women with plastic jugs!
Q. I got pissed off at my boyfriend for glancing at a strip club when we were driving to dinner, is this psycho jealous of me? We've been seeing each other for 6 months and I've finally come around to accepting that he may look at other girls from ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Guys are extremely visual usually. They like to look, but they wouldnt always touch. I wouldnt worry about that too much. Strip clubs are rare in this area & if i drove past one with a guy in the car i know for sure he would look, hoping to catc... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend a few weeks go, and it was the biggest mistake I have ever made...
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend a few weeks go, and it was the biggest mistake I have ever made. I love him so much, and the boy I cheated on him with now hates me and says he wants me dead! I didn't want this to happen and I told the boy I cheated on him ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
I agree with Stevi15. I would come clean.
Its done now & you cant go backwards. But if you dont tell him, you risk him finding out anyway (the other guy sounds angry & hell bent on revenge) or the guilt will eat away at you.
Explain t... (read in full...)
We split up and now a month on I'm getting these weird feelings, such as one day I want her and crave for her the next I dont give two shits if you get me.
Q. Hi fellows, Me and my girlfriend have split up for over a month now. I'm having some difficulties. We were engaged for a year but things got complicated and complex so we finished. We split up and now a month on I'm getting these weird feelings, ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
This is probably more to do with boredom & less to do with missing 'her'
When we split from someone there is a void. Theres going to be. There should be. But you have to ride the waves & get past that void by filling it with other activiti... (read in full...)
I asked him if we could get back together as I am miserable without him. He is unwilling to do this, but still says he loves me and that he is fine with us just 'seeing' each other.
Q. I split up with my first serious boyfriend a few months ago. However, we carried on sleeping together, talking everyday etc, basically carrying on as normal. Then he went travelling alone for a month, and on another holiday. During the time he was ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
I think you will just be at his beck n call to be honest.
I wouldnt go for that, but thats me.
He wants to be able to see other girls by the sound of it.
Saying you are miserable without him, gives him the green light to take advantage.
I wo... (read in full...)
I'm not willing to give the guy up for a non-physical internet relationship no matter how much my heart bleeds everytime I talk to Alex.
Q. hi. I used to never really have any friends and always stay at home on my computer. A total nerd (excuse the phrase) and I went out with a few guys on the net. It was meaningless till I met him - Alex. I know it was just over the internet bu...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
The internet 'relationship' was fine at the time, we have all been through times when its actually less hassle to have a flirt on line & stay indoors. But you cant do that forever, its unhealthy.
I used to use msn chat rooms years ago, and the ... (read in full...)
I've been involved with a married man for over a year, he says he's gonna leave, I just need to be patient.
Q. I've been involved with a married man for over a year, he says he's gonna leave, I just need to be patient. I love him with everything in me and can't stand the thought of being without him, but I'm so tired of being alone. Am I being too impatient? ...
A. 13 August 2007: This guy isnt going to leave his wife. If he was going to, he would of done it by now. Be patient is just another word for string you along.
I dated a married guy (years ago i hasten to add!) and he didnt even tell me he was going to leave her, he j... (read in full...)
My friend told me that she had sex with my boyfriend while I was at work!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. The other day I broke up with him becuase I was kind of starting to think that he was cheating on me and i got my little sisters phone and started texting him on it like I was just some random ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
Hard to say. But i would end this relationship, the guy isnt ready for anything heavy. If hes telling strangers on the phone hes single, where does that leave you?
And as for the mate, thats no mate. I would get rid of her too.
Shes dang... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend and her mates are going to try and ruin things with my new girlfriend and I by lying to her.
Q. Me and My ex girlfriend have split up for about 3 weeks now and I dumped her because we started having arguments and we never really took off if you know what I mean? I had many people tell me she was cheating on me with work mates and so forth. ...
A. 13 August 2007: I would speak to the new girl & explain it all.
Its too soon really to be getting into anything with anyone. My ex had literally just split with someone when i started seeing him & it was a nightmare i didnt need to be honest.
At first he told me ... (read in full...)
My brother spends his money on coke and pills... and my mom ends up bailing him out!
Q. Hi This is a question for my mum really. Its about my brother. He is 25. And drinks every night and uses coke or pills, whatever he can afford at the time. The thing is, any money he does get, he spends on partying and once its gone he is strai...
A. 13 August 2007: Thanks sandman. It just drives me nuts the whole time he takes advantage of her. Our mum is a bit soft on everyone. Its a nice quality shes got but people can take advantage of it. You dont expect her son to though ey!
She always says, thats it, ... (read in full...)
Having a hot and cold relationship with my ex... do you think he still loves me?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for two years. After our two years came and went, I broke up with him. We were constantly arguing, and I was constantly wondering if I truely wanted to be with him. After I broke the news that I wanted time to myself, ...
A. 13 August 2007: Punishing you, is my bet. By the sounds of it. Hes annoyed about it & wont let it drop that easy.
OR he has lost his faith in love at the moment.
Just see how it goes.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
He only gets hard if I touch his thing... why isn't the thought of it enough to turn him on?
Q. My Boyfriend only gets hard when I go down on him or give him a hand job!! It is as if us making out isnt enough, i am worried it is not me that turns him on, I feel if anyone else was touching his penis he would still get hard. I have never had...
A. 12 August 2007: Hi
I agree with DrPete. Not sure ive even thought about it before but all guys are different.
If he started losing it half way through, and he hadnt before, that might concern me a bit but not that.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Should I try to continue this relationship with my second cousin?
Q. i have a bf but he's my 2nd cousin.we're very far apart but we still have a communication by cellphone.. how many times i tried to forget him but i cant!!we love each other but i feel guilty!! but i really love him and i know he loves me!! what will ...
A. 12 August 2007: In the Uk second cousins are legal. But you would need to find out there where you are?
The distance thing is an issue though isnt it.
I would say thats your main problem.
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm in a loveless marriage and involved with a neighbour.. what should I do?
Q. I married my best friend in 1996. Although physical attraction was not a priority for me, I do love this man as he's good and kind.We do not have children. We probably would have plodded on had I not met a man 15 years older who happens to live in ...
A. 12 August 2007: Nightmare!
Well this older guy doesnt want to get hurt & hats off to him for standing his ground! If he had a downer about women & had been treated bad in the past, why would he put himself up for a fall in the future? He sounds a very sensible guy.... (read in full...)
Having a hot and cold relationship with my ex... do you think he still loves me?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for two years. After our two years came and went, I broke up with him. We were constantly arguing, and I was constantly wondering if I truely wanted to be with him. After I broke the news that I wanted time to myself, ...
A. 12 August 2007: Sounds like he might do, but also sounds like he was just jealous of the new guy.
I expect he sees you as used goods now too. Isnt keen because you shared romantic moments with someone apart from him for a couple of months.
I guess it depends ... (read in full...)
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