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I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

Q.   I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...

A.   21 October 2007: first things first in this country you are able to give consent to have sex until you're 18 period end of story. now your step father is an adult and he knew better. he also needs help. you aren't resposible for anything that took place one even if ... (read in full...)

He wants to give me oral but I'm a bit self conscious about how I look down there.

Q.   My boyfriend wants to do oral on me (ive done it to him) and i want him to but I'm just a bit self concious about how I look! I know im probably worrying about nothing but i cant help it! i do shave but not right down there coz i dont wanna cut ...

A.   21 October 2007: don't worry about how you look down there no two viginas are the same. as for shaving ..... if you really want to or at least trim your vigina area up as well as the pubis major i would suggest that you use a electric trimmer and electric razor so ... (read in full...)

If I look down there it puts me off from having anyone touch me. How do I know I'm allright?

Q.   Heya. This is probally one of the most common questions you come across but you can never find an answer for, well at least i cant. Im worried if i look right or not down below and it puts me off from even having anyone touch me. How do you now if ...

A.   21 October 2007: i agree that not two appear the same however comparing your vigina to some elses is obsurd. you are who you are and you look exactly the way you are supposed to. if it is a real concern of yours and you believe that you are not like other girls ... (read in full...)

My husband and I are separated for a year now, after I confessed about my affair. 15 years of marriage, thrown away? Help, please.

Q.   i was with my long term partner for 15 years we had a son together,we split up a year ago,because i had cheated on him in all the years we lived together i never even looked at another man,but what happened my ex started going to the gym all the ...

A.   10 September 2007: why is it when a woman has an affair it ok and it supposed to be fixed with an " i am sorry" but when a man does it he is a S.O.B. and every woman in the world clamers to to poor wife's side bs. you got what you deserve and i don't think its ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with my bf or tell him I was unfaithful? I feel guilty.

Q.   Dear cupid, I have been in a serious relationship for exactly 3 years, I love my boyfriend to death but lately we've been going through a ton of problems, mostly trust issues. I had this strong gut feeling that he was cheating on me!!...

A.   9 September 2007: I agree with "Spanna's answer" but I alos want to point out that "if" you loved your bf as much as you say you do then this situation would have never existed in the first place. I don't care what anyone says about it's ok to have a "one time fling" ... (read in full...)

The love of my life has moved on and has a baby now

Q.   I was to late! The man who asked me to marry him ten years ago, has now had a baby with a new women. We text as friends, but i so wished it was me and not her who was with him. Im happy for them both, but it should have been me, having his baby. ...

A.   8 September 2007: some times we miss out on good things but that doesn't mean that better things aren't coming our way. regret is a disabling emotion sometimes. try not to dwell on what could have or should have been because it won't be. if you are truely happy... (read in full...)

Nervous about a potential 1st boyfriend! Help!!

Q.   (Ill try and keep it short) Im 15, never had a bf and never kissed. Now I like someone and he likes me back. Im pretty sure he'll be asking me out very soon. But im soooo nervous! Ive never opened up to a guy like that and Im not really sure how...

A.   8 September 2007: ok first, try not to think about being the best kisser on the planet. trust me there isn't one. second, the way an individual kisses is kind of like a signature of who the person is. the first girl i kissed at around 14 yrs old i was nervous and ... (read in full...)

I can't tell if she is being faithful or if it's just me being paranoid from the first two women I was married to that had no understanding of the word faithful.

Q.   I have been married for a short time... well this is my third marriage at age 39. Won't go into the first two. My wife is deployed and I am currently out of the service by about 10 plus years. This is her first time being deployed and my first ti...

A.   8 September 2007: a few picture were passed on to me that show her grabbing the inner thigh of one of her fellow soldiers. More closer to his groin than not. and it isn't just one picture it is 5 of them. I know what things gop on during deployment i am hopeful that ... (read in full...)

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