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writes:My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, because she likes talking to him... I am fed up and some nites I can't sleep. Is it time for me to more on..? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Wowie, I'd tell it's okay to talk to him every night until 3 a.m. as long as she does it in her own appartment. She obviously doesn't give a rip about your feelings. You deserve a good night's sleep lying next to a woman who loves you dearly get rid if this loser and go find the angel.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 There is not wiggle room here. She is cheating...PERIOD. Even if it hasn't become physical, it's still cheating. At this point, it sounds like she has no respect for you. Nobody who respects a partner would act this way. Except for a miracle, it sounds like the relationship is on the rocks. Is there any part of you that wants to forgive her or work on this? Would she want to work on the marriage?
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Well, I would ask her why she can't talk to you about such things rather than this other man. As hlskitten said, you need to talk things over with her in serious terms.
I think you better give her the ultimatum because right now she thinks she can have the both of you because you're not doing anything about it.
It is REALLY REALLY disrespectful of her to do this to you and I think you should tell her that she either gives up the phone calls, cuts out the b*llshit about him being nice to talk to and gets her act together AS YOUR WIFE or else your leaving.
A lot of women like two guys after them and I think that's why she's doing it, but if she wants to make her marriage work she's gotta get her act together as part of that bond or else it's just one person working the relationship and that can't work. Trust me.
That is a really stupid excuse of hers "I really like to talk to him" when she's got a perfectly good husband at home whom (I presume) is willing to talk to her as well in just the way that this other man does!
That's guilt tripping you and tbh a damn right pathetic excuse for getting two guys at once.
Sit her down, talk to her. If she takes none of it tell her that if she doesn't stop, you're leaving. I think only then she will see how serious you are, and again if she takes none of it, it's time to go.
Take care xxx
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reader, richka +, writes (31 July 2007):
ask her if she cheating ? if she say no and you dont belive her invesagate and keep your distance and dont leave any trace of who you are and dont do some thing you would reject for the rest of you life!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Yes~! this isnt right and its unfair for her to expect you to accept it!Its treating you badly. With no respect.You need to have a proper talk to her and make some decisions.She shouldnt be let to have her cake and eat it in front of your face!Take care of yourself.C xxxxx
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